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Re: Somebody Help!! by EfemenaXY: 7:41pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad: Whether your sister kneels / grovels on the ground or not is beside the point and doesn't make a difference nor does it change what's happened. There are some tough questions you all need to ask yourselves namely: Why is abortion out of the question? Has your sister got the financial means to raise the child and see herself through school? What input will the father of the child be making? i.e: his level of involvement in bringing up his child? Will he (and his family) be taking full financial responsibility? Or will he be let off Scot free while your mother bears the brunt of shouldering someone else's mistake? 1 Like |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Fastpace(f): 10:13pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad¤ if she can abstain after given birth then going to school without marriage is fine,if she can't please let her marry the father of her baby since he has accept the pregnancy rather than living a life of sin.In addition married women still dey go skull.Abi which work person way give am pikin dey do? |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Alphaoscar: 9:09am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Merryglad: I appreciate your mature way of handling you sister's issue. it shows you have always being a great sister and friend to her before she can confide in you and trusting you to help her handle her Bleep up. I wish her a successful delivery and pray God grant you guys the wisdom and understanding to handle this matter . As for your Mum , its normal for her to get angry initially but trust me she will adjust herself with time and be a great Grandma to the latest addition to your family. Its important you break the news to her as soon as possible before she discover herself . Try as much as possible to help your sister more and give her the necessary career guidance in order for her not to let her new status affect her much . Once again , I salute you Madam/Sis. |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Nobody: 10:36am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Merryglad: What about his family? because that is very important too Is he old enough/mature enough/financially capable to look after a partner and child? If not, then his family have to be on board 100% Sincerely I feel for your mum because I can imagine all the things that would be said to her, especially from your dads side of the family Your sister should have known better But its done now so you all have to move forward. Let your mum know, but it wont be fair on your mum if she is the one who ends up looking after the baby Your sister has to take most of the responsibility. |
Re: Somebody Help!! by dangervu(m): 11:58am On Aug 26, 2016 |
If you where closer to her,this would not have happened,what trick have you been using! Single mothers every where! Why do you think abortion is not an option?you didn't tell us if the person responsible for the pregancy as actually owned up to it... |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Jahblessme: 12:29pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Does she want to have the baby? Does she have the financial physical and mental capacity to care for it?is the father of the child involved and willing to jointly parent? What impact will it have on her future? No point forcin her to birth a baby and the next thing we see is another story of a baby dumped in a trash can. People always jump in to say maybe the child will be the next president,I don't know but how many have become presidents. I do not believe in birthing children into unecessary suffering no matter how unpopular that sounds. |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 2:21pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
dangervu:really? you think i wasnt close to her? 1 Like |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 2:27pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Thanks to everyone, i told my mum last night thats by 1am it wasnt easy i had to write it in a note because my mouth was shaking, so we will take it from here.....love you nairalanders my online family, i really apprciate this. 2 Likes |
Re: Somebody Help!! by olac21(m): 4:48pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
you weren't closer to her at all..does the guy live in the same compound as you guys or she sneaks out to always do the deed? |
Re: Somebody Help!! by olac21(m): 4:51pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Jahblessme: Bro God bless you...but how many will listen? |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Holywizard: 6:25pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
can I marry her with de baby? |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Sarifat(f): 7:55pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
sexymoma:you are soooo right sis. I know of a girl this happened to when she was in ss1, she was allowed to stay with d guy, and b4 they knew it baby was less Dan a year and she was preggy again... Without proper marriage ooo Unfortunately the guy died when d sec baby was still very tender. Before we knew it, she started dating another guy and moved in with the guy and left her 2 kids with d dad... Had 3 kids for d new guy, guy lost his job, and she left d guy on d acct that d guy is unserious.. (She is a teacher went back to sch after d 1st child) and after she left d sec guy with her 3 kids she started leaving alone with her 5 kids (d dad died so d 2 previous kids started leaving with her) and b4 we knew it again, she got preggy for another married man... |
Re: Somebody Help!! by sexymoma(f): 8:29pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Sarifat:lolz the babe na Wi-Fi |
Re: Somebody Help!! by CnCstore: 1:34pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
Don't take the whole of your time scolding her,rather tell your mum as soon as you can,you all be strong for her,let the man responsible know how precious she is to you despite the fact that she got pregnant as a teenager,cos that's the only thing that wouldn't make him or his family see her as a mistake and accept her. |
Re: Somebody Help!! by gidjah(m): 4:12pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
[school is gonna be after 2to 4 yrs name, her eyes go Don open, the challenge of motherhood will have set in, so so sorry for her.. Sister, didn't you notice her style from the beginning?you didn't try to teach her sex edu at lan earlier stage did you? Or you didn't notice she has started running around? Am so sorry, u am not casting aspersions but just curious. May be you were too busy with work and school. wishing her well o quote author=Merryglad post=48795140]the first question i asked her was what she plan to do after giving birth to the baby...she said she wants to go back to school. Lets see how it plays out, thanks for your kind words[/quote] |
Re: Somebody Help!! by OurworkComNg1: 10:31am On Jul 02, 2018 |
Merryglad:sorry to poke nose, so how is this matter now? thanks.. |
Re: Somebody Help!! by Merryglad(f): 6:54pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
OurworkComNg1:it's OK..... The boy is grown now and my sister went back to school 1 Like |
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