Kings and Queen romancelanders in the house, I need your help o.

I was played blue-black, back and front, left and right, up and down by a lady I fell in love with sometimes ago. I concluded that the reason she was able to do that was because I fell in love too much with her, I was really hurt and I decided to shut out my heart to any lady.

Rewind to my early days, I use to be a very romantic guy, I could tease a lady and make her laugh till tears come out of her eyes. That's just an analogy of how I was.

Presently, I can hardly hold a 5 minutes conversation with a girl. This is becoming a serious issue for me because each time I have new female friends, I always end up pushing them away from me.

Please this is a true assessment of my personal life, I will appreciate if this is taken seriously. If you want to make fun of me, at least add a useful piece of advice to it. .

I'm short of sensible advice ,so make I close mouth

cruzita:
I'm short of sensible advice ,so make I close mouth

It might be just what I need to hear.

accountbalance:
Kings and Queen romancelanders in the house, I need your help o.

I was played blue-black, back and front, left and right, up and down by a lady I fell in love with sometimes ago. I concluded that the reason she was able to do that was because I fell in love too much with her, I was really hurt and I decided to shut out my heart to any lady.

Rewind to my early days, I use to be a very romantic guy, I could tease a lady and make her laugh till tears come out of her eyes. That's just an analogy of how I was.

Presently, I can hardly hold a 5 minutes conversation with a girl. This is becoming a serious issue for me because each time I have new female friends, I always end up pushing them away from me.

Please this is a true assessment of my personal life, I will appreciate if this is taken seriously. If you want to make fun of me, at least add a useful piece of advice to it. .

Dear i undrstnd hw u feel, hv been in ur shoes but i had to let go. Just take it off ur mind nd ul be free. if u keep nursing d pain, u might miss a girl who is ready to love u. Like i said, pretend like nthg happened, just let it go nd keep being d good guy u said u are: I assure you, ul smile again.

missyge:
Dear i undrstnd hw u feel, hv been in ur shoes but i had to let go. Just take it off ur mind nd ul be free. if u keep nursing d pain, u might miss a girl who is ready to love u. Like i said, pretend like nthg happened, just let it go nd keep being d good guy u said u are: I assure you, ul smile again.

I have really tried so hard to forget. It's not easy for me at all. I just find myself feeling the pain all over again everytime I remember. I remember very often.

BTW, thanks for the sweet advice. Big Hugs to you.

Lol like seriously you could tease a girl and make her laugh till tears come out of her eyes you be onions?? Well pray about it I think it's spiritual

Guy let it go na not every female be witch just take it as a life lesson if it ain't working move on instead of forcing love

Ask This girl..... herbie27 she suffered heartbreak recently and she has gotten another lover here.

aloobright17:
Ask This girl..... herbie27 she suffered heartbreak recently and she has gotten another lover here.

Shebi na you break my heart of recent?. If you no mention me, that your moniker go change from aloobright17?, attention seeker!.

Op, don't mind this dude eh!, just let go of the past, and you will see how amazing falling in love with some1 who appreciates you and is worth your love could be.

Don't shut your heart for love, but open it...is a lovely experience though!.

I am not here to advice u on how to love again, cos i am finding it difficult to do the same

I am finding it difficult to start a new relationship, even my friends have tried matchmaking but i always end up disappointing dem

It's not dat i don't want to date, it's just that i do have flashes of the past anytime i want to start a new relationship, den i get cold feet and run away

And i did dat recently, trust me, i am not proud of dis

herbie27:
Shebi na you break my heart of recent?. If you no mention me, that your moniker go change from aloobright17?, attention seeker!.

Op, don't mind this dude eh!, just let go of the past, and you will see how amazing falling in love with some1 who appreciates you and is worth your love could be.

Don't shut your heart for love, but open it...is a lovely experience though!.

When u come online open a thread about ur long journey from Anambra to Imo to visit ur boyfriend,what attention seeking pass that one?Na the less than 1hr 30 minutes drive and 400 naira fare,wey u dey call long distance in your deleted thread abi?SMH.

If you can open thread with that,then those that flies out of the country to visit their lovers will be creating websites,going to Tv and Radio stations to announce it.

There are many reasons why that your breaking heart guy no call to ask about u for months,before u eventually did,that guy must have seen hail in your hands.SMH

mhiztee15:
Lol like seriously you could tease a girl and make her laugh till tears come out of her eyes you be onions?? Well pray about it I think it's spiritual

Spiritual?? Please can you enlighten me more on this.

