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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by rosy1992(f): 10:54am On Aug 30, 2016

kudiice:
From your user name, I can tell that you've been deflowered. Don't be a hypocrite.

You don't know me I will advice you to stop being judgmental.

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Mandeme(m): 10:58am On Aug 30, 2016

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by kaycito: 11:03am On Aug 30, 2016

Timbuktou:

But we can and should complain. After all, we're paying the bills; bride price, engagement/wedding rings to mention a few. If a man does bot want to marry a slut, why begrudge him his preferences?

If a man doesnt want to marry a 'slut' can he go about it without begrudge or demeaning anyone? U think its all men that want virgins as wife? Pick your choice dont demean anyone, you are not a saint, men are sluts too

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 11:05am On Aug 30, 2016

freecocoa:
They are fvcking anyhow cos they see men to fvck, that's what I've been saying, men and women fvck each other, don't judge/bkame women alone for that, simples.

OK nah

Hating ke? I ain't hating boo, they just would be silly if they think being virgins makes them better than the woman who isn't, has nothing to do with mine.

It may not make them better human beings but it does give then an edge, in our eyes anyway...

Why will I lie about such? I'm a virgin, if I lie make arsenal win champions league this season..

Lol.... I agree....

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 11:08am On Aug 30, 2016

freecocoa:
Thanks love, it's not been easy, if I tell you what I've had to face eh, you'll may not believe it.

40 years and still counting, baba god noni.

Baba God Noni indeed...

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 11:20am On Aug 30, 2016

Acepen:
ya when u marry a virgin it gives u that great feeling,u are the man. u are the sole owner of the pot.:-D,and it seem to me u are not a V, but not to worry there are many other Vs out there and insha allah am going to get one.

lmaooo. You don't get the point do you? My jajaina is mine! kiss

I do whatever I want to do with it. Are u a virgin? Did you marry a virgin? The women u were sexxing should still remain virgins? Or u were sleeping with animals and men? The state of my honeypot is none of ur business. You only deserve one if u're one. cheesy

chei! All d punny u av scattered won't make ur prayers come to pass. It is null and void already wink

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 11:31am On Aug 30, 2016

Premarital sex is not as much of a taboo as it used to be
More options i.e. contraceptives, abortions etc
Importance of sexual compatibility
Also bear in mind that not everyone is religious

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Acepen(m): 11:37am On Aug 30, 2016

MsGlobalwonder:
lmaooo. You don't get the point do you? My jajaina is mine! I do whatever I want to do with it. Are u a virgin? Did you marry a virgin? The women u were sexxing should still remain virgins? Or u were sleeping with animals and men? The state of my honeypot is none of ur business. You only deserve one if u're one. chei! All d punny u av scattered won't make ur prayers come to pass. It is null and void already

am still a virgin oh;-) but ur punna does not belong to u na, it belongs to that dude in the corner,u are just the safe keeper:-D.

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 11:45am On Aug 30, 2016

Acepen:
am still a virgin oh;-) but ur punna does not belong to u na, it belongs to that dude in the corner,u are just the safe keeper:-D.

taa! You virgin? My great grand ma died a virgin then.. shior! cheesy

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by xendra: 11:51am On Aug 30, 2016

freecocoa:
Thanks love, it's not been easy, if I tell you what I've had to face eh, you'll may not believe it.

40 years and still counting, baba god noni.

OK on a very serious note, you must be very strong to have waited this long, it isn't the easiest thing to do.

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Acepen(m): 11:54am On Aug 30, 2016

MsGlobalwonder:
taa! You virgin? My great grand ma died a virgin then.. shior!

100% if u no believe come make we test.:-D

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 12:00pm On Aug 30, 2016

Acepen:
100% if u no believe come make we test.:-D

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by arosunshine(m): 12:03pm On Aug 30, 2016

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Laido: 12:10pm On Aug 30, 2016

ADBOK:

If you are truly a student of genetics like you claimed you would know that genetics has an accomplice called environment, and environment they say 'pulls the trigger'. The heartbreaking thing here really is not the rampant promiscuity amongst our ladies these days rather it is the fact that you didn't pick the pun intended. Sad!...

