ojuu4u:


can u see ursf? Must someone belong to a particular religion b4 he/she has fear of God? Pls dnt dnt confuse ursf she said it all, u must go 4 partner who ve fear of God if u want to succed maritaly

ojuu4u:


tanks for letting him knw he is not mature, mariage is not meant for this type of people, hence he wil the poor girl

VenusBetty:
The insult on NL alone is killing, so many girls are not even after any man's money because they make more money, there's still pressure out there my dear , it may not be from parents like you stated.

VeniceTown:
Yes it doesn't make sense because what I replied to didn't make any sense too. When your school of thought is flawed I won't accept it and I will call you out!

Pureheart91:



Its so certain u clearly dont understand dy meaning of those powerful four letter words..The Fear of God.
It simply means been obedient to Gods will, and way. Now i dont see a senario were one wud hve d fear of God and do wat they acclaimed "christains" do...please do knw dat been a "born again" is different frm been a "christain". Hence the former does the will of Jesus Christ, whilst d latter is a Hypocrite(do wat i say n not wat i do people).

Obedience conates Fear for someone. Have a nyc day bro, and dont follow religion but strive to be bornagian for the hour is @ us.

GoD Bless You!

Chrisjane:
l agree with the OP. Marriage is inevitable but it should be followed after financial and emotional preparedness.

VeniceTown:
A meal is a personal thing that you swallow so no one cares if roasted rat and cheese is your best meal. But when you say a good man is God fearing means that if I tell him I'm not God fearing means I'm not a good person, you see where it comes in ?

eph12:
Even don't understand that"I need to marry" rush some people do have. Like seriously why?
As for me I don't plan to father a child unless i can guarantee the best for the child.

Targaeryian:
Marriage is overrated

computerboy:


Just to make a quick correction.

My dear marriage is not death so it's not inevitable. In as much as girls don't like hearing it but it's true

Not all girls would marry. Some would die as spinsters likewise some men would die as bachelors

More reason you should make something meaningful out of your life so you'll have a reason to live just in case you didn't get to have your own children/family

edimat007:
what about me that is very close to 40 but yet still waiting for man of God prophecy to come to pass.

eph12:
Even don't understand that"I need to marry" rush some people do have. Like seriously why?
As for me I don't plan to father a child unless i can guarantee the best for the child.

VeniceTown:
Go and get married. Just let me know when the govt starts giving married people an entitlement.

Targaeryian:
Marriage is overrated

ojuu4u:


and you think we are equal bf, am a fully responsible my since years past. Kip on merry-go-round a point and expect manna frm heaven. One of convenants almighty God had with humans during creation was that we sud dominate and multiply. A man that becomes milionaire and refuses to mari, is a complete failure

VeniceTown:
Tell me who else fears an imaginary God other than religious folks ? Name one!

ojuu4u:


you dnt fear imaginary God but very unfortunately imaginary gods/satan had blindfold and criple ur sense of reasoning

rexericx:
They must be people who can relate with each other as friends and partner in progress. The corollary to the foregoing is that the person who will be your true partner must be such a person with whom you can have mutual friendship , you should be able to play with that person , you should be able to work with that person , you are to be intellectually compatible , even though you are at different levels . This means that the difference should compliment. You must have common interests , share decisions together and have the same values. Such kind of partner is the right person for you.

Source - https://www.nairaland.com/2625652/rush-into-it-endure-life

http://www.olumideblog.com/2015/09/you-rush-into-it-you-endure-for-life.html

CoCoLav:


The bolded is what keeps a marriage going after the love fades

totorimi:
One thing I know and that I am sure of, is that never ever marry someone you do not truly love and who you know does not equally loves you back.

If you do you will kill yourself slowly instead of having a constant smile on your face you will have a constant frown and and by then you look older ans age faster.

Sometimes people marry for benefits for the things they wish to benefit or gain from the other person. Thats very very wrong. Marriage should be based on true love only not money, not good looks, not a good job or green card.

When you are truly in love, when all else fails, money, good looks, fantastic sex, deportation. The real love will stay.

rexericx:


#VeniceTOWN#

rexericx:
Marriage is a very crucial stage in human beings that must be not rushed into. Some go into marriage because of panic” My friends are getting married at final year or immediately after graduation or NYSC”. They compare themselves with others ignorant of the fact that fingers are not equal. Some leap into marriage because of pressure. It is vital that everyone knows that marriage is a lifelong project and succumbing to pressure without personal conviction is not wise .This may be parental pressure , peer pressure or pressure from the proposing partner.
The desperation to meet some personal pressing needs is the major reason why some make hasty choice in marriage . The need may be financial, emotional , psychological ,self esteem or sex. Others rush into marriage because of a painful breakup , some marry so as to escape from parental influence either positive or negative. It should be noted that no matter how desirable these moves are, they all give a wrong foundation for a lasting marriage that will be enjoyed and not just endured.
The primary reason for marriage is PARTNERSHIP therefore the right wife is expected to be a partner and not a housemaid and the husband is expected to be a “sugar daddy”. They must be people who can relate with each other as friends and partner in progress. The corollary to the foregoing is that the person who will be your true partner must be such a person with whom you can have mutual friendship , you should be able to play with that person , you should be able to work with that person , you are to be intellectually compatible , even though you are at different levels . This means that the difference should compliment. You must have common interests , share decisions together and have the same value. Such kind of partner is the right person for you.

Source - https://www.nairaland.com/2625652/rush-into-it-endure-life

http://www.olumideblog.com/2015/09/you-rush-into-it-you-endure-for-life.html

kennygee:
Pressure from friends, family and society.

This pressure had made a lot of women to kiss countless frogs in the name of kissing a prince.

iykedare:
If you are old enough to have sex,you are old enough to get married.