'Nothing whey my eyes no go see for this Lagos’

I was just coming home this evening from an events coverage project at Lekki Phase 1. Tired and worn out, I couldn’t wait for the next bus to drag my tired ass to CMS or Costain, whichever route comes first. I can’t afford to stay at the bus top for long.

In no time, I heard the rickety sound of the Danfo with the hoarse voice of the ‘Conductor’. I managed to listen to the route the bus ‘Condu’ was calling. ‘CMS, Costain, CMS, Ojuelegba’. Oh Thank God for the blessings, I jumped in and managed the last seat of the bus.

No sooner had I managed to adjust myself to comfort than I heard the kind of sloppy sound that comes with trying to clean the inside of a bathroom slippers with hard brush.

I turned to confirm what could be the cause of this sloppy sound and guess what I saw!!!

The love birds were obviously making out at the back Seat of the Danfo Bus……

I didn’t know when the sound escaped from my mouth….’

‘My God Warrizdiz’!

Before I knew it, everyone in the bus jolted up and stared in my direction, and noticed what was really happening. LOL! The two lovebirds stopped abruptly as soon as they heard my scream.

Utterly sorry and sober, I apologized and mouthed

‘I’m sorry, please continue!’

BIKO, who wan continue?

Often times than not, I have witnessed numerous types of PDA within Lagos environs. From Oshodi to Ikoyi.

Lagosians are not really shy in displaying the doctrines of love in their relationships. The various show of affections I have seen have made me decide on the three unmissable types of PDA I want for myself as I gracefully move towards a marriageable age.

When I’m lucky enough to witness these actions, It’s either I find a corner to hide and watch in admiration or I just do a ‘waka pass’ if I find the situation absurd and disgusting. No vex for me mbok! I’m just being realistic.

Some people would be wondering already what I mean by PDA. No worries, I know some of us are not as ‘ghenghen’ as some of us. Some babes will even say, ‘See you, you are not even exposed’

PDA is known as Public Display of Affection, which was defined by the Urban Dictionary to be the act and form of kissing, touching, groping, licking, nuzzling, cuddling, crossing hands etc. Usually spotted among new couples, frisky teenagers, and occasionally the “young at heart”

In Deedee’s books though, PDA can simply be said to be the display of reasonable physical reaction publicly which will make your partner to feel loved and have a sense of belonging. This goes beyond just kissing, groping and touching ‘bums’ or what have you.

While there have been a lot of arguments by top relationship blogs on whether PDA is right or not, I am unconcerned because most times, I always seem to enjoy watching people engage in such. This post is not about whether couples should engage in PDA or not.

Funny enough, in my hay days as a relationship and romance baddo, I shrink at the thought of engaging in PDA with my boo and vice versa. You never know whether any of your side chicks are lurking around the corner, stalking you. Hehe!

I am so very ready for some loving right now and I believe that the positives that can be drawn from PDA (if done reasonable) far outweighs the negatives. I understand it has been sabotaged right now and a lot of naive and unreasonable couples now engage in that to probably create a virtual illusion that they are crazy about their boos, when in actual fact the reverse is the case.

Guys, una well done oh!

Bisi, Kike, Tade, Cynthia, Dora, Chanelle, Oyinda, Alice wherever and whoever you are. I am going to love you soon and biko, get ready for some PDA. I no wan hear say you be introvert..mbok! we go undo the cloth of introversion before we commot house.

Type 1: I like the holding hands type of PDA

I believe there is an emotional connection between two love birds when they hold hands in public. I know some of you might be wondering that holding hands do not necessarily connote to being a sign of PDA and it isn’t necessarily PDA, but to me, it is. I could as well hold hands with my sister or brother anyway, but the fact there is a difference when you hold your ‘boo’ hands in public.

Holding hands with my woman allows me to concentrate on her. Holding hands makes me feel wanted and focused on.

You know why I love handing hands? Because it can be anything from just being together, to communicating silently, to even pre-intimacy. Sexy, yea? I like!

Continue reading on my blog--------

http://deedeesblog.com/2016/08/16/3-types-pda-want/

On your blog Abi

colik:
On your blog Abi

I'm not sending you to an ad mbok....


Yes. On my blog.

deturla:

I'm not sending you to an ad mbok....

Yes. On my blog.

I see. But bros why the long note na? You for list this thing out like 123... I'll kukuma check the blog out.

colik:


I see.
But bros why the long note na?
You for list this thing out like 123...
I'll kukuma check the blog out.

Long note? It's just a little more than 1000 words.

Sighs Nigerians. Thanks though

deturla:



Long note? It's just a little more than 1000 words.

Sighs Nigerians. Thanks though

Lol.
Don't mind me.
No matter how you put it;licking earlobes is just gross!

colik:


Lol.
Don't mind me.
No matter how you put it;licking earlobes is just gross!

Maybe to you.....but not to me and some others.

Winks.....

deturla:

Maybe to you.....but not to me and some others.
Winks.....

True. Different strokes for different folks, I guess.

colik:


True.
Different strokes for different folks, I guess.

Are you a fan of PDA?

deturla:



Are you a fan of PDA?

Lol.
I don't know.
I'll find out,someday.

colik:


Lol.
I don't know.
I'll find out,someday.

Someday?....What does that say of you?

Mabasi, too long a piece.

deturla:


Someday?....What does that say of you?

I would have to be in a relationship to find out if I like PDA or not...Catch my drift?

colik:


I would have to be in a relationship to find out if I like PDA or not...Catch my drift?

Just wanted to confirm.

Cheers Love