Cathony:
I've been good friends with a lady for a year already, we always had fun together, chill out, go see movies and so on. But what transpired last week was a new experience in our friendship; she came over to my house, We drank and laughed a lot but at some point, we started kissing and one thing led to another. After we had it, I tried to talk about it, but she said that she was cool, she felt good, so we moved on, she left my house an hour later. Ever since then, she's doesn't answer my calls, reply my text, boxed her on FB and asked what happened, she was like "I don't know but ever since we had sex, I've been thinking a lot, I really love you as a friend, I don't wanna lose you too, but I just have to avoid you"...I told her we can fix this,let's meet so we should talk about it, but she said she doesn't wanna see me. Hitherto, she has been snubbing me, I really don't wanna lose this friendship but what should I do now? Did sex ruin our friendship?? Please I need everyone's honest opinion about this....

semasir:
Shouln't have even surfaced but since the heat has been shared and she conscented to it and not a rape, bro!!! she will be back but I strongly do not support the sex except you has been married before.

wree91:
Once you start you can't stop

CrazyQuinn:
Just let her calm down for a while, give her space and let her think it through, she will come around .......if she doesn't, just move on, simple!

herzern:
A brother just cross the border of friendzone.....

Let's someone shout Hallelujah!.....

Marioplus:

Stop bothering over her rather extend this prayer to her for forgiveness from God
if she cares to come back DEFINE NO SEX OR IMMORALITY in your FRIENDSHIP from hence OR
LET EVERY ONE DEPART IN PEACE TO AVOID FURTHER DAMAGE.
GOD'S GRACE TO YOU....

obyno1011:
She is avoiding you cos she will jump over you for more sex. Her thought has been about you, comparing you to other guys, weighing the options of having a serious relationship with u than just friends. She is in love already.
Do u love her to start a serious affair?
You have built trust, closeness and companionship since you became friends.
Now is the time to know what you want from each other. A relationship with her will be great. Think and tell her your feeling.
Cheers

Laveda:
You didn't _fuck her right..

Cathony:

LOL , no...if this would ruin our friendship I'll just prefer been friends with her for eternity, but the deed has been done #ConfusedStateOfMind

herzern:


Bro...

Abeq....stop all dhiz 'nice quy' syndrome biko....

Yhu should be lookinq for ways to proceed in that ministry.....

herzern:


Bro...

Abeq....stop all dhiz 'nice quy' syndrome biko....

Yhu should be lookinq for ways to proceed in that ministry.....

larabae13:
werey! ur mouth too much! U sef u neva even leave friendzone

.....

Larab.ae13 friend-zones Herz.ern ....

No worry....come haibee make yhu see iffa no qo commot...

herzern:


.....

Larab.ae13 friend-zones Herz.ern ....

No worry....come haibee make yhu see iffa no qo commot...

larabae13:
hehehe enu loni bi ti ajakara

Beta go nd find ursef a gal

biko....see ridicule......

Maka just Lock up oooh....

herzern:


biko....see ridicule......

Maka just Lock up oooh....

larabae13:
oya pele

herzern:


I dey hunqry sev....

Dem Food Vendors no cook....

And food no dey house....

All my Muslims friends don deny me biko....

Cathony:

Yeah I get your point ...but she doesn't want a relationship now, although I've never asked her on a date...yet...; I'm not sure if I love her yet, but I just don't wanna lose her.
thanks man

obyno1011:



The fact you are worried about her feelings shows you love her. Same thought going through her mind.

Nature has a way of helping us in our weaknesses. You are scared of making the move or the responsibility of dating. Ask yourself if she has what you admire in a lady.
If you don't make the move now and she finally decides to avoid you, you may regret using this opportunity.

Be a man, open up and dont wait till she makes the move.

Cathony:
I've been good friends with a lady for a year already, we always had fun together, chill out, go see movies and so on. But what transpired last week was a new experience in our friendship; she came over to my house, We drank and laughed a lot but at some point, we started kissing and one thing led to another. After we had it, I tried to talk about it, but she said that she was cool, she felt good, so we moved on, she left my house an hour later. Ever since then, she's doesn't answer my calls, reply my text, boxed her on FB and asked what happened, she was like "I don't know but ever since we had sex, I've been thinking a lot, I really love you as a friend, I don't wanna lose you too, but I just have to avoid you"...I told her we can fix this,let's meet so we should talk about it, but she said she doesn't wanna see me. Hitherto, she has been snubbing me, I really don't wanna lose this friendship but what should I do now? Did sex ruin our friendship?? Please I need everyone's honest opinion about this....

schumastic:


maybe she thought you can hit the right spot but was shocked when you couldn't