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Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 12:15pm On Dec 07, 2006 |
Hey guys ![]() The thoughts of getting married is beginning to excite a guy.He has seen who he wants to marry and adores her. They live in different countries aside Nigeria. The guy is so desperate to see the girl and has asked her to come over and visit him 'cause he can't (due to his job) Now, this guy works, while the girl is still a student. The guy finds it ridiculous to sponsor her trip (The fare is $1000) and asks the girl to contribute half of the fare. The girl tells the guy that she doesn't want to contribute to this first trip but will surely split the fares for the subsequent trips she might make if all goes well between them Reasons: Girl- she wants the guy to take care of the fares as that would give her some feeling of seriousness on the guy's part Guy- He feels they're into the relationship together (3 weeks old tho' they've known each other from back home) so therefore it should be a 50-50 deal What do y'all think? |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Busta(f): 2:26pm On Dec 07, 2006 |
i'll have to agree with the gurl on this, moreover she's already making the scarifice of going to visit him and agreed to pay consequently if things goes on well btw them. |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by harvey(m): 3:33pm On Dec 07, 2006 |
this is outrageous.how can?is love not about sharing?must the guy be the one to carry all the financial burden all becos he is in love?is she also not in love?is love all about one person.i think this is selfishness.if she cant afford it that understandable but if she can and doesnt well na bad bele be that. |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by ThoniaSlim(f): 4:14pm On Dec 07, 2006 |
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Re: Found A Wife But ? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
Tell us that it is your story and don't try to be funny. |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by ghengis(m): 5:17pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
there are two sides to this (like in every story), if the guy thinks he's found a wife then he's thinking very eriously and wants to be certain abt ha level of commitment, Does the girl know wat his wage value is?, On the other hand, she's sacrificed a lot like busta said to agree to visit him and might just be a way for ha to know too that he's for real if h pays for ha trip. This life ehn!!! abeg Radiant, if na you, just follow ur heart, since the couple have been familiar for long, she knows somethings abt him, they must/ shd be enof to draw healthy conclusions about wat to do, or at least they'd have mutual friends who she cld somehow find out abt the guy from. Money isn't the real issue, its trust and willingness to commit!!! |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 7:11pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
Oh yeah, the story is about me. Gaywaka, what d'u have to say now? |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by babyboy2(m): 7:27pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
@ Radiant ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 7:38pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
Baby, ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by jammin(m): 10:24pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
i dont care 50/50 or nothing. more fishes in the sea. life is that simple. ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by edmondo(m): 10:29pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
50/50 or no deal afrer all love is about sharing |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 10:36pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
I ain't that desperate people!!! ![]() Besides, the so called "relationship" has packed up. . lol. . and like Jammin said, enough fish out there and my net is good to go ![]() ![]() ![]() I have my expectations from guys and will not compromise for whatever reason. ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by jammin(m): 10:52pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
This word Desperate just keep poppin up all over the place. Hmmmmm ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 10:53pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
You don't know what it means? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by jammin(m): 11:05pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
well, this is the second time i am asking for it to be defined. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 11:09pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
![]() ![]() ![]() How u doing tho'? Long time! ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by jammin(m): 11:26pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
yeah looong,loong, loooooong time. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 11:27pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
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Re: Found A Wife But ? by jammin(m): 11:34pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
i am knocking ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 11:38pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
U welcome baby ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by jammin(m): 11:47pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
if i was welcome u would know wat to do. ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by bluenubian(f): 11:50pm On Dec 18, 2006 |
naaaah things might sound good over the phone, but not always are after u meet, u ll be crying about that 500 dollars later. if the guy is serious, he shud be paying the whole amount at least for the first trip. |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 1:00am On Dec 19, 2006 |
Blue, the guy is a big dreamer. I wonder which girl will be doing a 50/50 deal with a guy she's 'known' for 3 weeks. ![]() Actually, to be honest, at first when he asked me to come over, I told him that I was planning on going to Spain for Xmas but I might change my mind. I finally changed my mind and agreed to go meet him. When I told him, he was so excited and asked me what I'll do the first time I'll see him. I laughed and told him[b] "before we get to that, let's decide who takes care of the fares. Certainly, not me!"[/b] And then he asked me to find out how much the fare was and that we'll definitely split it 50/50.That means he was even expecting me to sponsor the trip [/b]I sent a mail to him explaining why I won't contribute jack, thinking the guy was a serious dude. To cut the long story short, the last I heard from him was a text message which read [b]"you're simply unbelievable.Continue with the good attitude". Of course I din't bother to reply such. A guy talking about marriage and asking the girl to pay half of the fare? Sorry guys! I don't play such cards. I need a real man and not a toy!!! |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by jammin(m): 1:10am On Dec 19, 2006 |
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHA ![]() ![]() HEHEHEHEHEHEHE ![]() ![]() I JUST COULD NOT RESIST ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 1:12am On Dec 19, 2006 |
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Re: Found A Wife But ? by JosBoy4Lif(m): 1:13am On Dec 19, 2006 |
3 weeks thats awesome ![]() Thats more than the avaerage arranged marriage ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 1:16am On Dec 19, 2006 |
In which Country? lol |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by JosBoy4Lif(m): 1:17am On Dec 19, 2006 |
Kazakhstan ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 1:19am On Dec 19, 2006 |
Ok then ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by JosBoy4Lif(m): 1:20am On Dec 19, 2006 |
Their Average was approximately 5 weeks Close but no cigar ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by Radiant(f): 1:22am On Dec 19, 2006 |
Definitely no cigar! What d'u expect? ![]() |
Re: Found A Wife But ? by LoverBwoy(m): 2:10am On Dec 19, 2006 |
at first i thought the guy was a joker, until i read the whole thing hehe to be honest seems like you wanted the trip/holiday more ![]() you mentioned marriage after 3 weeks ![]() cos the man want you to pay half now u call him a toy whatever happened to independent women, naija many "fisses" in de river ![]() |
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