[color=#990000][/color]Hello I need quick answers. I have this very good friend of mine, whose boyfriend is behaving in an over familiar manner. At school, since I joined much later into the semester when they were not dating, he told me he liked me. I laughed it off with him and we became good friends. When he began to date my friend, he was still my friend but at a point, he began to act weird. Since we are both from the same state Calabar, my friend teased me and said we were siblings. I went on with the flow and thought very little of it. later into the next semester, something he did was completely weird. Since I always go to class like two hours before class starts and he also does same, we usually meet and greet and generally develop a good rapport. so, on that day, after greetings and everything in the hallway, he told me he won't let me go to class unless I give him a hug which I didn't. I refused, he insisted but since we were both laughing, I thought very little of it. since I seat with my friend, we always get a chance to talk and became very good friends. But after a while he began to look at me strangely, like checking me out and stuff ( like staring at my Boobs during conversation instead of my face, staring intently into my eyes for some uncomfortable moments, starting at me endlessly during classes and licking his lips at me.) but I thought little of it and was usually oblivious, until my other friend made a joking statement like, "hehn dis one wey u dey familiar with Fatima's boyfriend and u talk sey he don carry you before because you dare am, I hope say u no go snatch am because if u try am I go kill ohhh!!!!" We both laughed it off since the girl in question was not around, but as I was pondering on wat it meant, it occurred to me that my friends thought I had something going with Jane's boyfriend. Jane never said anything or registered any displeasure but I know it is in her nature to keep quiet and mull things over. I NEED serious advice on what to do urgently to avert any kind of disasters with my friends.
On my own part I may have also been a little careless in my dealings with him. luckily I don't have his number and we only communicate at school but it is still a bother to me though.

What are u still musing about? Go tell d nigga he should back off from such childsplay. Na so u go just dey wonder until u find urself under bedsheets with am. Na there ur eye go clear

I didn't read the story.

But the title looks like

"I have a feeling for my friend's boyfriend"

Although I don't care. Let me post a trash comment below

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I think u don't want to mess up a good friendship, please tell him to stay clear and try reducing your contact with him

It's obvious you are in love with the guy. If not, I don't see why a mere hug should get you uncomfortable.


Sorry bae, the guy can see through you.

I can see that this guy is attracted to you sexually and since you we're friends, he's taking the advantage of it. Be careful of the wolves. They may look like sweet but they can pin you down in one stroke. You better stay away from him before it's too late.

[quote author=Cutehector post=47351169]What are u still musing about? Go tell d nigga he should back off from such childsplay. Na so u go just dey wonder until u find urself under bedsheets with am. Na there ur eye go clear[/quote you no dey sleep always present

All this small pikin post. Mtcheeeew

@babalabi abeg if Na small pikin post, comot for here I beg u may u reply? "Big Man" @babalabi abeg if Na small pikin post, comot for here I beg u may u reply? "Big Man"

Posts like this are the reason I've stopped debating on nairaland. People would wake up one morning and open attention-seeking threads only to delete their accounts when called out. Some would go far as debating into pages and pages of arguments consciously stating wrong facts knowing fully well they'd end up deleting their account later, leaving you looking like an idiot for engaging them.

But after a while he began to look at me strangely, like checking me out and stuff ( like staring at my Boobs during conversation instead of my face, staring intently into my eyes for some uncomfortable moments, starting at me endlessly during classes and licking his lips at me.) but I thought little of it and was usually oblivious, until my other friend made a joking statement like, "hehn dis one wey u dey familiar with Fatima's boyfriend and u talk sey he don carry you before because you dare am, I hope say u no go snatch am because if u try am I go kill ohhh!!!!"

So, what other proof do you need

You have some feelings for the guy also, cos i dont understand u laughing it off everytime

[quote author=agbonkamen post=47351321][/quote]did u quote me from the dream? Iffa sand u eh