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| Relationships Among Undergraduates by maroedeks(m): 12:58am On Aug 01, 2016 |
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| Re: Relationships Among Undergraduates by maroedeks(m): 1:02am On Aug 01, 2016 |
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| Re: Relationships Among Undergraduates by maroedeks(m): 1:04am On Aug 01, 2016 |
Relationships are crazy or should i say university relationships,it's a comic show. I've seen different scenarios that just makes one wonder why students get into relationships in the first place. I was on the phone the other day with a friend and i asked him about his girlfriend then he started talking about how he wanted to break up with her,i was surprised because i thought everything was going well with them but he said he was tired of the relationship & tired of unnecessary arguments or another case of a friend whose relationships just fizzled out due to lack of commitment from both parties... i guess they were too focused on other things and we all can't deny that most boys (i can't commit the error of hasty generalization by saying "all"  ) are often after sex and just leads the girl on just to get that and once they get that they start to become uninterested in the relationship,it's a bit like chasing an ice cream bus {remember those days when we were kids} so hard then finally catching up and buying a cone for yourself,then you lick it and after like 20mins of the euphoria you start to wonder if you just wasted your money or if the taste was worth your struggle and think of various things you could have used the money to buy...some of all this relationship problems reminds me of my own situation some time ago how i moaned about my relationship then too not that the girl i dated wasn't nice or a girlfriend material,the excuse i always gave was that we were not on the same wavelength or we were two entirely different people but the question is that shouldn't i have known that before i asked her out or was it that i was too blinded by the thought of me finally getting a girlfriend??..This is not to say that there aren't great relationships among undergraduates tho,we all must have seen one great University couple or the other who look bound for the altar.So now the big question i need to ask now is "do undergraduates ever date for solid reasons?" . 1 Like |
| Re: Relationships Among Undergraduates by jamex93(m): 1:37am On Aug 01, 2016 |
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| Re: Relationships Among Undergraduates by Sexxkillz: 8:05am On Aug 01, 2016 |
I personally think such relationships make no sense, even though it works out for a microscopical few We all know that the aim of being an undergraduate, is to be a graduate with good grades that'll put you in pole position to get a job and further your chosen career. But then, the laws of attraction must take place. Undergraduates are mostly teenagers who have been "caged" all their life by their parent. Now they're in an environment with so much freedom to do anything, and to discover feelings they never knew existed. The next obvious thing, is to experiment. The fleeting feeling they get from being with a member of the opposite sex becomes like a drug addiction and they keep going back for more. But of course, they're all too vulnerable and naïve to realize that life has so much more to offer them in the future. They fall in "love" and have to deal with the consequences of heartbreak, stds, unwanted pregnancies as the case may be. This surely deviates from their original aim of being undergraduates because they now get distracted. And by the time they realize their misplaced priorities, the harm has been done. Sometimes I'll also argue that such relationships kind of shaped a lot of people into being better persons, and worse. Undergraduate relationships lead now where, most times. It can not be stopped either. The only help you can render to curb it is to tell those that matter to you the truth about life. Let them see that there is time for everything. If you don't guide them, the consequences will somehow also affect you. If you're an undergraduate and you're reading this, that girl in your department you think you cannot live without, in the next few years, you'll ask yourself what got you attracted to her in the first place. That boy you are cooking for and being a wife to, as an undergraduate will never marry you. Do not realize the facts when it's already too late. You can never jump a stage in life. If you jump a stage, there are consequences. Learn from the mistakes of others and avoid the destructive paths they chose. See your current situation as a 2nd chance. Face your studies. Ladies are always attracted to successful people or people who have the potential to be successful. Become successful or put yourself on the paths of success, and when the time comes, you'll be spoilt for choice. 6 Likes |
| Re: Relationships Among Undergraduates by firstking01(m): 8:48am On Aug 01, 2016 |
Campus relationships usually ends at the school gate. |
| Re: Relationships Among Undergraduates by SirDavico(m): 9:45am On Aug 01, 2016 |
That Is what I always tell those who pester me for not having a girlfriend. I'm not ready to commit to a relationship, so why do I need a girlfriend? |
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