gsparks01:
I dunno o...is he married?

Vavana:





Yes ooooo.

foolinlove:
He tried to buy you. After he has paid for all this, he wants something in return.

He doesnt respect you and he thinks you can be bought like olosho.

Kindness is meant to be its own reward. Why do you have to pay for his kindness?

Say thanks, but you've lost all respect for him and his actions. That you're not a wh0re and you won't be treated like one. Say thanks, but no thanks.

Either that or lie... tell him you're a lesbian, you have HIV, you're pregnant, you're engaged, you're about to move to Bolivia, that you have a poo fetish, that you're haunted by juju... make it good. I don't think any man will jump into bed with any girl who says "oh wow, I love you too! Now we can poo on each other and have sex."

His kindness will stop as soon as you say no, so make sure you have enough to get by while you look for another job. And prepare for the possibility if rape, as well. Some guys, no matter how nice they seem, will just take what they think is owed to them.

It's up to your judgement on his character.

foolinlove:
He tried to buy you. After he has paid for all this, he wants something in return.

He doesnt respect you and he thinks you can be bought like olosho.

Kindness is meant to be its own reward. Why do you have to pay for his kindness?

Say thanks, but you've lost all respect for him and his actions. That you're not a wh0re and you won't be treated like one. Say thanks, but no thanks.

Either that or lie... tell him you're a lesbian, you have HIV, you're pregnant, you're engaged, you're about to move to Bolivia, that you have a poo fetish, that you're haunted by juju... make it good. I don't think any man will jump into bed with any girl who says "oh wow, I love you too! Now we can poo on each other and have sex."

His kindness will stop as soon as you say no, so make sure you have enough to get by while you look for another job. And prepare for the possibility if rape, as well. Some guys, no matter how nice they seem, will just take what they think is owed to them.

It's up to your judgement on his character.

nnamdiokere45:
ur funny op...ur nt a kid na. how can a man do all dis tinz n ur nt expecting dis kinda tin. haba, u wldnt tell me dt u didn't suspect it. my dear give hm wat he wants d man do try.
pesin wey no b ur blood relation dey do dis for u n u no tink. even if he didn't qv it in my, u shld qv jst some percentage of doubt cus dats so gud to b true.
pls giv hm d punny,plssds. cus if I b d man, I go sack u if I dnt gt it

Vavana:


Hahahahaha
Am a highly disciplined Lady. I noticed it but maintained distance. but he started using his wife to come close to me. his wife is from my tribe. i do help d wife to kids bags at yaba sometime ago.

He should let God bless him. Sleeping with me? What does it profit him.

foolinlove:
He tried to buy you. After he has paid for all this, he wants something in return.

He doesnt respect you and he thinks you can be bought like olosho.

Kindness is meant to be its own reward. Why do you have to pay for his kindness?

Say thanks, but you've lost all respect for him and his actions. That you're not a wh0re and you won't be treated like one. Say thanks, but no thanks.

Either that or lie... tell him you're a lesbian, you have HIV, you're pregnant, you're engaged, you're about to move to Bolivia, that you have a poo fetish, that you're haunted by juju... make it good. I don't think any man will jump into bed with any girl who says "oh wow, I love you too! Now we can poo on each other and have sex."

His kindness will stop as soon as you say no, so make sure you have enough to get by while you look for another job. And prepare for the possibility if rape, as well. Some guys, no matter how nice they seem, will just take what they think is owed to them.

It's up to your judgement on his character.

iPopAlomo:
Quit your job now... how hard can it be...?!

There's no question of morality here... only God knows what you used on the man (maybe you cooked him vegetable or your jazz...) Aunty... we no say e no pure (I just poured out the mind of plenty nairalanders and your co-work) because most of this benefit... you didn't work for it... ask yourself... are you the most hard-working personnel in that office...? make I no digress...

there's no need for morality here... except you want the latest juju to clear for him eye... do the needful or proof everyone wrong and me included... QUIT THE DAMN JOB...

I'm willing to wager... you can't...

Vavana:
Dear house i need matured advise.

My boss has been so wonderful to me. I mean his God's sent. from the day i was employed till today he has helped me so much. i can't quantify his kindness. if am to list it is unending.
He helped me to grow career wise.
He promotes me, i get whatever that is due yo me. he sometimes fight for me.

When mgt said our dept must ICAN/ACCA only. He encouraged me to enroll. He gave me 1month leave, now am in final level.
He recently gave my cousin job.

