Yesterday me and one of my guy was talking about girls generally, then he told me girls had nothing to offer a guy apart from sex. I argued with him that girls had lots of thing to offer a guy, he said i should mention three, i thought about it for a long time but i could only mention sex. After i left him i really thought about it. Apart from sex what does a girls have to offer you. Is it money? Because nowadays its easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than a girl to spend for a boy.

In a typical nigerian relationship, the boy is expected to do the spending only very few cases have i seen otherwise.

I also thought about what a boy can offer a girl. I have seen a boy train a girl through the university only for her to follow a richer guy afterwards. I have also seen a boy who forsake his family beacuse of a girl only for the girl to show am pepper

so my people is there anything a girl can offer a guy a apart from sex with the exception of a wife

Please i would like to know because me and my guy made a bet

She can offer a guy financial management. (d good ones)




She can offer him good advice in areas where she is best at.



She can pray for him. A lady's prayer always works!



She can go the extra mile to care for him when he is down.



She can sacrifice for him.. even as a friend or as a lover.

If u carry this perception enter marriage, my broda, I swear' u go get issue with marriage oooo'. A woman birthed u, a woman tutored and brought u up' the woman was once a girl...
Change ur perception oooo' without eve, there won't have been Abel.
My guy, fear God ooo

donbenedict:
She can offer a guy financial management. (d good ones)




She can offer him good advice in areas where she is best at.



She can pray for him. A lady's prayer always works!



She can go the extra mile to care for him when he is down.



She can sacrifice for him.. even as a friend or as a lover.

in the prayer aspect i think the prayer of a mother is the best thing u can get. Not even the prayer of a pastor matches that

MrAce:


in the prayer aspect i think the prayer of a mother is the best thing u can get. Not even the prayer of a pastor matches that

well that's true... buh be that as it may, we need to look at the brighter side.


I used to think the way u do with respect to females but at a point when I started living alone without any female friends, I saw the need for what a female friend can offer to a guy in need..

Theoritical:
If u take this perception into marriage, my broda, I swear' u go get issue with marriage oooo'. A woman birthed u, a woman tutored and brought u up' the woman was once a girl...
Change ur perception oooo' without eve, there won't have been Abel.

thats y i said with the exception of your wife. A good wife is God's best gift to a man. I have seen wives raise their husbands high so am not talking about wives here.

Am talking about this infactuation of nowadays called love

donbenedict:
well that's true... buh be that as it may, we need to look at the brighter side.


I used to think the way u do with respect to females but at a point when I started living alone without any female friends, I saw the need for what a female friend can offer to a guy in need..

all the females i have encountered think they are actually doing you a favour by dating you when you gain nothing from the relationship

anyways i stand corrected

MrAce:
Yesterday me and one of my guy was talking about girls generally, then he told me girls had nothing to offer a guy apart from sex. I argued with him that girls had lots of thing to offer a guy, he said i should mention three, i thought about it for a long time but i could only mention sex. After i left him i really thought about it. Apart from sex what does a girls have to offer you. Is it money? Because nowadays its easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than a girl to spend for a boy.

In a typical nigerian relationship, the boy is expected to do the spending only very few cases have i seen otherwise.

I also thought about what a boy can offer a girl. I have seen a boy train a girl through the university only for her to follow a richer guy afterwards. I have also seen a boy who forsake his family beacuse of a girl only for the girl to show am pepper

so my people is there anything a girl can offer a guy a apart from sex with the exception of a wife

Please i would like to know because me and my guy made a bet

you have seen guys forsake family and train women through school, yet you have not seen a girl do all that for a man. You are bias.

fromnigeria:

you have seen guys forsake family and train women through school, yet you have not seen a girl do all that for a man. You are bias.

If u read what i wrote well i actually said ''few exceptions have i seen otherwise''
and these few exceptions are like one percent and extremely lucky guys encounter this one percent.

MrAce:


all the females i have encountered think they are actually doing you a favour by dating you when you gain nothing from the relationship

anyways i stand corrected

well I would advice u as someone has advised me as well, change your female friends. I think ur problem is that u keep on chasing flashy ladies who inwardly are just empty dumbheads.


There is dis girl in my lodge, damn, she isn't dah much attractive facially tho buh the way she justs greets me and all Dat, I begin to wonder and tell myself are u sure she isn't ur future wife. Lol. I'm still even contemplating of havn a nice chat with her tho.


Well bro, in summary, I knw most ladies just are as cheap as fvck buh I still knw out there that there are girls who are just homely to the core. Just dat we guys are reluctant to meet them

fromnigeria:

you have seen guys forsake family and train women through school, yet you have not seen a girl do all that for a man. You are bias.

If u read what i wrote well i actually said ''few exceptions have i seen otherwise''
and these few exceptions are like one percent and extremely lucky guys encounter this one percent.

What about the rest of the guys that encounter the other 99 percent what then??

donbenedict:
well I would advice u as someone has advised me as well, change your female friends. I think ur problem is that u keep on chasing flashy ladies who inwardly are just empty dumbheads.


There is dis girl in my lodge, damn, she isn't dah much attractive facially tho buh the way she justs greets me and all Dat, I begin to wonder and tell myself are u sure she isn't ur future wife. Lol. I'm still even contemplating of havn a nice chat with her tho.


Well bro, in summary, I knw most ladies just are as cheap as fvck buh I still knw out there that there are girls who are just homely to the core. Just dat we guys are reluctant to meet them

And sometimes when we meet these homely girls we usually call them ''mugu''

thanks for the advice tho

MrAce:


If u read what i wrote well i actually said ''few exceptions have i seen otherwise''
and these few exceptions are like one percent and extremely lucky guys encounter this one percent.

What about the rest of the guys that encounter the other 99 percent what then??

one percent you are bias my friend.
Meanwhile, your mum could offer beyond sex, so will other reasonable ladies.

*She could be your friend
*Your ally
*Your motivation for success

MrAce:


And sometimes when we meet these homely girls we usually call them ''mugu''

thanks for the advice tho

lol u are very right abt dat.

DozieInc:
*She could be your friend
*Your ally
*Your motivation for success

That's a good one .
But how many ladies out there offer that?

DozieInc:
*She could be your friend

*Your ally

*Your motivation for success

How many girls actually believe in guys to be able to motivate them, all they want is life on the fast lane. They want to move with 8g speed. Very few will stick with you and be your motivation for sucess, fewer will help you achieve your goal in life

Matured guys don't go for girls

They seek ladies

xross:
Matured guys don't go for girls

The seek ladies

What is/are the differences?

eph12:

What is/are the differences?

Ladies have offered sex in the past now they know better

Yes and no...depending on the kind of ladies u meet.guy face your life now,succeed and you will see how they will swarm all over you

*She can be a source of Motivation(you want to impress her,she makes you want to do better)

*She can serve as a good company especially when you get bored of being with your male friends. (Happens Sometimes)

*She can help you out with good cooking whenever she's around

*Stepping out to events with her compliments you as a man especially when you are meeting old time friends or family

*She can join you in fasting/Prayer when the need arises

*Talking to her on the phone can lighten up your day especially if its been a rough one

dating a girl is one thing. Dating a lady is another.......

Just checking

Why do we av only guys responding with guesses, y ar d ladies not saying wat dey can offer or preferably wat dey av offered in a relationship.

Silence dey say ...