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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by shaybebaby(f): 12:12pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
RiloKiley:I suppose when you are paying privately, you get to dictate the tune to an extent...and as such you are free to cast your net as wide as you wish till you find someone to do as you wish. But here, the medical practice is regulated..rules are implemented and adhered to strictly and since you are not paying, the emphasis is on attempting to have the child with as little intervention as possible. Choices like that are offered out of necessity not on a whim. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by crackhaus: 1:10pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
pwettyJasmine:Which is why it all boils down to choice - however this choice is made, is of no business to anyone else other than the couple involved (accompanied with a doctor's advice of course), but they still don't get it. I think you're like the fourth or fifth female poster here talking about the positives of CS as experienced personally, but you all either get completely ignored or shouted down... This particular line of thought isn't what they want to read...herd mentality. 2 Likes |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
crackhaus: Is it the logic of a genius? The moment she brought it online and made it public, it became everybody's business who cares to share their opinion on this thread. 3 Likes |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by toyeem(f): 1:39pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
cococandy: Lol. I tell you, ehnnn,it was scary initially but not anymore. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by crackhaus: 2:08pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Mindfulness:It's been two days, get over this argument and stop crying. You can't understand why any woman would consider doing as her husband wishes to please him regardless of risks, it's as simple as that. The question that was asked in the very first post of the thread: Does it really change down there after childbirth because most women will say that it doesn't, wasn't even dealt with. That's the opinion she sought...not what you think of her husband, her self-esteem, or her capabilities as a mother. And you still think you're alright... 3 Likes |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
crackhaus: There is nothing to get over but a lot to laugh at. I can perfectly understand why a woman would consider doing as her husband wishes even if she puts herself and her baby at risk. It's nothing that we haven't seen yet. There are also mothers who will cover their husbands even when those molest little children. Nothing new. All in the name of love and devotion. I am sure you would advise your own sister in the same way you have advised OP - if you have any. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Wrong thread to enter. I can almost smell the baby lotions and mommy thingy on my phone Women dey try o. ...*quietly hops out after bookmarking* 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by crackhaus: 2:43pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Not your problem, isn't this the point I've been making? From wife to sister to who next I wonder. And you still think you're alright Still haven't answered the OP's question BTW... 1 Like |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 2:46pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
crackhaus: Let's stay with the sister. Tell us how you would advise her to bring your nephews to this world? |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by crackhaus: 2:53pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Let's stay with the topic. If you're so interested in my affairs and want to stop guessing, holla at yo' boi. 3 Likes |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
crackhaus: We are still on the topic. So tell us, how would you advise your sister AND your wife? Would you tell her to have the safest delivery possible or would you encourage her to take risks and go against nature? Never mind! I know your answer. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by crackhaus: 3:13pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Lol... am I married to my sister? Is Cesarean Section a heart transplant or brain surgery? I don't even know what you're here trying to get at...thought you were done yesterday, you bored or something? 3 Likes |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 3:15pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
crackhaus: You know EXACTLY what I am getting at. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by crackhaus: 3:17pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Mindfulness:I also know EXACTLY why you're not alright. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
crackhaus: I am not alright because - according to Crackhaus - I don't like to please my husband and for this reason I have a problem with women who do. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by crackhaus: 3:21pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Like I said before, get over the argument and stop crying... Didn't even know you had a husband, since when? |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
crackhaus: I am not crying, I am enjoying you being illogical and emotional. It's kinda cute. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by crackhaus: 3:32pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Lol, I'm the emotional one when you are the one getting upset over stretched vaginas and a husband insisting on Cesarean Section to avoid it - to the extent that you believe any woman who undergoes the procedure, is just not fit to be a mother. And you still think you're alright.. Clap for yourself. So you are married now, since when? 2 Likes |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
crackhaus: Instead of advising a woman like you would advise a sister and tell her to have the safest delivery possible and one that will be better for the baby, you are here discussing blind devotion. If this is not emotional, then I know not what is. Have you got sisters? And how many baby mamas do you actually have? |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by crackhaus: 3:44pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Oh you mean the way you and your crew advised her by saying her husband has no respect for her and only loves her punny more than he loves her...so that when she gets home, she will go start a conflict with her husband and quarrel with him for loving only her tight punny - this is how y'all advise your own sisters obviously. NAH, I ain't interested. Sisters? Baby mamas? Uhmmm...holla at yo' boi baby, I'll tell you all you need to know. 4 Likes |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
