i love her so much i give her money because she always says i am the only guy in her life .so i assist her (not once nor twice) but y did she have to reward me like this?she was holding somebody by the neck and quickly disentangled when i came into her shop.i have been a fool.i have never had sex with her,kissed her or held her.but i am the fool fool fool fool .i am broken hearted.she didnt see me off when i wanted to go.i know her family very well(greeting levels only).she said she has no boyfriend.what will i do when she calls me.i am never going to see her again.i close from work eveyday at 8-9pm.and i still see her.

senator, the best advice to give u is to learn to love urself more than u do anyone else.

sorry ohhh!

well, it doesn't even sound like u guys are dating in the first place.

confirm ur suspicions first.

hmmmm u said u saw her holding him by the neck well u might hav assumed they was doing somthing but guess wat my brodah u didn't catch them doing it so dat ain't nothing well now all u got to do is watch her closly it might not even be wat u think it is and have u talked to her try talking to her and axing her about the other day try and accept wat she says as the truth but watch her closely if its d truth u will know

Hi Kiki _{is dat u}
If not that u are my kid sister i would not speak to u again Was up girl and where have u been all this while

@ Topic I do not really know how to respond to this cos it is a little tad too sketchy. I do not know if u two have a defined relationship I mean you might think that she is ur girlfriend or u might be having intentions to make her be but the question is that does she know of ur intentions.You might be helping her ,giving her money and stuff (which is what freinds do for one another) but that does not naturally make you both lovers. So I suggest if u should let her know of ur intentions so as to avoid making heartbreaking assumptions

heyo my guy,if you really love her you will forgive her

how many times will u post the topic mr senator?

guy get your life back on its groove. you saw her holding guy on the neck and you dey lament like this? what if you had seen him banging her brains out? you would have jumped in front of a moving trailer? guy move on joo. she is not the only girl in the world.

oga senator,get a girlfriend,that one was never yours.

naijacutee:

Have you spoken to her about your intentions and gotten her view on this? It seems to me that you made/are making quite a lot of assumptions.

i have spoken to her she always tells me that i am her boyfriend this minute the next minute she goes haywire.She says she loves me and all that bla bla.should i stay away for sometimes? honestly i dont know what to do

Honestly, u need to get urself a new girlfriend

harvey:

how many times will u post the topic mr senator?

sorry sir,i am just heart broken.i want help.

Uche2nna:

Honestly, u need to get yourself a new girlfriend

A new girlfriend?it isnt easy o.This one is a real wife material or does she think i am a fool.I wish i can shout at her but i dont want to be the cause of a ruin in our relationship.She hasnt called 2days in a row.I made the last 2 calls

let go. she wants to.

ok baby boy .I will hands off but she had beta not giv me the crap of i am her boyfriend cos when she does i will give her a good talking to.So you mean some1 can say i love you and dont mean it.i dont use that word anyhow except i mean it.GIRLS NA UNA SABI O.thANX NAIJACUTEE ,KATHERINE BABY BOY,D VAMPIRE. AND OTHERS I go put my money to better use .I have wasted money on her THANKS Y'LL

Senetor 100,
foolin who here? please u r in an undefined relation ship and anything goes for all i care, helpin and givin money could be your own poverty allevation programme as a good citizen of OBJ.
So stop whinnin n crying over wat u dont own in the first place.
On a more serious note, if u actually want sumtin more fulfilin and rewarding from the gal, seat her dow n have a serious talk with her, only then can u get to know if she wants u as well n invoke commitment , oda wise u r wasting ur time n runnin a one man charity organisation wit one babe as beneficiary.

if you still like her. Just try to talk wit da most sexxxxxxxieeeeeesssst voice in da world.
if not, talk unappreciatingly, she'll not dare come back. But if u kinda like her, just show it to her.

You still need to understand that you shouldn't trust anybody, She just paly game on you. Anyway she has just taken you for fool in which you are not, but pls when every she come around you again be blunt with her and tell without losing you temper that she has workover the respect and love you have for her, and made up your mind to forget about her, if she truly love you with time she will find you, but if not find your level ooo.