just came across this http://kush-kush..com/2006/07/why-nigerian-men-marry-european-women_02.html

Why Nigerian Men marry European Women
I came across this article at this site and tears almost came to my eyes when I read it. (the error in numbering is hers and not mine).

I’m an Irish woman and have worked in a refugee centre as a paralegal for five years representing asylum seekers to remain in Ireland. In my time served in this field I have learned the main reasons as to why they marry European Union nationals and it is as follows.

Ten reasons why Nigerian men marry European women (please note this does not include those with full refugee status recognition, doctors, engineers, or those who have ordinarily been resident in an European Union member state for at least five years):

1. Stronger legal basis to remain in the European Union.

2. More freedom to move i.e. change jobs, travel

3. To qualify for European Union fees in colleges etc.

3. To appear to be more successful.

4. More time spent in state will be taken into consideration.

5. To gain citizenship of that country with a view to moving to another European Union member state upon receipt of same.

6. Easier to meet people, easier to integrate,

7. Cannot receive a deportation order and much less likely to warrant the attention of the authorities.

8. Use a white woman, milk her, give her ‘milky’ babies and make mince meat of her for five years for everything she has.

9. Trying a white woman an getting the things that an African lady wouldn’t do in bed although I wouldn’t either but most would (talking bj’s etc) only beauty in white women is things like this.

10. Finally, to have Nigerians when you go home on holidays (especially when choosing a wife) kissing the ground you walk on because you live in Europe people will fling themselves in desperation at you. So overall you get a higher status. What an honour, thanks silly white woman! Job well done!!!!! Now I can go and make my twelve kids, real kids that isPersonally if it was done to me, there will be heads rolling!Then again I know what tribe is more fond of this type of behaviour! together with the uneducated. (Sorry blue eyed Britney nice try but a white man would appreciate you more!)

Yasmeen.

To appear more successful? WTF? My reaction is in two parts. One would be to the bastard sellout Nigerian men (in the minority I pray) who have given this ignorant woman the reason to write this stupid article. I must admit I've missed my true vocation in life and that should have been to work in the British High Commission in Nigeria as the Senior Visa officer. I believe this must be an issue of lack of education primarily so if you don't have at least a OND (ordinary national diploma, as issued after 2 years of study at a College of Technology in Nigeria) you would need to give me some serious reason to let your ass leave the shores of the country.

Secondly this stupid Yasmeen woman that despite her five years of paralegal work is still unable to count. Unless I missed it somewhere did this biatch mention love? In a top ten list? What gives her the audacity to feel superior to Nigerians? Call it 'reverse' racism if you will, but this is why I won't even date a white girl talk less of marrying one. Like Eddie Murphy said "my soul belongs to the black race". Oya lets us dedicate the next five minutes to rain epe (curses) on Yasmeen's head!
Posted by Kush at 2:19 AM

the main reason is, Self-hatred caused by the white media's negative portrayal of blackness.allowed black men to marry white women.Only the confused Black men do this. The smart, educated, self-loving, self-respecting Black men don't do this. Of course, true love is an exception but I believe everyone should stick with their own race.

the main reason is, Self-hatred caused by the white media's negative portrayal of blackness.allowed black men to marry white women.Only the confused Black men do this. The smart, educated, self-loving, self-respecting Black men don't do this. Of course, true love is an exception but I believe everyone should stick with their own race

you"re 100% right. I cant date/marry a white man, not that am racist or anything like that.

My soul belong to the black race, that just the way it is, you either accept it or you dont.

yeah

@ POSTER

Different strokes for different folks. After all we are free to marry whoever we deem fit,aren't we?

It's high time people stop castigating men. Yes men do marry european but so do women.

Seriously though, y'alls should stop hating and fronting. . .

What do u say to those naija sisters who be sucking up every white man's balls and nuts with the primary intention of citizenship via marriage??

Thats just food for thought

whitelexi:

Seriously though, y'alls should stop hating and fronting. . .

What do u say to those naija sisters who be sucking up every white man's balls and nuts with the primary intention of citizenship via marriage??

Thats just food for thought

, come to fink about dt, its sound sincere

whitelexi:

Seriously though, y'alls should stop hating and fronting. . .

What do u say to those naija sisters who be sucking up every white man's balls and nuts with the primary intention of citizenship via marriage??

Thats just food for thought

I agree with u mate, 'some' Nigerian girls wouldn't even dance with u in the club cos they are busy eyeing one white bloke.

sweetpie23:

the main reason is, Self-hatred caused by the white media's negative portrayal of blackness.allowed black men to marry white women.Only the confused Black men do this. The smart, educated, self-loving, self-respecting Black men don't do this. Of course, true love is an exception but I believe everyone should stick with their own race.

AH PLEASE COME OFF THAT!! What about the black women who chase white men, yes they are out there lol.

Furthermore alot of it isn't down to self-hatred. What about black women and their nasty attitudes? It is a culture mentality among many black women that in order to be a real black woman you have to be confrontational and rude because they feel its a sign of strength.
Its funny that alot of black women feel that doing the feminine things like cooking, cleaning and catering to their men are what weak or ''white'' women do, yet alot of them wear imitation white hair i.e. weaving/perming etc and that seems perfectly fine to them. So who's being ''confused''?

Delusional or what?!

men this is wicked o

Im speechless right now

Or maybe they like them and wanted to get married?

^^^ U are a rare Gem

I reserve my comment.

are u sure

Some of the reasons I hear is for papers or some just mess about with them while their folks are sourcing a "virgin" from the village

follypimpi:


That Shit pisses gets on my nerves.

Uhhhmmm I dont know the clubs you frequent but I know white guys are not in black girls radar i.e black girls dont really look at white guys in that way

follypimpi:


does Virgin men still exist

enough

candylips:

enough

I guess i am 1 then

I'm a virgin too ohh

follypimpi:


Clubs in bristol i guess

Nah most black girls I know are not even attracted to white guys like that

whitelexi:

I'm a virgin too ohh

u . na who dash u virgin u wey don dey tear pussie since them born u

candylips:

u . na who dash u virgin u wey don dey tear pussie since them born u

Why u dey burn my cable naaa

whitelexi:

Why u dey burn my cable naaa

hehehe

to get legalised

^^ wetin

it is only a few that marry for true love majority marries the fat ones or women old enough to be their grandma