Cool23:
Guy let it go na not every female be witch just take it as a life lesson if it ain't working move on instead of forcing love

Thanks bro.

myfantasies:
I am not here to advice u on how to love again, cos i am finding it difficult to do the same

I am finding it difficult to start a new relationship, even my friends have tried matchmaking but i always end up disappointing dem

It's not dat i don't want to date, it's just that i do have flashes of the past anytime i want to start a new relationship, den i get cold feet and run away

And i did dat recently, trust me, i am not proud of dis

Am not also proud of this. I wish there could be a way to erase the memory.

I'd really like to get to know you, maybe we can share experiences and help each other.

Love is a beautiful thing...

Love is an ugly thing too...

Has respect for nobody...

Am sorry you went through what you went through...

Don't force yourself...you'll meet that person you can't stay a day without talking to..

That time will come...just wait..

The person might be far away...

Why don't you try online friendship..

you talk through chatting on Whatsapp,Facebook and social media you find her in..

I think it will be a great start and you can to flow with someone that will be far away from you or close by...you don't need to see the person so soon..

It starts with friendship

aloobright17:


When u come online open a thread about ur long journey from Anambra to Imo to visit ur boyfriend,what attention seeking pass that one?Na the less than 1hr 30 minutes drive and 400 naira fare,wey u dey call long distance in your deleted thread abi?SMH.

If you can open thread with that,then those that flies out of the country to visit their lovers will be creating websites,going to Tv and Radio stations to announce it.

There are many reasons why that your breaking heart guy no call to ask about u for months,before u eventually did,that guy must have seen hail in your hands.SMH

You can lie for africa, waitin consign me with anambra state, is that my state or state of resident.

Yahoo boy!, stop stalking me abeg!.

sashishalom:
Love is a beautiful thing...

Love is an ugly thing too...

Has respect for nobody...

Am sorry you went through what you went through...

Don't force yourself...you'll meet that person you can't stay a day without talking to..

That time will come...just wait..

The person might be far away...

Why don't you try online friendship..

you talk through chatting on Whatsapp,Facebook and social media you find her in..

I think it will be a great start and you can to flow with someone that will be far away from you or close by...you don't need to see the person so soon..

It starts with friendship

Gracias.

accountbalance:


I have really tried so hard to forget. It's not easy for me at all. I just find myself feeling the pain all over again everytime I remember. I remember very often.

BTW, thanks for the sweet advice. Big Hugs to you.

if u dnt fail u wont knw the worth of succcess. I think its an avenue fr u to learn....

accountbalance:


Am not also proud of this. I wish there could be a way to erase the memory.

I'd really like to get to know you, maybe we can share experiences and help each other.

No problem

herbie27:
You can lie for africa, waitin consign me with anambra state, is that my state or state of resident.

Yahoo boy!, stop stalking me abeg!.

Ayam Yahoo guy the same as ur boyfriend,deal with that or keep creating threads about how u went to visit him,His cousin slept with u first blah blah blah,u went back home your Yahoo boyfriend didn't call u after one full month.SMH

aloobright17:
Ayam Yahoo guy the same as ur boyfriend,deal with that or keep creating threads about how u went to visit him,His cousin slept with u first blah blah blah,u went back home your Yahoo boyfriend didn't call u after one full month.SMH

Eww!.

herbie27:
Eww!.

Why did you even delete that thread?better bring back that thread or...

aloobright17:
Why did you even delete that thread?better bring back that thread or...

Are you ok?, you think threads are easily deleted here.

Just gerrarahia!.

herbie27:
Are you ok?, you think threads are easily deleted here.

Just gerrarahia!.

gerrarahia where?Tell me why you delete that sweet lamentation.

herbie27 what's the problem with that guy? Why do you keep responding to his mentions?

accountbalance:
herbie27 what's the problem with that guy? Why do you keep responding to his mentions?

He tries his possible best to piss me off when he's online, just see him as an attention seeking stalker, will device means to stop replying his offensive mentions.

So you are saying that the experience with your ex changed you...

Its very simple analyze the difference between you of before and the present you..... add that difference to the present you.

Essence6055:
So you are saying that the experience with your ex changed you...

Its very simple analyze the difference between you of before and the present you..... add that difference to the present you.

This is a very hilarious advice

Are you a mathematician?

Is it that simple?