damseyl:
Hello. So I have been on a few dates with a guy I met online. I am 20 and he is 23. Since our first date he was trying to make me come over for dinner and movie. I told him I am not OK with that and he understood. But he continued to invite me at his place for our dates. I refused every time( we were on 4 dates)
He was getting really physical since second date and at our last date he tried to have sex with me in his car. I told him NO. I let him take off my blouse because for a moment I thought that I want it too, but I stopped him. He just laughed and thought I was playing hard to get and continued to kiss me and touch me. I said NO again and he stopped but still couldn't believe I actually do not want it. He told me to relax and trust him because he is a serious guy and he will treat me well. I finally told him I am a virgin and he was speechless. I also told him I stood this was because I had been harrased when I was 17 and decided to stay a virgin untill I am 100% sure I want to do it. I also told him that I do plan to have sex with him, but I need to know him better. He was OK with it and even told me he likes the fact that I was honest with him and told him what happened to me when I was 17.

But he said my virginity it's like a obstacle for him and he has his needs. He told me not to worry and he gave me a few days to decide if I want to continue this or not( but he did not kiss me goodbye, he told me to get off of the car because he is in a hurry-well he actually was, I know for sure, he did not held my hand while driving..he was distant) I wrote him a few days later and told him I am not OK with some " things" right now, but maybe in the future, I will change my mind..and he blocked me a few hours later-after he promised me he won't do such a thing because whatever my decision will be, he wants us to stay friends-he told me this at our last date.
Why the hell did he block me? I wasn't messaging him constantly, I barely texted first. btw- he never even asked for my phone number, we talked online//so I wasn't clingy. Why he did it Does he think I am a weirdo or I pissed him off? He had been involved with lots of girls in the past and he said he has never mt a girl like me-a virgin. ht
He looked really pissed of after I told him I don't want sex, but he only became distant after I said I am a virgin. He also told me he wants a relationship with me, but I doubt it.
So why did he block me after promising he won't do it?! It was my fault? It would had been better if I just slept with him? http://able2know.org/topic/327363-1

damseyl:
Hello. So I have been on a few dates with a guy I met online. I am 20 and he is 23. Since our first date he was trying to make me come over for dinner and movie. I told him I am not OK with that and he understood. But he continued to invite me at his place for our dates. I refused every time( we were on 4 dates)
He was getting really physical since second date and at our last date he tried to have sex with me in his car. I told him NO. I let him take off my blouse because for a moment I thought that I want it too, but I stopped him. He just laughed and thought I was playing hard to get and continued to kiss me and touch me. I said NO again and he stopped but still couldn't believe I actually do not want it. He told me to relax and trust him because he is a serious guy and he will treat me well. I finally told him I am a virgin and he was speechless. I also told him I stood this was because I had been harrased when I was 17 and decided to stay a virgin untill I am 100% sure I want to do it. I also told him that I do plan to have sex with him, but I need to know him better. He was OK with it and even told me he likes the fact that I was honest with him and told him what happened to me when I was 17.

But he said my virginity it's like a obstacle for him and he has his needs. He told me not to worry and he gave me a few days to decide if I want to continue this or not( but he did not kiss me goodbye, he told me to get off of the car because he is in a hurry-well he actually was, I know for sure, he did not held my hand while driving..he was distant) I wrote him a few days later and told him I am not OK with some " things" right now, but maybe in the future, I will change my mind..and he blocked me a few hours later-after he promised me he won't do such a thing because whatever my decision will be, he wants us to stay friends-he told me this at our last date.
Why the hell did he block me? I wasn't messaging him constantly, I barely texted first. btw- he never even asked for my phone number, we talked online//so I wasn't clingy. Why he did it Does he think I am a weirdo or I pissed him off? He had been involved with lots of girls in the past and he said he has never mt a girl like me-a virgin. ht
He looked really pissed of after I told him I don't want sex, but he only became distant after I said I am a virgin. He also told me he wants a relationship with me, but I doubt it.
So why did he block me after promising he won't do it?! It was my fault? It would had been better if I just slept with him? http://able2know.org/topic/327363-1

lilyqueen:


If truly you are a virgin it's better you stay away from any relationship.

Don't jeopardize your Life because of a guy.

He is not worth it

lilyqueen:


If truly you are a virgin it's better you stay away from any relationship.

Don't jeopardize your Life because of a guy.

He is not worth it

luckygirl02:
Person no knw wetin to write sef. Anyway, he wants just sex from you. [b]If u need a serious rltnshp, go for a guy in his late twenties or early thirties. Most guys @ 23 just want to have fun and enjoy life. [/b]Shikena

lilyqueen:


If truly you are a virgin it's better you stay away from any relationship.

Don't jeopardize your Life because of a guy.

He is not worth it

luckygirl02:
Person no knw wetin to write sef. Anyway, he wants just sex from you. If u need a serious rltnshp, go for a guy in his late twenties or early thirties. Most guys @ 23 just want to have fun and enjoy life. Shikena

Emodeee:
Click like if you think this story is complicated.

What's she saying? You were harassed but you are still a virgin, how come?

damseyl:
Hello. So I have been on a few dates with a guy I met online. I am 20 and he is 23. Since our first date he was trying to make me come over for dinner and movie. I told him I am not OK with that and he understood. But he continued to invite me at his place for our dates. I refused every time( we were on 4 dates)
He was getting really physical since second date and at our last date he tried to have sex with me in his car. I told him NO. I let him take off my blouse because for a moment I thought that I want it too, but I stopped him. He just laughed and thought I was playing hard to get and continued to kiss me and touch me. I said NO again and he stopped but still couldn't believe I actually do not want it. He told me to relax and trust him because he is a serious guy and he will treat me well. I finally told him I am a virgin and he was speechless. I also told him I stood this was because I had been harrased when I was 17 and decided to stay a virgin untill I am 100% sure I want to do it. I also told him that I do plan to have sex with him, but I need to know him better. He was OK with it and even told me he likes the fact that I was honest with him and told him what happened to me when I was 17.

But he said my virginity it's like a obstacle for him and he has his needs. He told me not to worry and he gave me a few days to decide if I want to continue this or not( but he did not kiss me goodbye, he told me to get off of the car because he is in a hurry-well he actually was, I know for sure, he did not held my hand while driving..he was distant) I wrote him a few days later and told him I am not OK with some " things" right now, but maybe in the future, I will change my mind..and he blocked me a few hours later-after he promised me he won't do such a thing because whatever my decision will be, he wants us to stay friends-he told me this at our last date.
Why the hell did he block me? I wasn't messaging him constantly, I barely texted first. btw- he never even asked for my phone number, we talked online//so I wasn't clingy. Why he did it Does he think I am a weirdo or I pissed him off? He had been involved with lots of girls in the past and he said he has never mt a girl like me-a virgin. ht
He looked really pissed of after I told him I don't want sex, but he only became distant after I said I am a virgin. He also told me he wants a relationship with me, but I doubt it.
So why did he block me after promising he won't do it?! It was my fault? It would had been better if I just slept with him? http://able2know.org/topic/327363-1