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17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by sdeensquare(m): 12:09pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. 2. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. 3. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. 4. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is, don't stay because you think "it will get better"You'll be mad at yourself later for staying when things are not better. 5.The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? 6.Always have your own set of friends separate from his. 7.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later. 8. You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within. 9. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...Even if he has more education or in a better job, do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. 10. Never borrow someone Else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. 11. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. 12. You need time to heal between relationships.. There is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. 13. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...Look for someone complimentary.. .not supplementary. 14. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted 15. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.*Keep him in your radar but get to know others. 16. Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says You should know that: You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. 17.Ladies take care of your own hearts.... Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. Wake up .............. *Doclove *DEENSquare 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by ReInstalled(m): 12:11pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
again |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by jashar(f): 12:21pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
this is good read. |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by fbtowner(m): 12:25pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
relationship and it's wahala abeg I'm not interested |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by eitsei(m): 12:34pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
OK... Lectures upon lectures yet relationships are not any better |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by Essence6055: 12:48pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
The reason why Marriages and relationships fail Because men are no longer men, but they are now women, while women are still women 2 Likes |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by sdeensquare(m): 1:02pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Essence6055: Dats actually a fact... Another topic on its own |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by Oahray: 1:13pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Essence6055:lol. How are men now women? |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by sdeensquare(m): 1:25pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Oahray:Most of us men now directly or indirectly depends on our female partners in ways dat are not suppose to be most especially *financially* just cos ur gf or wife earn or has money more dan u dosn't make her d man in ur relationship ..depending on her income b4 u do anytn is d same as puting on skirts and blouse wit high hills *madness |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by sdeensquare(m): 1:30pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Oahray:Most of us men now directly or indirectly depends on our female partners in ways dat are not suppose to be most especially *financially* just cos ur gf or wife earn or has money more dan u dosn't make her d man in ur relationship ..depending on her income b4 u do *everytn* is d same as puting on skirts and blouse wit high hills *madness |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by Oahray: 1:49pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
sdeensquare:do well to speak for yourself sir. |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by Nobody: 5:20pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
sdeensquare: Men depending on female partners ke? Where did you hear that from? In Nigeria where women won't even listen to you else you have money in your pocket. Please stop being a pussy. |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by sdeensquare(m): 8:16pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
truthsayer007:Yea i knw what u re saying... But belief me av seen cases of my point too If u work far enuf u will find mystries my pussy |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by Nobody: 8:36pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
sdeensquare: Abegi, we are talking of Majority not minority. Women don't pay shiit Even ladies who are just friends with you still try to take advantage of you. Bros E be like say na India you dey live, not the same Nigeria i am. |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by katniss(f): 2:46pm On Aug 12, 2016 |
sdeensquare:Wonderful piece |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by sentee(f): 3:49pm On Aug 12, 2016 |
nice one OP I jusr |
Re: 17 Things Ladies Should Know Before,during And After Relationships Cycle by sentee(f): 3:56pm On Aug 12, 2016 |
nice one OP u just made my day The truth is, men know who their heart belongs to, if u like cook them chicken in a diamond sauce or do monkey in a snake's shadow style in bed if its not u, it can't be u. Ladies let's be wise. |
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