I met a girl while in school and we have been together for over two years now. Beautiful, God fearing and one to call a partner. It has never crossed my mind that we won't get married until recently. About a year ago, I met another lady in my place of work whom I started developing feelings for but didn't tell her because of my relationship status until I did recently. I told her of my feelings for her and about my relationship status. From all indications, she likes me too but does not want to be entangled in my relationship circle since according to her, I'm in a relationship and God hasn't spoken to her yet. I must let you know that these two ladies are without mixing words, children of God.

The issue now is, I love this latter girl more than I love the formal. People around me think I want to cheat the former ( the onew I met in school). No sexual activity has taken place with any of them cos we are all believers. I want God's perfect will (not permissive) for me but HE hasn't spoken concerning this.

What do you sincerely think people?

gracejy:
I met a girl while in school and we have been together for over two years now. Beautiful, God fearing and one to call a partner. It has never crossed my mind that we won't get married until recently. About a year ago, I met another lady in my place of work whom I started developing feelings for but didn't tell her because of my relationship status until I did recently. I told her of my feelings for her and about my relationship status. From all indications, she likes me too but does not want to be entangled in my relationship circle since according to her, I'm in a relationship and God hasn't spoken to her yet. I must let you know that these two ladies are without mixing words, children of God.

The issue now is, I love this latter girl more than I love the formal. People around me think I want to cheat the former ( the onew I met in school). No sexual activity has taken place with any of them cos we are all believers. I want God's perfect will (not permissive) for me but HE hasn't spoken concerning this.

What do you sincerely think people?

Be with the one you love. It's simple. Cut off contact with the school friend and move to your new girl.

The poster above me will dump her former boyfriend when she meets a new one

Op, I'd prefer you stick to the former girl that you've known for a while, the new girl might just turn out to be a chameleon.

Thanks for the responses so far. Please, air your view, you might just be helping a brother.

Debbywills:
The poster above me will dump her former boyfriend when she meets a new one

Op, I'd prefer you stick to the former girl that you've known for a while, the new girl might just turn out to be a chameleon.

I don't know how many times I have to tell people, I DON'T HAVE A BOYFRIEND. I WILL NEVER HAVE ONE AGAIN. Mehn!

foolinlove:


I don't know how many times I have to tell people, I DON'T HAVE A BOYFRIEND. I WILL NEVER HAVE ONE AGAIN. Mehn!

We're in the same Leaque ...
But why don't you wanna have a Boyfriend again?

gracejy:
I met a girl while in school and we have been together for over two years now. Beautiful, God fearing and one to call a partner. It has never crossed my mind that we won't get married until recently. About a year ago, I met another lady in my place of work whom I started developing feelings for but didn't tell her because of my relationship status until I did recently. I told her of my feelings for her and about my relationship status. From all indications, she likes me too but does not want to be entangled in my relationship circle since according to her, I'm in a relationship and God hasn't spoken to her yet. I must let you know that these two ladies are without mixing words, children of God.

The issue now is, I love this latter girl more than I love the formal. People around me think I want to cheat the former ( the onew I met in school). No sexual activity has taken place with any of them cos we are all believers. I want God's perfect will (not permissive) for me but HE hasn't spoken concerning this.

What do you sincerely think people?

Bro, in it's real context, it's 'mincing words', 'later, 'former.



Thats by the way, stick to the first girl.

Debbywills:


We're in the same Leaque ...
But why don't you wanna have a Boyfriend again?

Because I already met the man I want to be with. I will not have my heart broken again.

gracejy:
I met a girl while in school and we have been together for over two years now. Beautiful, God fearing and one to call a partner. It has never crossed my mind that we won't get married until recently. About a year ago, I met another lady in my place of work whom I started developing feelings for but didn't tell her because of my relationship status until I did recently. I told her of my feelings for her and about my relationship status. From all indications, she likes me too but does not want to be entangled in my relationship circle since according to her, I'm in a relationship and God hasn't spoken to her yet. I must let you know that these two ladies are without mixing words, children of God.

The issue now is, I love this latter girl more than I love the formal. People around me think I want to cheat the former ( the onew I met in school). No sexual activity has taken place with any of them cos we are all believers. I want God's perfect will (not permissive) for me but HE hasn't spoken concerning this.

What do you sincerely think people?

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BROTHER JEREMIAH WAIT FOR GOD TO SPEAK TO YOU FIRST..IF YOU ASK ME I WILL TELL YOU THIS, YOU ARE BEEN BLINDED BY LUST NOT LOVE..COKE TO THINK OF IT WHY LEAVE A LADY YOU KNOW FOR 2YRS FOR ANOTHER YOU BARELY KNOW...ALSO YOU HAVE NOT HAD ANY SEXUAL ACTIVITY WITH THE LADIES BUT YOU CAN'T SAY THE SAME FOR THE THEM. LEARN TO SPEAK FOR YOURSELF AND NOT FOR OTHERS WHEN IT COMES TO ISSUES OF SEX, CHEAT OR TRUST CUS IS GOOD TO TRUST BUT IS BETTER NOT TO..

foolinlove:


Because I already met the man I want to be with. I will not have my heart broken again.

Woah! That's good news. Congratulations!!

Debbywills:


Woah! That's good news. Congratulations!!

Not really. He married someone else...

Next thread

foolinlove:


Not really. He married someone else...

Now that's a sad one ..Take heart sweetheart, God will give you an Irreplaceable Boyfriend/Husband.

Meanwhile, Happy weekend to you!