AngelAhnie:
She generalizing is wrong but going to a marriage from a far distance and no one pays attention to them is wrong. Imagine travelling from Lagos to Delta, Abia, Imo etc and no one cares to give you common water to drink, for me I'll feel bad. As for food I won't feel bad cos I hardly eat in weddings.

AngelAhnie:
She generalizing is wrong but going to a marriage from a far distance and no one pays attention to them is wrong. Imagine travelling from Lagos to Delta, Abia, Imo etc and no one cares to give you common water to drink, for me I'll feel bad. As for food I won't feel bad cos I hardly eat in weddings.

CindyeMerAld:
i have 2 admit, the traditional marriage i attended yesterday at ehime- mbano has got 2 be the worst trad ever


imo state pple dnt just know how to entertain, we literally had 2 beg for can water... food is not even involved, i had to travel a long distance 2 attend dt wedding and i was treated like trash.. literally

on may way back 2 my base,there was no straight bus to my destination, had to enter like 6 diff cars to get home...i vowed not to sleep in imo cos my dad always warned me abt imo state pple and how terrible they act#no offense#...... am close to the bride buh i felt like someone that came uninvited... my main vex was juz the funds i wasted attending the wedding..the mum demanded 4 a huge amt of money as bride price, i was so disappointed
imo state, una fall hand sha... the first impression was terrible.. vowed not to go to imo state again....
imo state indigenes come and defend yaselves....

icedbeatz:
The main problem is that most people have this crazy sense of entitlement, what happened to travelling to support a friend? buy gift for them and not expect something in return? why couldn't the individual buy water, food of any kind or whatnot he/she fancies and eat untikk they're satisfied? pheew. Even not considering that your friend the celebrant might be busy and stressed out that they barely recognise some people that came and stuff.

kamel4real2015:
haha just take it easy okay.

AngelAhnie:
Stop already

AngelAhnie:
Stop already

AngelAhnie:
The celebrant should appoint someone to take care of guest...I'm not taking sides with the op but I think what the celebrant did was not right. During my grandmother's funeral, we appointed some friends to take care of those coming from far. You serve them food and water immediately they arrive..They left the comfort of their homes to grace your occasion so it won't be bad if you treat them well.

CindyeMerAld:
i have 2 admit, the traditional marriage i attended yesterday at ehime- mbano has got 2 be the worst trad ever


imo state pple dnt just know how to entertain, we literally had 2 beg for can water... food is not even involved, i had to travel a long distance 2 attend dt wedding and i was treated like trash.. literally

on may way back 2 my base,there was no straight bus to my destination, had to enter like 6 diff cars to get home...i vowed not to sleep in imo cos my dad always warned me abt imo state pple and how terrible they act#no offense#...... am close to the bride buh i felt like someone that came uninvited... my main vex was juz the funds i wasted attending the wedding..the mum demanded 4 a huge amt of money as bride price, i was so disappointed
imo state, una fall hand sha... the first impression was terrible.. vowed not to go to imo state again....
imo state indigenes come and defend yaselves....

ayusco85:


You need breast implants. Imagine how sexy u will look with full pair of tittiess

icedbeatz:
Since we are smart enough to know that sometimes situations might hinder such arrangements and thereby lead to starvation and vexation like the op's situation we ought to avoid it and always take care of ourselves no matter what (expectation). Eat before you attend any ceremony or be ready to drive to a nearby restaurant to eat because no one can take better care of you than yourself, i suspect its gluttony in op's case because she was expected to eat until her stomach burst since the groom is rich but disappointment followed. I'm not taking sides either but laying ways such experiences could have been avoided, well my dear its clear the op is suffering from poverty of the mind. My point is everyone should start taking care of themselves in every way and quit the expectations and entitlements because it will make a whole lot of things better and the individual joyful and self contented.

CindyeMerAld:

lmao

AngelAhnie:
Are you married?

icedbeatz:
why do you ask?

obitee69:
Na today IMO people don dey Bleep up? High bride price, lazy men, runs girls, greedy parents. Why demand a whole lot for bride price? I'm from Anambra. My dad took 5k from my sisters husband's people. He even assisted. Omo can't marry an IMO girl seems most of dem are money minded and clueless

CindyeMerAld:

lmao

AngelAhnie:
I have the feelings you won't make provision for item 7 on your wedding day

sinaj:
you went to ur frnd's wedding, event didn't turn out very well nd u think its wise to put it online?



I pity the bride dat calls u Friend.
Dnt mind the heeediot women ar enemies of each other see as she be like red oil mtcheeeew only God knowz hw her own wedding go even be nah her type dey end up marring a very useless man she go dey dere dey look 4 expensive wedding she go old finish mtcheew

Rubbish!

icedbeatz:
LOL LMAO HAHAHAHAHAHA WTF? really? my opinion is based on how to avoid ops experience not how I treat people my dear hahahahahaha. No naaaaaaaaaa its called celebration isn't it?

CindyeMerAld:
i have 2 admit, the traditional marriage i attended yesterday at ehime- mbano has got 2 be the worst trad ever


imo state pple dnt just know how to entertain, we literally had 2 beg for can water... food is not even involved, i had to travel a long distance 2 attend dt wedding and i was treated like trash.. literally

on may way back 2 my base,there was no straight bus to my destination, had to enter like 6 diff cars to get ihome...i vowed not to sleep in imo cos my dad always warned me abt imo state pple and how terrible they act#no offense#...... am close to the bride buh i felt like someone that came uninvited... my main vex was juz the funds i wasted attending the wedding..the mum demanded 4 a huge amt of money as bride price, i was so disappointed
imo state, una fall hand sha... the first impression was terrible.. vowed not to go to imo state again....
imo state indigenes come and defend yaselves....

torqque7:


Lol let your friend catch you telling us about her wedding and how them fall hand,my hand no dey o. Btw I am booking space now for your own traditional wedding to o so I can come and open a thread here and tell people if it went well or not,just start bribing me from now just incase

CindyeMerAld:

sure...ah no go fall hand

CindyeMerAld:

sure...ah no go fall hand

torqque7:


Lol OK..BTW is your friend is on NL too? She would be hurt if she sees this thread.

About that 100k bride price, I have always been under the impression that Igbo bride price and list of things to accompany bride price usually is outrageously high,from stories here and there. Does it mean it's not true? I am curious what's the average bride price like in your place?

Natotogokillme:
You guys are still helping the effeminate Op move his thread.


CindyeMerald is neither Igbo nor a female. There's a mischievous "he" behind that moniker and his purpose is to use Igbos against themselves.



Stop feeding trolls!

obitee69:
Na today IMO people don dey Bleep up? High bride price, lazy men, runs girls, greedy parents. Why demand a whole lot for bride price? I'm from Anambra. My dad took 5k from my sisters husband's people. He even assisted. Omo can't marry an IMO girl seems most of dem are money minded and clueless