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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 7:38am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Tega4B: Sometimes,we learn the hard way. Just think of the consequence of living with the scare and guilt of a life time if you will go for the abortion option. Think wisely!. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Aroh48(m): 7:42am On Sep 07, 2016 |
O boy! See brutality for this thread.But he that is without sin,let him cast d first stone. My 2cent. Daughter,go and sin no more. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by yemjazz: 7:45am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Please, Don't kill that baby. In the future you will thank God you spared his life. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Tinalex(f): 7:56am On Sep 07, 2016 |
cyrilamx:Cyrilmax cos you chose to call devil into your life by spewing the rubbish you just post up there and for the fact that this is a public forum where you are free to air your opinion. I AM NOW PROPHESYING INTO YOUR LIFE THAT TILL THE END OF YOUR LIFE YOU SHALL KNOW NO JOY AND YOU SHALL KEEP FALLING FROM ONE TRIBULATION INTO ANOTHER, SO SHALL IT BE!!! Next time you will learn to talk apply discretion when you dnt agree with pple's opinion. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by ZyttoAlex: 7:56am On Sep 07, 2016 |
i will advice you do what you think will suite your life now and also in the future. Never allow a little mistake to disrupt your bright future. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by gost: 7:58am On Sep 07, 2016 |
call me on 07030063860. i may have a solution to your problem. i just wanna help, no strings attached. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by octopusfreaky(f): 8:02am On Sep 07, 2016 |
cyrilamx:waow, this is so touching. Life is sooooo mysterious, there are some situation you cant imagine how u pass through but God is always there to rescue us no mata d gravity of our sin. What a merciful God we serve. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Sunsets: 8:07am On Sep 07, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:Jesus knew he will resurrect...besides what sort of comparison was that? |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Vicsean: 8:10am On Sep 07, 2016 |
She's a quin and a crazy one at that so if you chose to listen to her.. Ladies never hurt a kid cause you think its not the right time and that they might ruin ur life. It might be hard and emotions really tense like d world wud come to an end for u if people get to know abt it but look at the other side of it, like what will dat kid ya abt to kill turn out to be in future or what if that's d only kid God has assigned to ur life and den u decide to kill it cause of what ur parents and what people wud say. It might not be easy but give it a try u wud be surprise how tins will turn out. That kid might end up being d happiest thing in ur life. Speaking from expirence |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Jesse4mu(m): 8:13am On Sep 07, 2016 |
To the OP, just remember that life is sacred and if that baby is aborted, be ready to live with that guilt for the rest of your life.. sit down, talk to your parents n brace up for tough times... do not let the baby suffer for the irresponsible actions you or the father took.. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 8:15am On Sep 07, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:I pray you don't cry for children of your own later in the future. I pray that the cries of aborted children will not turn God's Blessing of the fruit of the womb from you. It's not too late to repent |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by ElSherriff: 8:16am On Sep 07, 2016 |
I dont like your comment...should I shoot you? Your response I guess would be "Get rid of her ASAP if I know what is good for Nairaland and the world" You forget the 'thing' you getting rid of metamorphosed into something like your kom kom head! The only innocent person in this whole saga is the baby and yet your suggest it gets killed. Mother and Father enjoyed the sex, commited sin, father hid it from his parents, mother is willing to do same and all the while, baby stays innocent. kom kom head! CrazyQuinn: 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by femi4: 8:16am On Sep 07, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:how many abortions have you done? 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 8:17am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Tega4B:U and ur unborn baby can't be a loser, everyone, including his ex has to know that you are with his child. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Raymarkable(m): 8:18am On Sep 07, 2016 |
People are so quick to giving advices ba. If you as a female where in her shoes do you think it will be so easy to say KEEP IT. You are pregnant for a guy getting married to another female in December. How do you think people will view her. What happens to her after the child is born. If she looses her job because of the pregnancy. How will she care for herself and her child. No one has the right to advice you on keeping or removing. My advice. Weigh your options. If there is more loss for you. Than possible gain then remove it. The country is hard enough. But if you are strong enough for what comes then keep the baby. You should know exactly what you getting into. But be rational and be sensitive too. All this people shouting keep it keep it. Are not going to give you a penny or face the struggle with you. Best of luck. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 8:19am On Sep 07, 2016 |
femi4:None |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Tega4B: 8:23am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Horsesmouth: I HV NO WORD FOR U. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by sambisa5: 8:25am On Sep 07, 2016 |
bennyrazz: we all kept, accusing and blaming the girl.....no one is talking about the guy who still got in touch with his ex and then was having unprotected sex with another girl,,,what was he expecting, a miracle, that she will never get pregnant......? I think the guy is more to be blamed......this is how this worthless guys roam about putting some mu.mu girls into serious trouble. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 8:30am On Sep 07, 2016 |
tbliss22:This was harsh |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by sandrahnaub(f): 8:31am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Horsesmouth: |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by CSTR2: 8:41am On Sep 07, 2016 |
God!! I hate dumb ladies. My only worry is the piss-poor IQ the unborn child is going to inherit from this woman. That is probably enough reason to abort. To save the world another idiot. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 8:44am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Keep the baby if u wish Or abort it if u wish too There is NO Big Sin and small Sin. U back bite, u steal, u lie all na Sin, and they are just as equal to abortion Sin. Nothing like Big Sin and Small Sin. All i see here are bunch of sinners trying to judge. Rubbish. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Ureo2014: 8:44am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Dear, Life is more than you can see. Let me tell you, that baby could be the only child that God wants to give you. Who knows? If that is the case, ask yourself what will happen to you if you sacrifice that baby on the altar of ego. Remember also that some have entered the theater without coming out alive. Don't abort it is a sin before God and an abomination before humanity. Shalom. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by CSTR2: 8:45am On Sep 07, 2016 |
sambisa5:A girl get pregnants and bears the brunt of the stigma and whatever. That nigga that did the ejaculation is free. Free to spread his seed somewhere. Common sense would dictate to a sensible lady with atleast a decent number of brain cells that she has FAR MORE to lose and should use a condom if she can't keep her legs closed. May God not let me give birth to this kind of stupid daughter due to a freak of nature, I would disown her immediately. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 8:49am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Raymarkable:
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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by AdisaOwala: 8:50am On Sep 07, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: With this non-challant attitude of yours, you must have aborted atleast 6 pregnancies within the last 2years - E sure me dieeee! ! |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Donemmy(m): 8:54am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Jay542:Morning Bro |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by fromnigeria(m): 8:54am On Sep 07, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:Get rid of What ? |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Arijude(m): 8:54am On Sep 07, 2016 |
yvelchstores:Hmmmmm you gat that uncommon good heart. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by holuwabumi: 8:55am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Hello Tega, I know someone that can counsel you her name is Yolanda George-David @AuntLanda. You can listen to her program - Sharing life issues #sli on Inspiration fm 92.3 every Thursday, Friday, Saturday & Sunday 7.00pm - 8.00pm. She counsel, help and advise ladies in such a situation. You can also get through to her via her office line +2348074754380 or her twitter page @AuntLanda God bless you
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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by fromnigeria(m): 9:00am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Confirm That he really is not interested in ending up with you. If yes, go to your parents, apologise, make amends and move on. Mean while, you are keeping the baby. Tega4B: 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by hijodedios: 9:07am On Sep 07, 2016 |
Abortion is not an option my dear,keep the pregnancy,you could consider adoption after giving birth,its much more better than aborting and if you decide to give it out in adoption,send me a pm. Tega4B: |
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