I dont know how to narrate the story of my life. But let me begin this way, their is this lady from Kaduna State but based in Bauchi i met on facebook around 2009/2010 while me am from Ogun but based in Lagos. i do comment on her post and pix, while she also does same with mine. we also followed each other on intagram where i do comment on her pictures.


i started developing interest in her since 2013 but i never for once say it to her due to distance between us. i discuss it with a friend of mine back then he adviced me to tell her but i told him nah because i dont think it is going to work.


Anytime i saw her online one part of me will tell me to let her know how am feeling towards her but the other parts keepon on saying NO. on monday this week i just let it out that i want us to take our relationship beyond just facebook friends because i have a strong feelings for her and am in love with her.


Her response really make me to hate myself. she said
.........."Lol
Are you kidding me?
I've known you for years and you just didn't realise till now?"........................



Am seriously confuse for some days now i keep on thinking about her and beating myself for keeping shut all these while. i have never been in any long distance relationship before so i need advice from Nairalanders on how best to handle this one.

Are you kidding me?

Just stay put! She'll come around if she's single and into you, but you no do well sha. How can you start something new hoping to fail? So why do you think it will work out now?

lol op. u are 5 yrs late
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and ur situation no too bad sha. U for just tell her u didnt want to play with her heart so u needed to be sure of the 'wonderful' love u have for her.lol

party:
Are you kidding me?

No amnot sir.

ammyluv2002:
Just stay put! She'll come around if she's single and into you, but you no do well sha. How can you start something new hoping to fail? So why do you think it will work out now?

Honestly am ashamed of myself. i just want to give it my all now. one of the reason i also not want to go into it back then was that i havent recover from a breakup

masterchi:
lol op. u are 5 yrs late
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and ur situation no too bad sha. U for just tell her u didnt want to play with her heart so u needed to be sure of the 'wonderful' love u have for her.lol

i told her that it was the distance that is keeping me mute all these while, she replied that she even thought that am in a serious relationship

Long distance relationship is not a child's play at all. If you lack the capacity to trust, I beckon on you to stay away from it. Not just that, ensure that you are blessed with wisdom too. You gats be wise, so you aren't being tagged a mumu.

Babamama:





i told her that it was the distance that is keeping me mute all these while, she replied that she even thought that am in a serious relationship

you guyz are talking so it isnt so bad afterall. But bro the distance we are talking abt here is very distant oh anyways its up to both of u. Me think with persistence she may eventually agree to ur proposal cos obviously she has been xpecting it

Spicylate:
Long distance relationship is not a child's play at all. If you lack the capacity to trust, I beckon on you to stay away from it. Not just that, ensure that you are blessed with wisdom too. You gats be wise, so you aren't being tagged a mumu.

Hmmmmm.........................these are some of my fear, especially the TRUST. i find it difficult to trust a Lady after my ex break up with me.

masterchi:
you guyz are talking so it isnt so bad afterall. But bro the distance we are talking abt here is very distant oh anyways its up to both of u. Me think with persistence she may eventually agree to ur proposal cos obviously she has been xpecting it

Hmmmmmm...................... i just need help that is why am letting it out. just needed to talk and seek advice.

Babamama:





Hmmmmmm...................... i just need help that is why am letting it out. just needed to talk and seek advice.

okiss. Wish you the best.

Babamama:




Hmmmmm.........................these are some of my fear, especially the TRUST. i find it difficult to trust a Lady after my ex break up with me.

so why would you want to indulge in a distance relationship? Not discouraging you pop but it's something you need to sit and ask your self if you are ready for the 'all'