He helped to buy a land, invest my savings etc, what he helped me to achieve is uncountable my people.

I took him as my MENTOR but now he wants me, though i noticed the signs last year. I told me NO he said why do i hate him.

Am very close to his family. Am just confused.
How do i aviod him without hurting him.

Please matured comments.
One Love

nnamdiokere45:
ur funny op...ur nt a kid na. how can a man do all dis tinz n ur nt expecting dis kinda tin. haba, u wldnt tell me dt u didn't suspect it. my dear give hm wat he wants d man do try.
pesin wey no b ur blood relation dey do dis for u n u no tink. even if he didn't qv it in my, u shld qv jst some percentage of doubt cus dats so gud to b true.
pls giv hm d punny,plssds. cus if I b d man, I go sack u if I dnt gt it.
when u wer collecting u no open thread ask for advice nw his demanding u open thread. girls, av said it bfor una too like awoof

iPopAlomo:



Brother... we're of the same mind... when she was receiving... no thread Ooo... I no dey like hypocrites at all... make she do the needful or quit... e no hard at all...

iPopAlomo:
Quit your job now... how hard can it be...?!

There's no question of morality here... only God knows what you used on the man (maybe you cooked him vegetable or your jazz...) Aunty... we no say e no pure (I just poured out the mind of plenty nairalanders and your co-work) because most of this benefit... you didn't work for it... ask yourself... are you the most hard-working personnel in that office...? make I no digress...

there's no need for morality here... except you want the latest juju to clear for him eye... do the needful or proof everyone wrong and me included... QUIT THE DAMN JOB...

I'm willing to wager... you can't...

Vizkizzy:
The reason why he has been so kind to you is because he wants to get closer to the Cookie Jar

Just tell him to back off or you will let his wife know about it...that is if you really mean you don't want to furck him

truthsayer007:


Yea very true, But its very bad when you see a man helping you extra ordinarily and you never bothered to ask why. And he his even married for that matter.

If he was single, that is another story entirely.

Am sure she knew his intentions from onset, don't start what you can't finish.

1. He promotes you (Which means you don't deserve it)
2. I get whatever that is due to me (you can't even prove that it is due to you)
3. He encouraged me to enroll. He gave me 1month leave (meanwhile, am sure he declined leave for every other person in such a situation)

One month paid leave or Un-paid leave (Abeg lets be realistic here).

4. He helped to buy a land, invest my savings. (I'm sure he probably helped add extra money so you purchase the land and finish paying)

What pisses me off is Women start collecting all this things they know he his married, probably with Wife and Kids.

Stop collecting gifts or extra help from married men, so you will have a less dramatic life.

If he was single, its different..You can now make a choice of whether you like to go ahead in a Relationship or Backoff, But now you can't even make any choice. because you knew what was happening from On Set.

Lets not deceive ourselves here.

Vizkizzy:



Your comments keep illuminating the reason behind your personality each day

foolinlove:


Ok so we are back to this.

Let's assume the only reason men do anything is to get sex. That they're not capable of thinking about anything else.

So every time I see a man talk to a child, I'll just assume he's a pedophile.

Smh.

Cutezt:

Ma'am, You Need Re-orientation About Men.

foolinlove:


The reason behind my personality? What does that even mean. You make no sense.

personality

translation: set of qualities that make a person distinct from other people

"your comments illuminate the reason behind you being a misandry"

Still don't understand?

Vizkizzy:


personality

translation: set of qualities that make a person distinct from other people

"your comments illuminate the reason behind you being a misandry"

Still don't understand?

Vavana:
Dear house i need matured advise.
My boss has been so wonderful to me. I mean his God's sent. from the day i was employed till today he has helped me so much. i can't quantify his kindness. if am to list it is unending.
He helped me to grow career wise.
He promotes me, i get whatever that is due yo me. he sometimes fight for me.
When mgt said our dept must ICAN/ACCA only. He encouraged me to enroll. He gave me 1month leave, now am in final level.
He recently gave my cousin job.
He helped to buy a land, invest my savings etc, what he helped me to achieve is uncountable my people.
I took him as my MENTOR but now he wants me, though i noticed the signs last year. I told me NO he said why do i hate him.
Am very close to his family. Am just confused.
How do i aviod him without hurting him.
Please matured comments.
One Love

Vizkizzy:


personality

translation: set of qualities that make a person distinct from other people

"your comments illuminate the reason behind you being a misandry"

Still don't understand?