Hello Nairalanders please don't mind my writings i really need matured advice let me go straight to the point there is a guy i met online months ago we got talking and one thing led to another we became lovers he base in Los Angeles USA he told me how much he loves me, he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. three days ago he said his mum want to speak with me through phone call that he will send my contact to her and also he would want me to visit her too his mum stays in the north and i have not seen this guy before we met online he is Ibo should i call his mum and if i call her what will i tell her?

It's just a call. It doesn't mean you have to make any commitments. Just hear what she has to say... It should be at your own pace.

Play ur cool wen she calls you.



Dnt take it to heart coz diz people cnt be trusted

You say North Hehehehehe... I just laugh, but since it's just a call, give it to her and pay attention to everything she has to say. Since the relationship is still young, don't talk of going to visit any body, be it his mom nor the guy himself. Miss be careful!

sinaj:
Play ur cool wen she calls you.



Dnt take it to heart coz diz people cnt be trusted

do u take beer pls?

U can talk on phone but biko don't visit ooo

As my mom would say"ember months are here already"

He stays in Los Angeles... (u fell in love with him because of obodo oyibo)



He says u should go to d north to see his mum



And even if nairalanders tell u not to go, u will still go



I pity u. Look, I understand u want to get married asap, but please, ur life is more important right now

thanks guys i really appreciate

donbenedict:




He stays in Los Angeles... (u fell in love with him because of obodo oyibo)



He says u should go to d north to see his mum



And even if nairalanders tell u not to go, u will still go



I pity u. Look, I understand u want to get married asap, but please, ur life is more important right now

am not desperate just needed advice i cant embark on such journey without proper findings am talking about call and am not that type who gets carried away easily because of Oyibo land o

donbenedict:




He stays in Los Angeles... (u fell in love with him because of obodo oyibo)



He says u should go to d north to see his mum



And even if nairalanders tell u not to go, u will still go



I pity u. Look, I understand u want to get married asap, but please, ur life is more important right now

am not desperate just needed advice i cant embark on such journey without proper findings am talking about call and am not that type who gets carried away easily because of Oyibo land o

DatCuteGuy:
do u take beer pls?

Cappri sonne

sinaj:
Cappri sonne

gimme ur address... I wanna bring it to ur door step tomorrow, a pack

This is the latest scam format for getting desperate ladies. How did you know that he is stays in USA,. If he has been telling you that via private number calls, ur in for doom.

The next plot, is to tell you that he would be coming for ur introduction ceremony, of which he would be kidnapped. The allerged kidnappers would start to make requests for his release, since he told them that, you are his wife. Even, the guy would beg you to act fast, as he is willing to pay you back after his release.

The "mum" too would also be working on ur psych from her own angle. All the scheme is geared towards getting some cash from you. Once you are able to raise something, that would be the end of the drama. All the lines would be switched off.

They always go for desperate ladies... Their formats differ. Yours is USA, others would say that, they are working in an oil company. All is to convince you that, they have the cash...

agbonkamen:
Hello Nairalanders please don't mind my writings i really need matured advice let me go straight to the point there is a guy i met online months ago we got talking and one thing led to another we became lovers he base in Los Angeles USA he told me how much he loves me, he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. three days ago he said his mum want to speak with me through phone call that he will send my contact to her and also he would want me to visit her too his mum stays in the north and i have not seen this guy before we met online he is Ibo should i call his mum and if i call her what will i tell her?

My dear be very careful. Same thing happened to my sis and it was scam. She kept sending money to the supposed ' mom' becos the guy said he would refund her. In the end, she found out that the guy has never even been to Lagos and he was a scammer. Bt urs could be real tho but be careful.

hylyne:
This is the latest scam format for getting desperate ladies. How did you know that he is stays in USA,. If he has been telling you that via private number calls, ur in for doom.

The next plot, is to tell you that he would be coming for ur introduction ceremony, of which he would be kidnapped. The allerged kidnappers would start to make requests for his release, since he told them that, you are his wife. Even, the guy would beg you to act fast, as he is willing to pay you back after his release.