crackhaus: And you see nothing wrong with a husband asking of his wife to have CS even if it is a well-established fact that it should only be performed if necessary? And you think it's normal to mess with the natural process of giving birth in the name of love and devotion? She should be encouraged to take good care of herself and do kegel exercises instead of putting herself and her child at risk. Thunder fire you for disrespecting motherhood Crackhaus. Count yourself lucky your own mama didn't have to put up with this kind of nonsense. Sisters? Baby mamas? I am not that curious. 1 Like |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by crackhaus: 5:12pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Did you even follow this thread from the beginning? I already made it known that I'm not holding brief for the man regarding his insistence... I didn't even need to put that out, but still I did because I know some of you who ONLY think unidirectionally will start making assumptions. She should be encouraged to take good care of herself and do kegel exercises instead of putting herself and her child at risk.Ohh, so now you want to give constructive advice. Are you done calling her and her husband names, or questioning her motherhood capabilities? Something is wrong with you. Thunder fire you for disrespecting motherhood Crackhaus. Count yourself lucky your own mama didn't have to put up with this kind of nonsense.Lmao @thunder fire me... You just killed me girl, I'm literally laughing out loud. Emotional! Me, disrespect motherhood? Am I not the only person who stood by the woman here so far? I should be given a medal for my goodwill... I remember asking you if you were going to stop at wife or sister, now it's mama...maybe grandma is next... Sometimes, you really bring out the Nigerian in you and I begin to suspect if you're not typing from a village somewhere in one forest... Where do you live again? I am not that curious.Good for both of us... I wouldn't want you to be curious either, that's freaky. 1 Like |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
author=crackhaus post=47140009] Finally. Ohh, so now you want to give constructive advice. I have been giving constructive critisicm from the beginning. Are you done calling her and her husband names, or questioning her motherhood capabilities? I have not only insulted her but ALL women and men who put their child's well-being at risk and I am ready to repeat it. Something is wrong with you. But it feels right. Lmao @thunder fire me... You just killed me girl, I'm literally laughing out loud. Emotional! Deliberately. Me, disrespect motherhood? You didn't stand by her, you stood by her husband. Who you want deceive? I remember asking you if you were going to stop at wife or sister, now it's mama...maybe grandma is next... It helped. Sometimes, you really bring out the Nigerian in you and I begin to suspect if you're not typing from a village somewhere in one forest... Curiosity killed the cat and the cat wasn't me. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by isokey: 11:30pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
@cococandy, shebebaby and onegai.... Thanks alot, i appreciate. I'm only in my second month,first trimester feeling weak, with little or no appetite for food, have this nauseating feeling. The only thing i seem not to get tired of eating is boiled maize. I can finish 4or 5 cobs at a time. what do i do pls |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by cococandy(f): 12:16am On Jul 03, 2016 |
isokey:my doctor gave me vitamin B6 and some other antiemetic to help with the nausea. I took it once a day with the prenatal vitamins and it worked. Little bit of ginger in your mouth works too but only for a short time. Maybe you can ask yours. See if they have something that can help you. Also check that pregnancy thread you might find some useful tidbits there. https://www.nairaland.com/889053/pregnancy-pregnant-going-through-high It's just too long a thread though. Gotta warn you. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Tolexander: 5:35am On Jul 03, 2016 |
isokey:lol |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by shaybebaby(f): 7:52am On Jul 03, 2016 |
isokey:Eat away, that's what your baby craves. . But on a more serious note, coco has mentioned ginger which I used, but it was the biscuit I ate. It does help but eating dry foods like crackers, have regular nibbles at them helps with the nausea. The key is to eat very small but regular meals to help ease the nausea. First trimester is the yuckiest, one more month Hun and you'll be feeling fly. Have you started taking your folic acid? |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by isokey: 9:25am On Jul 03, 2016 |
@cococandy... the thread is damn long, entails the good, bad and the ugly....i stopped reading it jarey. Yeah I've started with the daily supplement. I'll try the ginger biscuit or make tea with ginger. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
shaybebaby: Dont mind me jare I was playing superwoman Because I was induced, they gave me an epidural before hand so I don't feel any pain during contractions. Apparently contractions of an induced labour are more painful than a natural labour. I then decoded I wanted to feel what contractions actually felt like, so when the anaesthetist came to top up the epidural I said not to worry . . . Only things went wrong very soon after and the baby's cord was round his neck and they had carry out an emergency C/S, but because I wasn't topped up the surgeon said we couldn't wait for an epidural to take effect and immediately gave me General anaesthesia to knock me out. It took me days to really recover from the GA. |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by quivah(f): 11:15pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
sighs!!!! holy spaghetti... I'm so scared, I was just picturing each person's experience and none seem to go down well with me. Natural or CS, epidural or whatever.. This is very scary.. But I'd hope and wish for natural delivery, when this time comes , I can't let a needle go into my body how much more a blade.. HELL NO!! |
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Kollymarshall: 2:26pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
E no dey change anything down there. Why do you think men go back there again and again. Having more children after the first one means that the 'place' is still irresistible. |
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