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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Joy1706(f): 8:50am On Jul 13, 2016
Thunderlicious:


That is, IF you ever get married.
Oga is it ur marry? Free me na. Kilode?

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Joy1706(f): 8:52am On Jul 13, 2016
edbor:
thinking joy1706 would have gotten enough supporters by now, i feel sorry for her and she even said "must i be like my mother" even more sorry for the pain you will cause to your mum. . .


I'm going to say a prayer for you so your twisted mindset will change.
Yes, must I be like my mother? Aren't we 2 different human beings? What's your problem? Feel sorry 4 urself and ur family. Who ur sorry epp? Mstchewww

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Joy1706(f): 8:56am On Jul 13, 2016
uupgrade:
n what happens if i returned all this sh*t u call insult to ur mama? Lol u see how its sounds? I respect women all women n i respect d dignity of women enough to not ulter verbal words on them no matter what... I don't expect u to understand. Just so u know. Am not a gentleman. I just respect anyperson that deserves to be respected n that includes the woman who gave birth to u. So incase u know my mouth is not inelastic to insults. Learn how to talk with the opposite sex politely even when arguing if not u will bring insults to d dignity of other women. E.g ur mum. N u will bring more insults to urself. E.g like d bashing u r geting on dis Topic alone. Be wise.
Oga PLEASE move along. Is that 'respectful' enough for ya?
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Joy1706(f): 9:01am On Jul 13, 2016
Xbox222:

You are paying all her bills and yet she is not using your name. Can't you see how weak and daft you are?
What is ur problem? Must everybody be as daft as you? Research shows that men who are quick to call other men weak are the ones who are actually half male/weak.
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Nobody: 9:02am On Jul 13, 2016
Joy1706:

Oga PLEASE move along. Is that 'respectful' enough for ya?
just laughing, haven't said anything yet but u r feeling messed up already.
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Joy1706(f): 9:14am On Jul 13, 2016
uupgrade:
just laughing, haven't said anything yet but u r feeling messed up already.
Messed up? cheesy cheesy you must be the joker of the century. As in u no reach o, lemme burst your bubble. PLEASE say what you wanna say. Ain't stopping you. Lmao! Mkpo ke messed up. See grandiose delusions na
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Nobody: 9:17am On Jul 13, 2016
Joy1706:

Messed up? cheesy cheesy you must be the joker of the century. As in u no reach o, lemme burst your bubble. PLEASE say what you wanna say. Ain't stopping you. Lmao! Mkpo ke messed up. See grandiose delusions na
u wish d sh*t u just typed is true
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Thunderlicious: 2:37pm On Jul 13, 2016
doll912:
Broke, frustrated, pained and stupid...what did you do to be living such a hard life? Waiting for my pictures? Jeez! He's an ardent follower...too bad I don't life my live on social media so hating trolls like you don't pour your frustrations on it.im waiting for your reply sweetie...

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do u know my age?

Is like u are already falling for me. I can send u a pic, if u like. Maybe we can hook up. What do u think?

BTW it's live my life, not the other way round.

Still waiting for your pic. grin
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jul 14, 2016
It's OK by me
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by ypeace: 12:38pm On Jul 15, 2016
bolseas:


Muslim women are allowed to keep their surnames after getting married. it was never copied from whites.please say what you know.

my husband didn't allow me change my name. but because of documentation issues especially after having a child, I had to let him see reasons why I need to change my name by adding my surname and his name and he accepted.

this doesn't make my husband a weak man, it makes him a man who respects God, respects me and my father.

Keep calm and reread my post...... we are on the same page.
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by ypeace: 12:47pm On Jul 15, 2016
kandiikane:


It is.. Where I am from Majority are muslim and the women hardly change their names. I don't even know any married women that changed their names.
I guess you live in a sane society. unfortunately, Muslims are being influenced, where I live, to adopt the culture of changing surname..... so unfortunate.
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Demainman1: 10:50am On Jul 16, 2016
ypeace:

Keep calm and reread my post...... we are on the same page.

Una say Muslim women don't change their names after marriage. Is Babangida, Abacha and even Buhari not Muslims? If I remember very well, their wives use their surnames and not the maiden names
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by ypeace: 11:18am On Jul 16, 2016
Demainman1:


Una say Muslim women don't change their names after marriage. Is Babangida, Abacha and even Buhari not Muslims? If I remember very well, their wives use their surnames and not the maiden names
They do. And as far as I know, it is not a sin on them. But it is an act that is not encouraged by Islam.

It is not a Yoruba culture too but a culture brought to us by our colonial masters.

my point is not where it comes from or who is practicing....... But on what basis should people demonize people who don't like it the way they did on the front page of the post?
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Greatness366(f): 3:25pm On Jul 16, 2016
personally I see nothing wrong in a woman retaining my fathers name afta marriage.I intend doing so because my dad has no male child so I dnt want his name to be forgotten,but if the man am gonna get married to disapprove of it then I will forget abt d whole idea.

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