Dear Mother,

Please, stop teaching your daughter that it's her job to fix her man! Who will fix her, when she is busy fixing another?

Momma, stop telling her that she's the home builder! Tell her that she will work hand in hand with her husband to build her home.

Our society today is littered with over-burdened wives, mothers, sisters and daughters. They are wearied, they are stressed and drained, from having to
fix themselves and as well fix an adult who ought to be fixing himself and fixing things around the house.

Look around you, you've succeeded in raising strong daughters and weak sons.... Sons who grew to become nonchalant men, men who rather feast while the women work.

Ma'am, teach your son that it's his job to provide for his family, totally, exclusively, that way, he won't expect his woman to share family responsibilities with him.
When such expectations aren't there, he will very much appreciate any input she makes.

Teach your son that he's the sole protector of his home, that will make him not run off to chase pleasure with the idea that "my wife will handle it".

Mama, teach your son that loving his wife is a daily affair, and he must make her feel loved, in every sense of the word....

Dear Daddy,

Dad, make your son understand that he's not done anything for his children, until he loves their mother fully.

Papa, raise your son, by loving his mother purely... When he sees you doing it right, he will do it more right in his marriage.

Daddie, teach your son never to depend on a woman. That way, he will never look at a woman as his support, he will put in all his best to be there for his family.

Mom and Dad, raise your sons, to be the picture of the husbands you desire for your daughters!

All will be well with our children and our youths

Our children and youths future will be great by his Grace ! Ameen

I'm not suprised no one commented on your thread. If u had an abusive upbringing, then u need to reconstruct ur mindset not the society.

Did you hear urself? You a girl shd be raised to work with ur husband to build the home but he shd be taught to be the sole provider and protector of the home in its totality. You're far from reality my dear. You're in a delusion.

No man can please you on every side even if he has d best upbringing. No matter how best a marriage is, it never provide answers all life questions. No matter how perfect ur spouse is, u'll still have some disatisfactions you urself may not understand.

Maybe u need be reminded ..career preceeds marriage for men but vice versa for women. The prob isn't abt d men, its abt you not living real. If he's rich enough to be the sole provider, then he has to probably attend work meetings and d likes and won't be there always to be the sole protector. Nobody can always be there for his/her spouse except he/she is a ghost. The earlier you admit that no natural man can meet the innermost desire for love that a woman has, the better for you instead of casting blames on fathers and mothers.

To be frank, in reality, majority of the caring and homely men do not appear financially attractive to you women. But you'll rather do anything including snatching and fetish to end up with the financially attractive ones who hardly think of being home with their wives. You'll neglect the fact that great men do not begin great and even need support and succour to achieve greatness. When reality then faces you, strange complains abt him not having your time or not showing care surfaces.

You can't have the world. You shd count d cost and price, privileges and responsibilities of ur choices b4 u make dem ..that shd be ur line of thought. Instead u're here talking abt sole this..sole that. His responsibility is sole but urs is to be shared. What happens to "soleing" ur own responsibility too.