Dear Bunmi,

I am a 34-year-old man and an Engineer. I met a lady 7 months ago and we agreed to marry each other.

Both of our families have grown to love each other and us both, especially our mothers who have not ceased to show their joy about our union. More so, she does all the house chores perfectly.

Two months ago, my fiancé met this young man with three children but divorced. The man offered her a lift after work and I noticed she changed towards me since then.

She is now going out with the man and her parents told me that they have allowed her to marry the man; I don't understand her anymore.

For about a month now, I find it hard to sleep, always thinking about her, begging her and crying like a baby. I don't want die emotionally!

I beg her to please come back even if she was wrong because I don't want to start all over again. I love her please help me. What can I do now?

Adebola
via Email


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Eyaa.. its like you need the hand of SAMA on your face from me before you reset to default.
Is it that this your issue is the newest thing that ever happened? Or haven't you been reading millions of cases like yours, even worse?
Do you think she loves you and still followed another man? Or do you think that its by begging and crying that she will return?
And even if she returns so what?
Do u think she wont repeat it again after returning to you out of pity?
Lastly.. Do you know that even after you beg and cry and she eventually returns, that your love for her will WAX Cold in no time?
A stitch in time saves nine my brother.. buckle up. Dont wait to learn from experience rather learn grom other's mistakes.

If she insists of not coming back to, then follow her to her husband house- Ahitofel's counsel

Something is missing in you bro!!! Try figure out that and move on with your life... Her coming back will only make you think of taking revenge...

Forget and move on bro

Better a broken relationship than a broken marriage, she's showing her true colours as a disloyal hoe, better go and give thanks to whatever god you serve for saving you

dearbunmi:
Dear Bunmi,

I am a 34-year-old man and an Engineer. I met a lady 7 months ago and we agreed to marry each other.

Both of our families have grown to love each other and us both, especially our mothers who have not ceased to show their joy about our union. More so, she does all the house chores perfectly.

Two months ago, my fiancé met this young man with three children but divorced. The man offered her a lift after work and I noticed she changed towards me since then.

She is now going out with the man and her parents told me that they have allowed her to marry the man; I don't understand her anymore.

For about a month now, I find it hard to sleep, always thinking about her, begging her and crying like a baby. I don't want die emotionally!

I beg her to please come back even if she was wrong because I don't want to start all over again. I love her please help me. What can I do now?

Adebola
via Email


Click below to see my response
http://dearbunmi.com/please-beg-stay/

Do you have any relationship questions?
ask@dearbunmi.com

LOL! What a shame! How could you beg a woman to stay in a relationship with you? This is a total disaster. It seems like you are a wuss.

Look, there are so many women out there you can pick. Get the most out of life and stop being a wussy!

dearbunmi:
Dear Bunmi,

I am a 34-year-old man and an Engineer. I met a lady 7 months ago and we agreed to marry each other.

Both of our families have grown to love each other and us both, especially our mothers who have not ceased to show their joy about our union. More so, she does all the house chores perfectly.

Two months ago, my fiancé met this young man with three children but divorced. The man offered her a lift after work and I noticed she changed towards me since then.

She is now going out with the man and her parents told me that they have allowed her to marry the man; I don't understand her anymore.

For about a month now, I find it hard to sleep, always thinking about her, begging her and crying like a baby. I don't want die emotionally!

I beg her to please come back even if she was wrong because I don't want to start all over again. I love her please help me. What can I do now?

Adebola
via Email


Click below to see my response
http://dearbunmi.com/please-beg-stay/

Do you have any relationship questions?
ask@dearbunmi.com

Fvcking forget the ingrate and move on