Bembz:


Hi guyz!

I was going through Saturday Punch stories and I saw this story of a man that accused his wife of infidelity, he was always beating her up till he finally slit her throat. Mind you this man is jobless o his wife takes care of the house and pays for everything including the children's fees and feeding isn't this like a mans dream to have an hardworking wife... Yet he killed the poor woman ehn tooor! I fear men o rili
I really want to know why men in the African setting especially tend to be jealous when their wives have more achievements than they do. I personally don't think that should be an issue rather he should be tankful that his wife is not just useless...
From the story in the Saturday Punch, I do not think the man killed his wife because he suspects she is having an affair with another man but the fact that the woman was doing too well without his help made him loose it. I know a lot of men are like this with their wives and this causes violence in homes...
My question today is how do you know if a man would be violent in marriage are there signs we just seem to ignore when dating or it is never shown? Do you think a woman has no right to be richer or more business oriented than her husband? Do women always have to depend on their husbands?