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Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by deouf25(m): 11:47pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
take the car away, and the guy will will go away,if the situation is true. |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by Nobody: 11:50pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
Kirinwa: You action and reaction deserve a poster so enjoy
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Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by holysaint1(m): 11:55pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
Chepy1: My sista which kind runs.. ? The money to fuel d car and some other repairs needed by the car Neva reach to pay t fare to and fro her school.. Well make I no too mch before dem tag me as "poor mentality" Last bullet: just advice her "thoroughly". Hoping she would change for the better. |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by Nobody: 12:05am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Chepy1:I don't mean to be rude... but it's obvious you spoiled your sister... like TYLER PERRY (Medea) said.."the worse thing one can do to a child is to give them whatever they want".. |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by moshino(m): 12:09am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Chepy1: Then you are the problem. She does not need to have a car in school to accomplish what she went there to do in the first place. Exposing her to this level of unrealistic extravagance is counter productive, and will ruin her in all sorts of ways. The only time a person should own a car is when they can afford to buy one themselves. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by iukpe: 12:10am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Poorboy: Secondly, ...who is the source for her money? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by Slimberry1(f): 12:12am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Hmm...well ma'am this is a very delicate issue and has to be addressed as such, the step of taking the car from her might be a right one..but not good as it cannot solve the problem. As long as she cannot see practical reasons she should not be that guy, no matter what you do to her she will not leave him,even freeze her account,strip her of all comforts am telling you she will still stick to him,if dey get seperated for a short period of time she will still always go back because she cannot see and would not be interested in seeing practical reasons why he is bad n shld be left.... Sit her down and have heart to heart talk with her just ask her questions about the guy n d relationship there u can pick some things...and if there's a way you can let her see the guy is a gold digger,I mean trap the guy and bring His faults before her early enough,let her cry now ... If she hasn't experienced it,she will never understand all you are telling her. Its only when she can reason from the experience, then she will conveniently drop unnecessary luxuries attached to herself.. You won't need to seize her car or freeze her allowance then..she wld be decide rightly where n how to use the car amd her money |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by rolly44: 12:21am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Caution her before she distroy herself, cos at this stage she thinks life is a bed of roses. |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by 3RNEST(m): 12:47am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Technically.. You put her in this mess... Why didn't you buy her kekenape instead of car... Or better still ladies bike... If possible hover... Anyway too much money necessary... Keep it up @Op.. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by RichYoungNigga: 1:16am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Marcan:You have Nigerian mentality. Everyone in my school all drives Porsche, Range Rover and Bentley. And those kids are not even up to 18 years old. |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by 3RNEST(m): 1:25am On Aug 06, 2016 |
RichYoungNigga:True talk . |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by Originalsly: 1:29am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Chepy1:Are you sure the guy is dating her?.... extorting her?...or pimping her? Money talks....cut the cash flow for two months.... she'll find out who be leeches and who be friends. |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by Kiddominant(m): 3:48am On Aug 06, 2016 |
You don spoil ur sister come here dey disturb person, Unfortunately, that's how all this over pampered kids behave, Just Bleep the shit out of her kitty cat and she go dey mumu for u, The guy is in charge of her mumu button and there is nothing u can do to stop it because she has been overpampered, but how they take gossip to u that it was the guy that baffles me. |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by Kiddominant(m): 3:56am On Aug 06, 2016 |
You dey buy car for am, Say she go be future Michelle Obama or what wey no suppose stress herself... mtchew, Obama pikin neva get bicycle na im una don spoil una sis with car, KONTINU. |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by 1kinggy(m): 3:57am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Just talk to her about her about school and guys, particularly campus relationships. On the car, make she find a comfortable place on campus or close to the school where she doesn't need a car or get her a Nissan Micra or any 2 doors car... no unnecessary passenger and low maintenance even if it crashes. |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by eyinjuege: 4:06am On Aug 06, 2016 |
davtosh: I doubt it very much its Kanu you're referring to. He got married to her when she was just 18years old, and by then he was already a household name in Nigeria and internationally. Meaning she must have been like 10years old or less when KANU started playing football. So she couldn't have bought him boots or anything. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by emmabest2000(m): 4:44am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Chepy1:Pele ..
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Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by Fidelismaria: 4:53am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Collect d car Strip her of all benefits Nd send her bck to sch hostel Se na dis bubuhari economy person go dey crash car |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by Nobody: 4:54am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Chepy1: Are you not the one... Chepy1: All your scheming... 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by femi4: 5:08am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Onegai:10/10 |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by Bisiloveyou009(f): 5:26am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by Nobody: 5:27am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Dating that involve girl spending na scam Any guy that collect from gf na 419 Let her understand she is been scam of sex and money Lobatan Immediately she will tell you to go back home thats only if the guy don format her brain with big lies |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by ChynoBEATS: 5:28am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Chepy1: A lady who can't control her spending aint worth helping..... She deserves some punishment.... Leave the car like that n give her on some kinda probation on somethings .... Don't let her go wayward... U can help control.... AfterAll she looks up 2u..... N dat I'd!ot boify of her's .... He should be fully ashamed of himself... |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by hylyne(m): 5:28am On Aug 06, 2016 |
I feel she too comfortable as a student. She might be attracting wrong company to herself. Which definitely would affect her studies. Bro, whatever u need to do to make her focus on her studies, please do that. Also remind her of your family values, which must not deviate from. |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by olive282(f): 5:32am On Aug 06, 2016 |
FortuneTeller: Is dis really necessary? .....cz i dnt tink it is 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by fexyrich(m): 5:35am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Trina0936:so because of this single story it means men are now gold diggers abi??see ur life ?? na una ladies dey dig for gold pass and u know it..How many ladies even get gold to dig??most times whatever a lady has was given to her by a man.Except for few hardworking ladies..so whatever the gold digger guy is digging also came frm a guy..so leave that matter abeg.. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by ayooladee(f): 5:48am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Lovelynature:nice |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by ayooladee(f): 5:49am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Nyceguy92:100 likes |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by worriedgirl: 5:52am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Onegai:chepy1 I agree with this... cut down her stipends in the guise of things are hard, every leech surrounding her will definitely leave... meanwhile, is your dog a chihuahua breed? My Samoyed breed used to be really cute until they grew up and became so wild and scary,i had to get rid of them, I'm considering going for a chihuahua since they always remain small and cute |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by freenature: 5:59am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Chepy1: If you love her, strip her of the car and reduce her allowances, but the allowances should be enough for basic needs and no frivolous spending. She needs to experience what living like a student is not someone making money cos as of now she makes non and thats one of the reason the bo y is clingy to her cos she's got the money. Do not send her money anyhow .. If need be take care of matters yourself and visit her as often as possible but without telling her, that way some real truth will be revealed to you. |
Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by baby124: 6:19am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Go and see her unannounced and you will realise that scrub is living with her. Send her back to the hostel and take the car away. Tell her you can't afford to spend on that car anymore in this economy and you can only afford hostel fees and see that boy dump her. Which will be for her own good. That guy is going to distract her from her studies and if you don't step in now, she will regret it. She won't listen to any advice you give her about this boy except if he dumps her. The fastest way he will dump her is when she lacks all the comforts he is enjoying right now. Don't even tell her that anyone told you anything. Just act. |
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