Some people see nothing wrong in been still close to their ex after they've moved on to another relationship. And then if their partner had an issue with it, they'd say he's been insecure. I mean, if he has to admit to been insecure on this one issue to separate that closeness, then I'll say he should be hundred fold insecure. Seriously, I feel it's not safe. And it will put AVOIDABLE PRESSURE on your relationship. And then for some, the ex is their best pal. They run to him for every pin and curry. He knows about everything that's going on in the relationship. You know what I'll say to you, divorce your husband and go marry your ex. No, don't take that as an advice. That's a prediction. Because one day when you have a banter with your relationship, and he's trying to comfort you, just one day, you may gradually begin to continue from where you left off. You may want to say, "but nothing is happening between us, my husband knows that." Really, does he? Have you asked him if he is confortable with with that level of closeness with your ex? Is he not trying to act comfortable because he wants to be a man? I mean, you are in an emotional relationship with your ex, and that's cheating on your husband.
Some pressure you pour on your relationship can be totally avoided. There's no point playing to it.

And If you're the one that is close to an ex that is now married, please I beg you, for the sake of her marriage, give her space. I think it's the the right thing to do. It's my opinion, what do you think?

It's not safe at all... Shikena!

I wouldn't.

I believe that your past, and there's no need keep your past because the past will affect the present

I dnt wish to have any new ex again

I never wish to get closer to my exes...buh they're the one who keep coming back like they still want some of the crumbs from my cookie jar



Damn....tats y they can't blame if i blocked their asses. I want to move on.

Forget what it was and worry about what it is stop living in the past. The past makes us who we are. Burn bridges that may bring past. Never use one route twice. Take what ever you can, give notting back, Delet history, lock their doors with pride, swalow the keyzzzzzzz and move on!!! Thats how I operate.

See stupiid question, when u knw d answer u dey ask us

The intent of the question is to raise awareness to these things. It's not everybody that knows it's not safe. I am a relationship coach. You did not have to call it foolish. Just give your opinion so others can learn too.