My besty and i have bin friends since secondary school up till now, our both family know eachothr. But she has only bin to my house just 5 times, even when i beg her to come she would either give one excuse or say she is going to her bf ouse. On my own side i have been to her own ouse like plenty of times I have even stayed there for months (sometimes she wd vacate the room for me or sleep on the chair, or put a pillow btw us) our ouses ar far apart but i always make sure I go nd visit her n her parents, countless times o even the times it wsnt comfy for me i still went as per besty. But recently i stopped going not bcs of i was vexed tho, I just have so much going on jare. But my ish now is her parents keep asking of me and they are wonderin why i avnt come over although have been busy wt work. Thing is to be sincere i might be tired of going to her ouse too bcs if we are really besty why dsnt she like stressing herself to come to my own house.

Should i have guilty conscience for not going to hers?

dnt go dere again ...dats how those gurls do feel like...one kind god

There's something about you she doesn't like. It will only take a matured one to come out telling you what your bad sides are so as to make amends. If you like her so much, sit her down and tell her you feel rejected, hence your reason for not coming to her place like before. That way,you guys can work it out better....

waleadex:
There's something about you she doesn't like. It will only take a matured one to come out telling you what your bad sides are so as to make amends. If you like her so much, sit her down and tell her you feel rejected, hence your reason for not coming to her place like before. That way,you guys can work it out better....

thanks, cs even my parents ask me why dsnt she come over too. Well i guess i wd have to tell her i guess

Okay oya start coming to my house. I would treat you nice

naijaboiy:

The post itself.

le silence est la meilleure réponse #Peace

Honestly what should we do with this post? Feel guilty about what exactly? About a friend who doesn't find you important enough to visit? A friend you've stayed in her family house for months when she's never spent a day in your house? Smh

I think she doesn't like or appreciate you. MAYBE her parent do tho. So Na dem dey make her show you the small hospitality


Anyways, I'll advise you tell her parent how you feel about the whole thing

naijaboiy:
Teenager drop that phone and go read your book.

she's probably playing with her mother's fone

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maybe you r house stinks. little girl, clean your house.

Mtcheeew, what's my business with you and your besty