Mindfulness:


I am using cliches?

The whole thread is based on the cliche that women have to act in a particular way to be considered female and that they don't and instead behave like belligerent animals who are eager to attack their husbands.

I wonder, is 5minsmadness surrounded by aggressive women who attack their husbands unreasonably and have not learned to communicate in a civil way?

Timbuktou:


According to the OP, the woman has a better chance convincing her husband using feminine wiles than testoterone-induced confrontation. You women can twist it any way you please, but that is the essence of the OP. Whether the man has to do any convincing or not is not the subject of discourse

Timbuktou:


So, because the thread is based on a cliche(according to you), it can't be pointed out that you're using them out of context?

And yes, women have to be female to be considered female. What is this twist if nature you're trying to assert? Women don't generally like feminine men, men don't generally like masculine women. Abeg, what is the problem in pointing this out?

Why don't you ask him directly? Do I look like his thoughts?

Timbuktou:


You're just using cliches out of context. How will their marriage work if they cannot resolve conflict effectively? I'll tell you how. By employing effective strategies. Some people shout their way to a resolution, some using physical force, some sulk, silent treatment, etc. Stop painting relationships as a place where husband and wife are programmed robots whose thoughts will always be in tandem and when there is a disagreement all that's needed is a reset of the programme.

I would like you to show me where OP or other married men have prescribed subjugating the women in their lives in this thread. The message has been simple: use your femininity to your advantage. I wonder why females are resisting femininity. [size=18pt]No wonder there's so much homo sexuality in the world today[/size]

5minsmadness:


Honestly, The only aggressive women I see are on Nairaland. I wonder how some of them their husbands cope.

Timbuktou:


You're just using cliches out of context. How will their marriage work if they cannot resolve conflict effectively? I'll tell you how. By employing effective strategies. Some people shout their way to a resolution, some using physical force, some sulk, silent treatment, etc. Stop painting relationships as a place where husband and wife are programmed robots whose thoughts will always be in tandem and when there is a disagreement all that's needed is a reset of the programme.

I would like you to show me where OP or other married men have prescribed subjugating the women in their lives in this thread. The message has been simple: use your femininity to your advantage. I wonder why females are resisting femininity. [size=18pt]No wonder there's so much homo sexuality in the world today[/size]

5minsmadness:

Bhahahahahahaha

Fkforyou:


If you were my girlfriend, I would be turned off. True, at first I might melt and want to please you but after the third time I would shut you off completely.

Trust me, crying to get what you want might seem like a nice idea on the internet but in reality it's a total turn off. [size=18pt]NOBODY ADMIRES OR RESPECT THE WEAK.[/size]

If I don't respect and admire you, there is no way in hell am going to love you. There is a difference between being gentle natured and outright weakness....while one earns people's respect (to some extent) the other breeds disdain.

Mindfulness:


And you opened this thread for them? Did their husbands complain to you?

If there are no aggressive women out there where you reside, there is no need to open threads like this and if you still feel the need to, then equally mention what the husband's role in all of it is and we can take it from there.

Thank you.

5minsmadness:


Thank you. Simple and short.
Its been a while bro, hope you're good.

Mindfulness:


I ignored this part of his post on purpose but I will touch upon it now that you have highlighted it.

Sometimes that things you type here explain so much of what is wrong with this country.

So now women are should also be blamed and made responisble other people's sexu.al orientation? Don't you see how du.mb it sounds?

Have you got numbers that prove that there were fewer ho.mos 50 years ago or in ancient Greece and Rome?

Gosh! The intellectual capacity of some people makes me almost lose hope.

Mindfulness:


I ignored this part of his post on purpose but I will touch upon it now that you have highlighted it.

Sometimes that things you type here explain so much of what is wrong with this country.

So now women are should also be blamed and made responisble other people's sexu.al orientation? Don't you see how du.mb it sounds?

Have you got numbers that prove that there were fewer ho.mos 50 years ago or in ancient Greece and Rome?

Gosh! The intellectual capacity of some people makes me almost lose hope.

Timbuktou:


Baba, I deyo. How every?

Mindfulness:


Nothing was used out of context. Everything fits the context of this thread.

I am female whether you consider me female or not. I have a vag.ina, boobies and a round azz. I menstruate and I can give birth. Even if I decide to become a soldier tomorrow and fight ISIS and BH, I am still female and even my passport says so. So your perception of and opinion on what a female should behave like is completely ireelevant.

