As quoted from http://www.tonyesheartbeat.com/2016/06/5-common-habits-naija-girls-exhibit-on.html?m=0

Tonye summarizes in this post 5 common habits that naija girls tend to exhibit on their first dates ..read below..


1) Bringing a friend or should I say friends along...Lets take a look at the Facebook user who narrated the story of how she brought her friends from work to see a movie with the guy she just met and then you know how it went ..the guy ended up buying tickets two tickets just for the girl he asked out ..n blah bla bla.
Common now..lets not blame the girl entirely, but you know how security conscious Nigerian's are with the whole kidnapping, killings , bombings ..you wouldn't blame a girl if she brings a watchdog with her just to be on the safe side..seeing she's just meeting the guy for the first time; the point is when a naija girl tells you she's bringing a friend know she might not be bringing just one ...but also let her know what's up with the payment ..are we going Dutch (50-50), more or less splitting the bills.


2) The reserved ones n girlies love to go the movies whilst the other go getters would prefer dinner at a Chinese restaurant and the razz ones would order pizzas from dominos and wine and take it somewhere else to eat, or have burgers in the car whilst listening to John legend.

Anyways my concern is what is it with Nigerian girls and cinema's and first dates, they keep acting like English synonyms and mathematical symmetrical lines . Haba!! Okay I get its an open place and you can't really get away with doing anything stupid but is that really the only first place..what happened to live band music or comedy shows...going to watch a play at terra kulture. (Thanks to Bolanle Austine Peters)..much respect to that one.


3)Their Outfits ..common now I get you want to make a very good first date impression but you really don't have to look overdressed- what do I mean , some girls would go on wearing a six inches Louboutin heels and end up walking funny ..oops* I meant ridiculously funny..lol. While some end up wearing dresses like they were being nominated for the AMVCA's ..chances are if you put so much effort like that, you're likely to get stood up or you'd waiting for an extra hour before he shows up..so look simple but don't look cheap or underdressed or go out in skimpy outfit, and be mistaken for a tramp. Look elegant but gracefully so you can easily take the exit n call an UBER Incase the date doesn't happen .


4) They Blow their dates to the whole country...Twitter and everyone on it would definitely know they are going out, especially if the guy is cute ..probably that's what happened to our Facebook user that was featured on instablog9ja , she didn't let her colleagues et a breathing space, she was doing tatafo..so they all wanted to come see for themselves this guy she has been hyping ..and dang!! Embarrassment blew up in there faces..so you've got date ..Nobody needs to know..well maybe just one friend or your mama !! You really have to be careful , a lotta jealous folks out there too, who'd be willing to have your piece of cake ..so chill and take things at a time , you can introduce them when you're familiar with the new guy. Capiche ?



5) Lastly.. some naija girls always have the tendency to blab so much about their personal life from past relationships to family drama's . God!! You're not even sure if he's gonna last longer than 2weeks and here you are spilling, and later you wonder how someone in sokoto got to find out about your story.....just fill him on the basics ..and see how far your relationship takes you.

I hope I have covered some of the common habits and trends naija girls exhibit in first dates..if you have some more do well to leave yours on the comment below and we can make the list even longer .