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Avoiding A Bad Marriage. by Opeomoope: 10:04am On Jun 24, 2016 |
After salvation, the most important choice
you will need to make is who to marry. This
choice
is so important that if you miss it, you will
suffer for long, if you get it right then you
will enjoy forever. A bad marriage can affect
every other area of your life. This subject is
so important, so many married people are
hoping to be single again so as to make the
right choice. If you are single please don't
just be in a hurry to get married, you have
the best opportunity to prepare for it. For
two people to come together to live in peace
and harmony, they must agree spiritually,
mentally and physically. Just like an elephant
cannot marry an ant so also a believer
cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant
marries an ant how would they live, if a goat
marries a fish where would they meet? You
must look for a godly man or a godly
woman to marry, nothing can beat this. The
devil's primary target is the family. He knows
that everyone belongs to a family and if he
can make two wrong people meet then he
has succeeded affecting the community and
nations negatively. Ignore your age and the
pressure for a moment, the
pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse.
God has somebody for you but you must set
your priorities right. What do you need in a
woman? What do you need in a man?
Marriage is not about what you want, it is
about who you need, that will make you
better while
you make him better. It is about destiny.
That is why you must know your purpose
before you
get married. (Genesis 2:18.) You must pray
before you choose. God knows the best
person for you, it is only wise to seek His
will. It is very easy to know God's will when
sex is not involved. The moment sex is
involved and you want to know His will then
He
will blank you out. Why? Because you have
broken His first Law of NO SEX before
marriage. If you have had sex in the past
then
you need to repent totally and stay away
from each other for some time then you can
seek
the face of God. Your marriage will not be
hell on earth. Your marriage will be
honourable in
the name of Jesus Christ.
* Don't marry for sex,
* Don't marry because you are of age,
* Don't marry because you are getting old,
* Don't marry because you are lonely,
* Don't marry because you need someone to
support you financially,
* Don't marry because you
mistakenly got pregnant,
* Don't marry because you don't want to
lose the person,
* Don't marry because of family pressures,
* Don't marry because you like
the idea of marriage and admire every
wedding gown you see,
* Don't marry because all your friends are
getting married.
But
* Get married because you want to fulfil
destiny.
* Get married because you want to be a help
mate.
* As a man, get married because you want
to fulfil your purpose.
God will help you in choosing, please let His
will be done. Amen! |
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