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I Have Never Been In Love by Talk2Bella(f): 8:58am On Sep 11, 2016 |
As weird as it may sound I have never been in love, how does it feel like I have often wondered, I have been in relationships but I have never really been committed and could leave any time I want to. My friends think I’m emotionally unstable or maybe I have been hurt by some guy but that’s far from the truth, I have never been hurt, I have been the one to hurt others when I get tired of a relationship, do you think something is wrong with me? Does being in love equate happiness? Do I need to fall in love to be complete? These days I’m not seeing anyone, I feel empty inside me, I think I might be ready to fall in love, but I said this in the past and when a nice caring young man comes we just have sex and I get bored and want to leave. Do I need a therapist? I see my friends and their partners really happy, I have never experienced that before, maybe the fear of getting hurt keeps stopping me, I grew up with just my mum, dad left, sometimes I remember how hurt she was and I don’t just want to go through that. What do I do Bella? Will I remain like this forever? Talk2Bella. Love is one of the simplest things yet its complications knows no bound, love is a nice feeling, it’s a feeling of completeness, commitment, forever and sometimes sadness, it’s one of the wonderful feelings in the world. Everyone one is capable of falling in love, all you need is finding that someone who makes it worth your while and I know you haven’t found that person, because when you do boredom will be far off your thoughts. About needing a therapist, I don’t think anything is wrong with you dear, its normal to want to be careful, but you need to stop diving into relationships because you want to fill that emptiness in your heart, consider those who’d get hurt because of this. Having sex with someone isn’t a criterion for a relationship to work or not, but the problem might be you have “THE SEX” too soon, try and get to know who you want to be with, weigh the compatibility, check out the prospects, weigh your options and if sex happens don’t try to run away, stick around, sacrifice your time, wipe negativity off the list and see If it works. Love is something you should experience once, even if it doesn’t work out the experience is worth it. http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/i-have-never-been-in-love.html |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by falconey(m): 9:01am On Sep 11, 2016 |
how can we help you with that? |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 9:04am On Sep 11, 2016 |
I think she has not met a guy who's ready to make her fall in love with him. Period!. |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 9:07am On Sep 11, 2016 |
I don't understand ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by mercichoco(f): 9:07am On Sep 11, 2016 |
She is possesed with a water husband |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Talk2Bella(f): 9:18am On Sep 11, 2016 |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 11:11am On Sep 11, 2016 |
I know how you feel ![]() |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Talk2Bella(f): 12:48pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 12:52pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 1:08pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
never been in love these things take time...never be in a hurry! |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by oluwalewis(m): 1:22pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:I can't quantify what u r missing,i can help u out |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 1:40pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by oluwalewis(m): 1:48pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: From all indications,u r a matured independent lady n to d best of my knowledge,matured ladies don't turn down men's hospitality. |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 1:51pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
oluwalewis:oh really? ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by oluwalewis(m): 2:47pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: But I am not complaining beautiful,all I wanna do is give u a lil therapy of my undiluted love. |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 2:50pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
oluwalewis:sorry I have to refuse ![]() |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 3:00pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
A girl can live you if you don't have money like me.... Just give it to her down below ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by oluwalewis(m): 3:09pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:I won't pust further but will accept your resolution as a gentleman |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 3:15pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
oluwalewis:Thank you ![]() |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by oluwalewis(m): 3:47pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:How r u enjoyin d cosy weather |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 3:49pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by oluwalewis(m): 3:53pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: THAT'S IMPOSSICANT. tel me d reason so i ll knw aw to deal wit d weather |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 4:02pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
oluwalewis:because we are in Africa and it's always hot ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by oluwalewis(m): 4:06pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: whc state are u |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 4:11pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
oluwalewis:Lagos ![]() |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by oluwalewis(m): 4:17pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:I'm in lagos and it's very weather 4 two. Which part of lagos are you? |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 4:19pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
oluwalewis:on the island(lekki) ![]() |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by oluwalewis(m): 4:23pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:Now i get it, Send me ur address and i'll hurrily in a passionate way get those clothes off u |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 4:25pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
oluwalewis:my father is at home ![]() |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by oluwalewis(m): 4:29pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: That's no big deal,i've gone to launch a general's daughter while he was at home. Just send me your address,u r abt to be launched by an launching away expert |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by Nobody: 4:31pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
oluwalewis:sorry no ![]() |
Re: I Have Never Been In Love by oluwalewis(m): 4:40pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: I ain't seeing that rugedity in u anymore,i believe STRONGLY u aint just mouthed. |
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