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I think I understand what u mean. Of course Environments affects too. P+E=G and that's why I said *some ladies
appears to be wild due to some other reasons!* Try to read me well. .. And Are u just tryin to say the E is the reason behind the Itchy itchy stuff? Lol

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by elrony(m): 12:15pm On Aug 30, 2016

icankel:
Ur out of point bro, human nature doesnt go with being virgin or not. OP just wish to knw y is so difficult for ladies of nowadays to keep their virginity till marriage unlike olden days. Even some prostitutes can make a gud home

I take it you misunderstood the context of my post!!

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by richardoz(m): 12:15pm On Aug 30, 2016

Lack of determination, deep-thinking and succumbing to peer pressure among many others. But it is not a crime for men to be chaste too! @OP i pray you find one if you are one... no matter how immoral the society is virgins will still exist.

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by sekundosekundo: 12:20pm On Aug 30, 2016

rosy1992:

Wow I've always said this times without number there are still some ladies who are indeed a rare gem to behold. Kudos to your wife.

Thanks. I hv bn asking her how she did it because 90% of her friends are male. She's more comfortable hanging around males than females. Honestly there are good and decent sisters out there.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by oluwabishop: 12:27pm On Aug 30, 2016

freecocoa:
Thanks love, it's not been easy, if I tell you what I've had to face eh, you'll may not believe it.

40 years and still counting, baba god noni.

One of the most reputable females of this forum who has gained respect with her dignity and always keeps her head high. kiss

some folks here should learn a thing or two from you

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by tessywithsexy: 12:27pm On Aug 30, 2016

whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 12:30pm On Aug 30, 2016

arosunshine:

is sex enjoyment to u ?

Moral decadence

you conveniently ignored "if she was into that life" and slyly refuse to answer if u met her a virgin. Now u are having bragging rights dat u met ur wife a virgin. Lmaoo. Do everything within ur reach to satisfy that woman, u know what I mean wink

your fellow devourer called men are not playing oo. Married or not. Infact dey prefer the married ones as dey are more discrete and professional. Hehe grin

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by jhenie(f): 12:32pm On Aug 30, 2016

The same reason it's difficult for men to keep theirs and keep their eyes of ladies.

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by chaotik(m): 1:23pm On Aug 30, 2016

DankemzI:
To be very sincere Virgins are Abundant in Nigeria!
I had an encounter with 5, saw the ***** with my eyes. But I encouraged them as a gentleman to keep it till the right time!
One recently got married offered me a Lexus gift but I was out of the country on official business

i hail thee . Seein virginity since jp morgans conception

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by bukatyne(f): 1:38pm On Aug 30, 2016

whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.

Are we talking about lesbians?

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by BARAJ92(m): 1:46pm On Aug 30, 2016

There are many reasons why there are few Virgins nowaday.this include the media, peer pressure, technology, late marriage, school, lack of parental counselling, men. e.t.c As an individual who observe event keenly, most of those complaining that their boyfriend force them into it, how many of them marry the so called boyfriend, the boyfriend at the end of the day will leave them. A man that is willing to marry a girl will never force a girl for unless he knows that the girl is not a virgin or for family reasons. I believe girls like sugar coated man who will force them to have sex with them and dumb them at the end of the day. Also a girl that keep her self for her to be husband is more likely to be appreciate, trusted and respected by the husband and society. The best thing for a man or female is to keep their chastity until after as the two only book uphold the traditional believe that sex outside marriage is wrong.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by okirewaju(f): 1:49pm On Aug 30, 2016

jerryfisher:
because virginity and inexperience are like 5 n 6!!!!!!and no wise man need an olodo in the house.........

