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My Bedroom Wahala by deco2come: 6:48am On Sep 21, 2009 |
How would you feel when you go to bed with your penis still standing like a walk stick used by forefathers while beside you lies a girl that can calm down the tension? From the moment I met her to this very day, she is still the princess I am proud of. The only problem now is unsatisfied sex. Anytime I made love to her, she will give up after the first round. She always complain that she is already satisfy and can't go for the second round. Sometimes I feel so angry because the tension is still burning in me. On one condition she said that she can't continue, my desire was so strong that I had to hold her down and take her from behind. At the end, I felt sorry for my acts. I apologize to her but she said that I don't have to apologize but to blame her incompetence and was crying. Now she always ask me if I love her. I am tired of that question. I have tried to let her know that there is nothing wrong but she always has some fear within her that I might go for another girl to quench my hunger. She always feel sorry anytime I lie on my stomach trying to calm down my erect penis. Now I am fighting two cases, calming down my tension and trying to erase that fear of dumping within her. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by whitelexi(m): 7:40am On Sep 21, 2009 |
I feel sorry for u cos i can relate with your situation. If she loves u, then she has to understand and try going beyond the first round or do some serious pre-intimacy, otherwise i'm afraid she's justified in asking whether u love her cos she's on her way out if she cant satisfy u - and she knows it in the back of her mind. Be patient with her for now, things change with time - perhaps she'll get to adapt a bit. . . But the chances are quite dim and you should consider your options if there is no joy at the end of the day. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by justwise(m): 7:40am On Sep 21, 2009 |
I think u are being selfish here, u made her feel the way she is feeling now, u have complained so much that she is feeling like a failure or incompetent in bed. U probably having s.x with her not making love with her, u go ontop and start pounding like no 2moro without caring about how she want it and get her involved, all she does is to lay there praying that u finish soon and leave her alone. If u stop thinking with your willy and take your time and pay attention to the senstive part of her body, she will feel more loved,she will be more than ready to return the fav by the time u want to start pounding. Stop treating her as your s.x toy and more of an active partner. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by whitelexi(m): 7:46am On Sep 21, 2009 |
justwise: Thats a harsh assumption You should ask if thats what he's doing and not assume and scold |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by justwise(m): 7:55am On Sep 21, 2009 |
whitelexi: He should honestly prove me wrong. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by deco2come: 7:58am On Sep 21, 2009 |
Whitelexi, Thanks for your concern and advice justwise: Justwise, I think you are living the life of a media( those journalists that rushed into conclusion without knowing the state of the affair). I don't know what your definition of sex is but the last time I checked my dictionary( which was an hour ago),unless if it has been updated, it has the same meaning as with "make love". Fucking or Bleep is the vulgar words. Please don't call her my intimacy gadget again. She is more than you think. Anyway, I do appreciate your concern. Thank you. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by AniLee(f): 8:04am On Sep 21, 2009 |
i see things are getting personal now eeh? |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by justwise(m): 8:09am On Sep 21, 2009 |
No u don't a appreciate my comment that is why u reacted with anger, quiet rightly so, don't expect everybody to agree with u or tell u what u want to hear in a forum like this. I did not use the term, f, k for obvious reason. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by deco2come: 8:24am On Sep 21, 2009 |
justwise: Haha, you are damn funny. Anytime I'm browsing through nairaland, I always felt that we are one family. Don't decipher my writing as anger. I do understand everyone won't have the same view point. justwise: When I read those lines, I was rolling on the ground with laughter. Of course there is tomorrow, especially when there are a lot of guys owning me out there |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by justwise(m): 8:28am On Sep 21, 2009 |
deco2come: Hahahaha. please i'm not one of those owning u, take it easy when u read and reply my post, ahaha, no hard feelings bro |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by MissyB1(m): 8:30am On Sep 21, 2009 |
Apparently, You only want to read comments made in Your favor but sorry to discontent You . . . .I quite agree wiff Just2wise esp. his first 2 lines. If Your desire is too strong and she can't meet up Y don't You two get to some kinda compromise and as for Your girl . . . . . I smell a high rate of insecurity and it will do her no good.NVM . . .I should be telling HER that not YOU. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by amebono1: 8:34am On Sep 21, 2009 |
Missy b and justwise have said it all whatever happened to pre-intimacy, i mean the real serious pre-intimacy, its so obvious all you do is take her and ram your ozuma rock into her hole without lubricating the place with pre-intimacy, why on earth wouldnt she complain I hope the first or second gurl you had sex with is a prostitute, cos that will explain the reason why you just ram without smooching |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by whitelexi(m): 10:26am On Sep 21, 2009 |
!amebo no1: LMAO But seriously, some guys are like this - they dont cum quickly no matter what the girl does, so make una no kill am ohhh |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by saucekid(m): 10:48am On Sep 21, 2009 |
