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Ladies 8 Ways To Spot A Player During A Relationship by newsphase(m): 3:48pm On Aug 10, 2016
Actually guys can't.... But how do we know them before falling in love with them with our whole heart..

Its quite hard to find that man which just fits, which just makes the perfect gentleman, some ladies have forgotten their dreams of getting married to prince charming and decided to go for what they see.. Other know that the relationship is heading from roadblock but yet they still struggle to push it on. Wherever you are now, single, married, its complicated, divorced or am not doing again...

Ladies This are the 8 Ways to Spot a Player During a Relationship

1. Sex

A player asks for sex and intimacy more than your life ambitions and how to help you achieve them... (Ladies note this)

2. His Interests

A player is mostly interested in making your laugh and be happy and keeping with him, thereby attaching you to him, making it easy for him to do whatever he likes... This happens when he is so concerned about you going to parties with friends, about you going to weddings and other stuff

3. His Phone

We should trust our partners and respect their privacy, but ladies I tell you if you have a chance read his chats and phone call recordings, If he is a real man, the chats and recordings will make you smile and be proud, if not, it will give you a reason to rethink...

4. How to Describes women

Watch how he describes women, some guys are good at using terms like ass and breasts only when they see a beautiful lady... Although there is nothing wrong in thanking God for his beautiful creations, be careful about this guys as all they see is sex, and nothing more...

5. Parents to the Rescue

There is something ladies sometimes use to know if a guy is serious with them..They ask him to see their parents, even though he is not going for marriage introduction... This may be effective as the guy becomes intimate with your parents, thereby reducing the chances of you falling for a player, but some players will be the one to suggest that they want to see your parents... Showing you they are responsible and serious (blah)... Look out for this ones, the only way you can counter them is to
i. Tell your Father (mothers are not that strict) to have a one on one (man to man) talk with him)

6. Past Life and Relationships

Player hide a lot about their past relationships, they do not give into details as this could spoil their market, knowing a man's past life, is very important and so much ladies push this aside because of romance... Well that romance wouldn't be consoling you during a heartbreak.

7. This one belongs to Steven Harvey

Ask him What are you Short Term and Long Term Goals (The ones Nigerian ladies usually ask me is.. Where do you see yourself in Five years) ask the short term and long term goals instead..

8. His eyes and movement, when he thinks you are not looking

Watch his eyes and movement, when he thinks you are not looking.. Remember is a lot of big asses and breasts everywhere and men are tempted to look (ladies, you won't understand the high class temptation it is).. One thing is that a player is always checking out his next victim, and you could just catch him in that moment.

Now there are other clues... but this ones don't work on most men..

The Eyes

The eyes are the windows to the soul and they convey a lot of message, they can tell you when someone is in love, interested or just staring like a freak (haha). But the thing is that you can't tell a player from his eyes, because they will be full of sex sex sex with you and all other stuff which are meant to keep you believing in his illusion... So all you will see instead is what you will call love.. His real emotions are hidden from his eyes.

Complied from newsphases.com
Africa's leading Health and People's Website

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Re: Ladies 8 Ways To Spot A Player During A Relationship by ClassCaptain(m): 3:51pm On Aug 10, 2016
Premier league player or Somalian league player ?
Re: Ladies 8 Ways To Spot A Player During A Relationship by Beamborla(f): 4:20pm On Aug 10, 2016
Chai! OP, you self for try edit some things... Abi na all make sense to you?

BTW
I thought 'keepers' and 'players' all contribute to the overall success of any match. Why discriminate against the 'players' when the buch of the work fall on them.

Watchout for threads like how to identify a 'coach'
Re: Ladies 8 Ways To Spot A Player During A Relationship by rosy4u(f): 4:49pm On Aug 10, 2016
Next thread... How to identify a midfielder

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