So you are trying to tell me if you get a virgin that has all the qualities of a wife you want you will let her go because she is a virgin and inexperienced like you claim?

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by jackima: 1:53pm On Aug 30, 2016

Gone are the days.

Keeping virginity has become a thing of the past.

This is end time.

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by MarkGeraldo(m): 2:01pm On Aug 30, 2016

Who wants to have a #bloody d*ck?? kiss

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Jahblessme: 2:13pm On Aug 30, 2016

Funny enough the Nigerian virgin hunters never ask Caucasian chicks this question grin

. infact they don't bother about past history,they just move on from where they meet.

Why should any one be a virgin because of another person? See the result,it doesn't work.Saving virginity for mythical husband and wife is pure rubbish.

For chicks,
If you want to abstain from sexual relations please do so for other reasons that make sense because in the world today it's very few men who are knights in shining armour anyways and fewer who are even worth it.So don't go expecting a great guy just because you are chaste.Normally,its the horrible wanton and most perveted guys who would sell their left eye to get a virgin mostly because they have lived in all sorts of debauchery.

The only person who should make a case for a sexually Chaste partner is one who can say the same of himself.I t is a beautiful thing when two people are each other's first.Lots of exploration.

Don't have sex cos it's not a priority for you or because you are too busy or because you promised your God etc Good luck if its for husband or wife.

Meanwhile the person you call Chaste may be a die hard wan ker and chairperson Vaseline crew cheesy

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Aug 30, 2016

kaycito:

If a man doesnt want to marry a 'slut' can he go about it without begrudge or demeaning anyone?

Men are perfectly happy with that, except most people these days laugh at the idea of the thought of a man wanting nothing but a virgin.

U think its all men that want virgins as wife?

Is it everyone that knows what's good for them?

Pick your choice dont demean anyone,

How am I demeaning anyone? So, my choice and preference is now demeaning to someone else?

you are not a saint,

I said I am?

men are sluts too

How is that possible? Do men have vaginas?

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by fmikecok(m): 4:02pm On Aug 30, 2016

The word virgin is a counterpart of the feminine word Virginia......for any human to be a virgin, it's for the female only....there's nothing like a man or a boy being a virgin cos it's not a counterpart of what we have.

Men or boys have penis so you can't give men the word virgin even if they don't have sex before.....maybe you find a word for the men or boys like penisclean.....don't forget men or boys have wet dreams

Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Hushee(m): 4:44pm On Aug 30, 2016

The issue of keeping your virginity should be personal cos even after keeping it, some stupid husbands will still go outside and have sex with other girls.
And for those blaming guys for not keeping their d*cks, I don't think you're being fair. Some guys are also pushed into this by ladies consciously or unconsciously because you know that if you're not doing it, there's probably another guy giving it to her.
I would use my self as an example, I don't have sex because of my nature, I'm always "addicted"/dedicated to what I do and I know that if I start it might not end well and also for religious reasons. But whenever I go into a relationship and they realize I'm not demanding for sex they would behave as if they're fine with it but with time I would realise that they're cheating on me.
So I'll say the blame should go both ways.
Final advice, do what you feel is right and what you won't later regret, cos once u start you might not be able to stop and if you're already into it and you need God's intervention, he's ready and willing to help and may God continue to strengthen those still keeping theirs cos the reward could be rewarding if you later lose it to the right person at the right time.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by kaycito: 5:14pm On Aug 30, 2016

Timbuktou:
Men are perfectly happy with that, except most people these days laugh at the idea of the thought of a man wanting nothing but a virgin.

Is it everyone that knows what's good for them?

How am I demeaning anyone? So, my choice and preference is now demeaning to someone else?

I said I am?

How is that possible? Do men have vaginas?

Guess you have to tell people whats good for them and maybe live their lives for them and you really think a slut must have a vagina? I'm done anyway can't debating with someone who thinks slutiness is for women only, broaden and your mind and you will understand there are alot of male sluts, most men actually live slutty lifestyles.

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