el stupido |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by amebono1: 11:27am On Sep 21, 2009 |
whitelexi: so because some guys are like this, then alot of we women have to suffer numerous panelbeating right inside of us? even those that dig for gold, they first of all massage the ground with their legs or hands before digging, all this guy does is rip clothes or raise it up before drilling, i mean, if he continues like this, this girl will end up with a catheter connected to her vagina cos her vaginal wall is loose If he wants to practice ramming without smooching, let him go to the zoo, and leave the delicate/sensitive hole of a woman, if a guy tries this on me, i swear to gawd, he will end up sleeping for two months, cos i will so sedate him,atleast to have my peace and heal properly |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by tmoney11(m): 11:47am On Sep 21, 2009 |
It happen like that, My guy you need to take things easy okay, cause if u leave this girl of urs do you no who u are going to meet next? |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by sexyLeamon(f): 12:06pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
Even though this is often an uncomfortable topic of discussion, u needs to tell her this directly and not beat around the bush. So many relationships are ruined because the couple cannot communicate about things like sexual performance. I hope u do not just laid down on her and fu*ck her, Few women orgasm with just penetration (hint). you got to be adventurous in the badroom. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by truphie(f): 12:17pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
hahahaha,me i like sex alot oooh.if my bf was hard like dis every night il gladly yansh him till it goes down oh.hmmmm il be happy sef that he wants to fu ck constantly.lol |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by tonywonder(m): 12:18pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
You can make sex enjoyable. Haue pre-intimacy with her! Make her wet and try to know the right places she loves to be touched. I swear she will go more than 1round with you. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by jxoracle(m): 12:21pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
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Re: My Bedroom Wahala by Gabry(f): 12:32pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
Poster, have you talkd to your gf about this? Please tell her about this and maybe it would be nice to tell her what you like her to do. I know if my man tells me what he wants or fantisize, I will have to try and do it cause the nect time when Im feeling Hot, I would expect the same thing from him. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by luvbooks(f): 12:38pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
deco2come: WTF?!!!! You mean you raped her, /?/? Anally justwise: whitelexi: Harsh but valid assumption. Justwise really nailed it on the head. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by ichommy(m): 1:13pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
lol |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by joxiri: 1:54pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
justwise and missybe have valid points and poster yes justwise might have made assumption but there is still some elements of truth in what he is saying but i really think you should consider pre-intimacy and other aspects of sex beesides actual intercourse, because you will probably find out these other aspects are just as satisfying |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by MissyB1(m): 2:14pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
luvbooks:I deliberately refused to thrash that part . . . . . I wanted the poster to make a fool of himself b4fore I slap his crime on his face. These dudes sef!! |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by touchmeder: 2:20pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
On one condition she said that she can't continue, my desire was so strong that I had to hold her down and take her from behind. At the end, I felt sorry for my acts. I apologize to her but she said that I don't have to apologize but to blame her incompetence and was crying. Jesus Christ this was rapeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by justwise(m): 2:35pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
!amebo no1: ahahahaha I was in pieces when i read that part, my God! amebo no1 u are a nutcase |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by justwise(m): 2:36pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
Missy B: Me too, i don't know wat to make of it, i was completely taken aback on that |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by justwise(m): 2:39pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
joxiri: It does help, alot of women don't like fire bridget approach to sex, getting them ready for the main thing may take time but it pays. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by deco2come: 3:01pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
For those that think that I don't know what is pre-intimacy, please this is modern time. I'm not living the life of OKONKWO( Things Fall Apart). Those were the days when men think of their palm wine more than any other thing else. I take time in every thing I do. I don't want to explain my bedroom fantasy here but all I can say is that she is always the one to beg for my d**k during the pre-intimacy. Sometimes she feel satisfy with the pre-intimacy and refuse to continue. !amebo no1: I don't make love like a civil engineer, who always think of the length, width, diameter,radius, and angle of intersection; with driller in his hand, he goes to work! I am an explorer. |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by whitelexi(m): 3:06pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
truphie: Amadioha!! |
Re: My Bedroom Wahala by joxiri: 3:12pm On Sep 21, 2009 |
@deco2come I will advise you and your gf seek sexual therapy and counselling, if it is availabe in nigeria |
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