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| Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by ChangeIsCostant: 12:53pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
This is a true life story of a woman who is lamenting her ordeal after getting divorced by her husband due to her ego and bad advice from people around her. This was shared by 'Relationship Matters Forum'. Read below; I am 32 years old. Me and my ex hubby dated for six years, I started dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now). My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare him that if you wish divorce me- I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look a lose in his eyes. One day I pushed him so had that for the first time he beat me and lock me out side, I went to my family, my family took him to police, every time I looked like I am being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally. He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong. My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall. Of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled. After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will look like am begging him, and my sisters believed he is faking the illness. All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and say he will get the divorce because I live like am in hell. When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce. We got divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful how you get advise. Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me. There is no benefit in pride! Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/07/there-is-no-benefit-in-pride-woman-who.html 213 Likes 34 Shares |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by dainformant(m): 12:54pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
continue listening to ur friends that are happily married 144 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by PrettyCrystal: 12:55pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
go and marry again 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by timay(m): 12:57pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
abeg hep me tell dem |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
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| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Flexherbal(m): 1:01pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Women submit to your husbands, men love your wives! 84 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by zarakay(f): 1:11pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
humility pays 47 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by kiddoiLL(m): 1:24pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
ish! coming thru! divorce ni iwo fi ko ogbon.. fvck our exes we dnt miss u 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Mynd44: 1:27pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
I hail your story telling skills 144 Likes 11 Shares
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| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Itzurboi(m): 1:38pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
You see ur life, nd i warnd u then but you wouldnt listen.... Nd Mr Seun aint available 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by decatalyst(m): 2:03pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Are you telling this to those ladies wey be say all they know is how to apply make up? They will still not hear until they became an object of ridicule 21 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
" Every time we argue, I would
pack my bags, go to my family and explain." It's like you were high on Cameroon pepper then. pack your bags ke? Is marriage like boarding school? people dey sha. 207 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by hahn(m): 2:07pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
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| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by emmyw(m): 2:36pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
But...... 3 Likes
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| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Sese2(f): 3:14pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Good for you,it serves you right. Go on continue listening to your special adviser. 5 Likes |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Biafrarep(m): 3:17pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
My ex girlfriend is about to make the same mistake. Women will never learn & they keep learning the hard way when its already too late. 33 Likes |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Mynd44: 28 Likes
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| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by allanphash7(m): 3:35pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Just only 2 choice in a Relationship It is either you loose you ego for your relationship or you let you loose your relationship for your ego Women with pride sha 27 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Fairgodwin(m): 3:36pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Interesting 1 Like |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Mopricelezz(f): 3:38pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Ok 1 Like |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by ollyfessy(m): 3:38pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
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| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Gist247(m): 3:39pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
And you people believe this.. Chai. Nice story sha. 7 Likes |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by admax(m): 3:39pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
I join you in hailing her too The story lacks substance. Too many holes. Mynd44: 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by HDee(m): 3:40pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
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| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by DICKtator: 3:41pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
This is grade A mumuisim!!!!!!  2 Likes |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by tukdi: 3:42pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
 Na now you know! That serves her right!!! Who pride Epp |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by kiowy(m): 3:42pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
it is well |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by Itannooluwa(f): 3:42pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
oh...stories dah touch NEXT 3 Likes |
| Re: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by iornenge81(m): 3:43pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
read this same story here a year ago 3 Likes 1 Share |
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