We just can't get it right these days.
I'm 25 and have been with my boyfriend, a perfect gentleman, for two years. In the beginning, everything seemed wonderful, and things are still great except for the sex. We just can't get it right these days. Either we have sex and it ends in disaster (over too quickly) or we make no attempts to do it at all. I mean, he tries to make "moves," but I usually reject him because I'm no longer turned on (mainly because I know how fast it will be over). I can count on a few fingers the times I've had an orgasm with him in this two-year relationship! Aside from the sex, we're pretty fabulous together. He wants me to be happy, but I'm starting to feel desperate. We plan to marry next year! —Pleased, but Not Satisfied
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From Anonymous citizen

Op i will nt advice u because is nt yr story, tell the lady in question to come nd register has a nl members then she will get solution to her problem.

move on if u are not satisfied. buh I believe their shld be compromises in relationships as deep as yours

Well, I think relationship is not just about sex!

wemmieslim:
Well, I think relationship is not just about sex!

babe no go there sex morning, afternoon and night ni weather good or bad.

If the sex is bad, then the relationship isn't 'perfectly good'.

They are things you could get him to make him active nah shoo, simply ask google and you will find them in your neighbourhood

Sit him down and talk to him about it. Let him know you are not satisfied with the sex aspect of your relationship.

Tell him to do something about it so that you both can ur marriage.

Surfboard:
If the sex is bad, then the relationship isn't 'perfectly good'.

No relationship is "perfectly good" I can sense she is the type who's clitt is in tack and probably itchy always that is why she will like a guy who will want to do it often , maybe he is really not good but two years is enough time to get to know each other well and be able to discuss things openly and in fact teach him too but really if you know you are no longer interested in him let him go it's not too late .

Don't go too far, get Re-youth, it does wonders and no side effects. OP if u can get this to the story owner, kindly do.

OP you see the Oxymoron in your title yea?

At any rate I hope the story is really friction" but what is wrong with we youths,sex is becoming more important than normal,Don't get me wrong I look forward to having great sex with my wife but I bet it when the children comes,when we both have to chase our goals,when the need to hold our hands through tick and thin comes,cuddling,companionship,smiles joyfully" shared tears" would mean more than the lustful passion of sex..Example if your mum or dad is around 4o+years, they become more interested in guiding you through life,seeing you getting married,getting each others respect

and what av u done 2 improve d situation?? how sure are u that ur next relationship won't take same route? I'm laughing.. Just a Lil problem that can be taken care of, and here u are blabbing.. break up jare.. he meet some1 that he probably have a great sexual experience with.