mimzy:
Women...

ENIGMA24:
You did the right thing, if you had made her leave him, you would have never trusted her , because u would always have the notion that someother guy would do same to u.. . Every male friend will become a suspect... Good u let her go and avoided future stress

olumide81:
if u really want a relationship with her, be prepared to still share her with that guy in the early months of the relationship..... and to your question, stop playing the good boy it only helps in breaking your heart

ENIGMA24:
You did the right thing, if you had made her leave him, you would have never trusted her , because u would always have the notion that someother guy would do same to u.. . Every male friend will become a suspect... Good u let her go and avoided future stress

foolinlove:


Real love doesn't cheat.

foolinlove:


Real love doesn't cheat.

FlawlesRebirth02:
pls....somebody hold me before I say what's on mah mind.....chai.........

Jay542:

False.
The only thing that will make you not cheat is the 'Fear of God'.

foolinlove:


If you have God in your relationship then you know true love. And then you don't cheat.

ayrulez:
There is this girl I met and asked out, she told me straight up she's got a boyfriend and that we could just remain as a friend..I heeded to it and we were friends. It was in the cause of the friendship that I got to know his bf was once married and has a kid. He's not with the wife anymore tho, but they didn't divorce. The boyfriend is like 15years older than she is. She is still dating the guy cus of the " he disflowered me" factor. The guy also gives her some stipends... He treats her like a baby considering the age difference... Shout at her, order her around and make her to do things out of her will. To cut the whole story short, we got along. We became so close and we couldn't hold it, so she eventually confessed she feel something for me. She told me if she should leave the guy and go with me. I told her I love her equally but I would not want to cus of my selfish interest say u should drop your 3years relationship without being convinced about me. I told her when she get fully convinced she will make her choice. She later said she's sure I don't love her because if I love her I will tell her to leave the guy and come to me. She said she doesn't care if am selfish or not. She only want to be sure of my love for her. I told her I am not selfish and irrational, yet she won't see reasons with me. I just had to let go.. Do you think I ought to have told her to leave her guy who dint offend her and they've been dating for years or I made the right statement?

firstking01:
You fvcked up big time,,,for the records, girls usually ask that question, girls always wanna be sure of your love on them...thats why halfricanadian has kept me in the friendzone for weeks nw cos she said she wanna be sure that i'm serious...GOD knows i ve tried.

savydo:
Any girl that tells you she wants "to be sure of your love" is deceitful.
She's putting you on a long thing,the dreaded friendzone while still chopping your money.

ayrulez:
There is this girl I met and asked out, she told me straight up she's got a boyfriend and that we could just remain as a friend..I heeded to it and we were friends. It was in the cause of the friendship that I got to know his bf was once married and has a kid. He's not with the wife anymore tho, but they didn't divorce. The boyfriend is like 15years older than she is. She is still dating the guy cus of the " he disflowered me" factor. The guy also gives her some stipends... He treats her like a baby considering the age difference... Shout at her, order her around and make her to do things out of her will. To cut the whole story short, we got along. We became so close and we couldn't hold it, so she eventually confessed she feel something for me. She told me if she should leave the guy and go with me. I told her I love her equally but I would not want to cus of my selfish interest say u should drop your 3years relationship without being convinced about me. I told her when she get fully convinced she will make her choice. She later said she's sure I don't love her because if I love her I will tell her to leave the guy and come to me. She said she doesn't care if am selfish or not. She only want to be sure of my love for her. I told her I am not selfish and irrational, yet she won't see reasons with me. I just had to let go.. Do you think I ought to have told her to leave her guy who dint offend her and they've been dating for years or I made the right statement?

falconey:





dude that's superstition , whether he told her the truth or not ......sooner or later she will be taken away from him , to avoid that he just should MARRY HER ( obviously he isn't ready , he should deal with it)

your babes them no be person hand you collect am?



trust did you say trust ? do that at your own peril, even your virgin babe no trust am.

foolinlove:


Real love doesn't cheat.

ayrulez:
Well, some persons said I fvcked up and I should just av told her and reassured her...but the question is that is she sure she loves me enough to leave her second relationship? Does she not have the heart of her own, does she not know her relationship with the guy is almost not gonna work or there will be issues...does she feel the "he disvirgined me factor" is a myopic thought in a relationship? When a man order u around in a relationship as a result of age difference, exposure difference, maturity difference or status difference, then that relationship will only exist, there won't be a memorable impact in the relationship...I am not a learner, am not an opportunist, am not a deceiver, and am not an irrational lover! But Ive loved Adebimpe even if she comes in years time, I will accept her back provided am still single and she's still the girl I used to know.

schumastic:


no such thing as real love cus it doesn't exist and reason why there ars lots of cheats in a relationship..am surprise people can't accept the reality of life, is it that hard.