And what most men like is irrelevant also. The last time I ckecked, you guys claimed women were not polygmaous by nature so it's enough for a woman that one man considers her attractive.

What the problem is?
The problem is the one-sided approach to an institution that is made of two people and the implication that women attack their husbands like they lack proper home training.

And he wonders why people told him to get married first.

Again, are you people surrounded by belligerent animals who don't know how to communicate in a civil way?
What the heck is your motivation behind such threads?

5minsmadness:


On the contrary, its because its only on nairaland I see aggressive women that is why I opened this thread here.

What is paining u about the thread? I didnt mention submission or subjugation, I didn't use any of the trigger words, all I said is a woman should be a woman and men will be more receptive to them. What is wrong with that?

Mindfulness:


Nothing was used out of context. Everything fits the context of this thread..

mindfulness: am female whether you consider me female or not. I have a vag.ina, boobies and a round azz.

I menstruate and I can give birth. Even if I decide to become a soldier tomorrow and fight ISIS and BH, I am still female and even my passport says so. So your perception of and opinion on what a female should behave like is completely ireelevant.

And what most men like is irrelevant also. The last time I ckecked, you guys claimed women were not polygmaous by nature so it's enough for a woman that one man considers her attractive.

What the problem is?
The problem is the one-sided approach to an institution that is made of two people and the implication that women attack their husbands like they lack proper home training.

And he wonders why people told him to get married first.

Again, are you people surrounded by belligerent animals who don't know how to communicate in a civil way?
What the heck is your motivation behind such threads?

5minsmadness:


Oh I see.
Alright, fine. My next topic will be on men and how they should act in relationships and marriage.
Anything to keep you happy

5minsmadness:


We thank God.
Controlling delta axis by His grace.
Less time for Nairaland but still peek in once in a while.

Timbuktou:
ok

I'll consider this when nxt I see Caitlin Jenner.

irrelevant

good luck here.it's still a buyer's market.

your solipsism is showing. Nobody implied shitt. If it doesn't apply to you,ignore and move on. No be by force.

smh

You are the only thing surrounding me and your belligerence is showing.. I might to step back to safety, I don't want to die of rabies.

Mindfulness:


Let me summarize what you have said so far:

It is irrelevant that I menstruate and am capable of giving birth and that all important documents say that I am female. All that matters is how you perceive or some other men perceive me.

And if I am being perceived a female, I am to blame for homo.sexuality.

NL is fun for sure.

Mindfulness:


Has any of these women asked you for help or their husbands for that matter? NO!

Lesson number 1:
Unsolicited advice is annyoing.

And how would you know how these women talk to their husbands? Just because some of your opinions make them aggressive, doesn't mean they are aggressive towards their husbands.

Lesson number 2:
Don't jump into conclusions.

Mindfulness:


How do you know how women want their men to act?

Timbuktou:


Oh, please remove the rod from your rectum. That was a joke and I'm glad 5mins got it. You don't have to over-analyse every comment like it's a project defence ffs

Timbuktou:


E suppose be so. More power to you.

Mindfulness:


Glad you share the same sense of humor.

Timbuktou:


I see you need work. Come and cook for me abeg. I'm hungry and I don't want to make noodles.

5minsmadness:


Lesson number 1: unsolicited reading.

If you don't like a post, DONT READ IT! Simply ignore and move on!
Nairaland is a public forum and I assure most women appreciated what I wrote up there. You particularly may not like it but that's your headache.

Lesson number 2: Don't jump to conclusions. That should actually be for you lot who feel all men are beer drinking pot-bellied TV couch potatoes who are looking for all and every opportunity to subdue you. STOP BEING PARANOID! Nobody has time for your asses! We are making money and being the men you love to look up to and marry in the future, we will be strong and powerful whether that makes you bitter or not and you will run after us and indirectly beg us to pay your brideprice cos that's what responsible men do and you love us for it!

OK, maybe I ranted the last part...

Mindfulness:


My kitchen is full of freshly cooked food. I enjoy cooking, am I female enough again despite my argumentative nature? Be our guest.

Timbuktou:


I say come and cook, you say your kitchen is full. What is my business with your kitchen?

My friend, come to my house now. Rubbish.

Mindfulness:


I only cook in my husband's house.

Timbuktou:


Ehen? And who is your husband?

Mindfulness:


The President of the United States of America.