Drew0:
Senseless girl.

dharay99:

plz how is she senseless...

dharay99:

plz how is she senseless...

sinaj:
First class my ass

Drew0:




Why is she ranting pointlessly?

I mean only Nigeria girl go do this kind thing, if your bf no want official work and he decides to pursue his career in music, can she not support him? Instead she is tryna frustrate him, if you can support him, gtfo!! You call him broke, her mate they buy her bf things, see AY wife na she support am when he was broke in skul days pursuing his dreams.

All this senseless Nigerian girls they disgust me with their low mentality.

Drew0:




Why is she ranting pointlessly?

I mean only Nigeria girl go do this kind thing, if your bf no want official work and he decides to pursue his career in music, can she not support him? Instead she is tryna frustrate him, if you can support him, gtfo!! You call him broke, her mate they buy her bf things, see AY wife na she support am when he was broke in skul days pursuing his dreams.
All this senseless Nigerian girls they disgust me with their low mentality.

rockstarB:

Put yourself in my shoes and read your comment once again, does it make any sense Do u know how long he's been obsessed with this music? How much I have helped him with. What will it take him to get a job alongside music instead of begging his sis for as low as 500/1000# for sub. It's disappointing, to even think he's 25 is disheartening

ButterFrost212:
I absolutely understand, these music people can be so head strong. Although I'd still say you should give him a little time if you love him that much..

ButterFrost212:
You should give him some time to either make it or realise that music won't work out for him. Since you've already had enough, give him about a year, in which you'll try and improve yourself too. Yes your boyfriend has to be rich and all, after all what would you do with a broke ass nigga, but you also have to make something for yourself. So by giving him time, you're also helping yourself. If after a year he still hasn't gotten his act right then you can move on without any regrets. But then again if a year is too long, please call it quits before you become the nag that he'll eventually open a thread for...

rockstarB:

Put yourself in my shoes and read your comment once again, does it make any sense Do u know how long he's been obsessed with this music? How much I have helped him with. What will it take him to get a job alongside music instead of begging his sis for as low as 500/1000# for sub. It's disappointing, to even think he's 25 is disheartening

rockstarB:
My boyfriend is a jobless upcoming artist it is annoying because it is more than a year now that he served this country, I feel like he should get a job since he is a First Class graduate but NO! He won't. He prefers to keep asking money from his sister and anyone that could help. Each time I bring up the matter of getting a job he will get kind of angry. He is so obsessed with this music that he sees no other thing. Am angry, even to sub sometimes is problem cos he is broke. I believe that music should be the second option while he works to get money at least to help his career And stop begging. I don't understand a broke guy is a frustrated person coupled with being an upcoming.
We had a fight not quite long cos he is too broke to sub for himself. I brought up the issue of getting a job and he was like "I don't have any reasonable suggestions" nonsense!

rockstarB:

Thank you. I'm a fresh graduate waiting to serve soon, I am also into tailoring. I've been building myself ever since, I'm not used to collecting money from him anyway.

rockstarB:
I don't even know where to start. Anyway i have been dating my man for close to 4years now and we are both cool together and we planning to get married after am done with my youth service.

slimthugchimee:
this girl you are a big liar this is what you said in your previous thread now this, keep lying to yourself

Victorakats:



I personally understand your worries and concerns about your partner's inability to get a job.
In all honesty you didn't do anything wrong by suggesting that he gets something doing while he works on his passion.
Again, I personally admire him because he seems like a focused and passionate individual who wish to make a mark in the music industry. So I won't encourage you to look down on him as a result of his current financial capacity.
I feel that what he needs is someone who will advise him and help him understand that great music involves great money.
I will rather suggest that you encourage him join a music band, choir group, or get a music mentor that will coach him and at the same time expose him to the music industry.
This will help him to grow in his passion and at the same time earn a living from singing,writing or playing instruments.
I want you to resolve to support him with the best advice that he needs, and since he's not comfortable with working for anyone, please don't push him.
Like I said earlier, men of vision don't bend to pressure, they soar above pressure by giving their all to make their vision a reality.
Again if you're not necessarily comfortable with his vision and passion for music and you feel that you cannot wait for him or support him, kindly let him know and move on with your life.

MzPecs:
OP is scared of leaving him and then tomorrow, she'll hear that her "broke upcoming artiste bf" don blow!!!

rockstarB:

Yes I did said that. And have I finished serving now? Is there a problem in planning future together with your partner. That only goes to show that we r serious about each other.