The "mum" too would also be working on ur psych from her own angle. All the scheme is geared towards getting some cash from you. Once you are able to raise something, that would be the end of the drama. All the lines would be switched off.

They always go for desperate ladies... Their formats differ. Yours is USA, others would say that, they are working in an oil company. All is to convince you that, they have the cash...

Gbam! It happened to my sis although i warned her but she still fell for it.

bibijay123:



My dear be very careful. Same thing happened to my sis and it was scam. She kept sending money to the supposed ' mom' becos the guy said he would refund her. In the end, she found out that the guy has never even been to Lagos and he was a scammer. Bt urs could be real tho but be careful.

thanks alot

hylyne:
This is the latest scam format for getting desperate ladies. How did you know that he is stays in USA,. If he has been telling you that via private number calls, ur in for doom.

The next plot, is to tell you that he would be coming for ur introduction ceremony, of which he would be kidnapped. The allerged kidnappers would start to make requests for his release, since he told them that, you are his wife. Even, the guy would beg you to act fast, as he is willing to pay you back after his release.

The "mum" too would also be working on ur psych from her own angle. All the scheme is geared towards getting some cash from you. Once you are able to raise something, that would be the end of the drama. All the lines would be switched off.

They always go for desperate ladies... Their formats differ. Yours is USA, others would say that, they are working in an oil company. All is to convince you that, they have the cash...

am not desperate but e go hard o for me to come count my hard earn money send give who i never see i don takecare of my mama finish wey i go Love, send money give man wey i never see

agbonkamen:
Hello Nairalanders please don't mind my writings i really need matured advice let me go straight to the point there is a guy i met online months ago we got talking and one thing led to another we became lovers he base in Los Angeles USA he told me how much he loves me, he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. three days ago he said his mum want to speak with me through phone call that he will send my contact to her and also he would want me to visit her too his mum stays in the north and i have not seen this guy before we met online he is Ibo should i call his mum and if i call her what will i tell her?

Dear op its scam, soon d mom will tell u she's ill and ur USA based lover boy will asked u to help him by sending money to his sick mom, and trust me dats just d beginning...later he will ask u to meet his sis in Nigeria and dat one too will av an issue dat requires money. Cut him off now, he's a scam!

agbonkamen:
am not desperate but e go hard o for me to come count my hard earn money send give who i never see i don takecare of my mama finish wey i go Love, send money give man wey i never see

I didn't say ur desperate. But Sincerely, it's hard to believe, if u say ur not.

Just to call the mum on phone u still don't asked us, how u wan take know the family if u de fear na

Really, we aren't minding your 'writings'. So, maybe, she wouldn't mind anything too.

agbonkamen:
am not desperate but e go hard o for me to come count my hard earn money send give who i never see i don takecare of my mama finish wey i go Love, send money give man wey i never see

them no they tell blind man say rain they fall, they are giving you advice but you are forming hardcore but when the music will set i just hope you have your dancing shoes cus you will need them.

schumastic:


them no they tell blind man say rain they fall, they are giving you advice but you are forming hardcore but when the music will set i just hope you have your dancing shoes cus you will need them.

thanks for the advice but i just said my mind

*Spit*



He stay in los angeles


He's mom lives in the north



My sista na yahoo boy dey chat with you from mushin

donbenedict:




He stays in Los Angeles... (u fell in love with him because of obodo oyibo)



He says u should go to d north to see his mum



And even if nairalanders tell u not to go, u will still go



I pity u. Look, I understand u want to get married asap, but please, ur life is more important right now

The poster is Long throat..

Her story didnt make sense..

sinaj:
Play ur cool wen she calls you.



Dnt take it to heart coz diz people cnt be trusted

Omo, you cynical o It's probably a mother who wants to get to know someone who is going to be in her son's life and here you are saying sharing your paranoia.