simplyolat:
There are certain types of women you do not want to date and doing so would amount to making the worst mistake in your life. Even though you feel you could love none other at the moment than that girl who falls into any of the under listed categories, take some advice and find a cure for your love before it buries you underneath a truckload of crap!

These set of girls are so hot, they can burn:

1. Your best friend’s sister

This rarely goes well, be it in Nollywood, Hollywood or real life. To the girls it is not a big deal to go out with their brother’s friend, but guys remember, it is not a good idea, and make sure you do not allow the ladies folks lure you into such a relationship.

Guys, your friend does not want you close to his sister probably because he knows your mode of operation and he does not want his sister to become a name in your hall of fame. Besides that, would it not be awkward for you to start sharing relationship details with your girlfriend’s brother

Remember, if you are really serious, talk to your friend about it first. And even if he approves, accept the possibility of losing that friendship. You win the girl and lose a friend

Worst case scenario, you break her heart and you get into a fight with your best friend, you lose the girl and a friend.

2. In a relationship

When a girl is already in a relationship before you meet her, the best thing for you is to leave her alone. There is no way it is going to turn out good.

If a girl is in a relationship before you met her, and she still agrees to date you, what does that tell you? Yes, she is not the faithful type and definitely not a keeper.

If she is in a relationship and refused to go out with you because she is in a relationship, then that is a trait you should admire, too bad she is not faithful to you. And you should not wait by the corner waiting for another man’s relationship to crash.

Even if you decide to be just friends, you already like her, and might put her relationship with the other guy in jeopardy.

3. The Underage

This might seem like common sense, but some people need to be reminded.

It does not matter how big the girl appears, or how matured she seems. As long as a girl is below 18 in Nigeria, she is clearly off limits.

4. The Superstar

Everybody girl deserves some attention from her lover (to show her that you love her). Some girls just think that the world is a stage and they are the star. When she talks, she wants everybody to listen, when she is in trouble, everybody should console her.

She wants to be the center of your life, having no regard for your sibling, parents, friends and sometimes even your job. She is ready to anything for special attention; cry, play victim, lie, just about anything. As long as you supply her with an unending supply of attention she if okay.

At first, you would be flattered that you mean so much to somebody and then she would begin to sap the living being out of you, the stress would make look twice your age and if you do not get away from such a girl in time, you might just visit your ancestors a lot earlier than you planned.

5. High Maintenance

If your income is trailing behind her needs then it would be a good idea to run ‘440’ for your dear life and pocket. At first, you might kid yourself into thinking that as time goes by her needs are going to dwindle. You continue to kid yourself until you realize that the goal of this girl is to bankrupt your future.

It is almost impossible to have a relationship without spending money, but if her love for you is going to be on a per-second-billing then you should also know that you will be disconnected when you run out of “airtime” and she is going to “port” to the next guy with the most cash.

6. The ex-girlfriend

There is a reason why she is your ex, you should never forget that. You might be tempted go back to your ex whenever you are bored or lonely.

As a rule, you never go back to your ex-girlfriends. It is like the proverbial going back to your vomit.

You might start to get nostalgic and all, but you should remember that there was a reason she is in your past and that should be the same reason she should remain there.

7. Your co-worker

Your co-worker is one girl that should not be on your radar when searching for a relationship.

You could lose your job because of this girl and she might dump you three days after you get fired for having an affair with her.

Even if you do not get fired because of her, you might create unnecessary enemies, especially when she is hot and everybody wants her, including your boss.

She is also going to be a huge source of distraction. And just in case she is the boss’ daughter, it is a huge no-no.

SOURCE: http://9jaspecial.com.ng/general/7-types-girls-shouldnt-date-dont-want-die/

FreshBoiy:

Nice write up... I have my reservations about number 1 and 6 tho.

Going back to an Ex isn't totally a bad idea, it only depends on the circumstance surrounding the initial breakup. Forget proverbial cliches, they are most times based on logical reasoning and not always true.

If for example you breakup with a lady because you were not mature at the time to handle the relationship and after a couple of years you have become a more refined and better person and you realize what you lost looking back at that relationship with your ex, then if life gives you an opportunity to get back with her don't go hinging your decision on some proverb just because it sounds rational.

I am pretty sure 2face and Annie probably broke up a couple of times but Annie wasn't deterred by his infidelity. They have known each other for over two decades and their love story is simply amazing.