your just knowing ?
lol

even if you pay an agent Money You will not still get the job without him asking you to lay with him
this is something everyone should know bout
I got my job in my own search
how many people help for free this days

DrayZee:

You seem to have forgotten that we're in Nigeria. Once the guy drop small money, the entire lawsuit will be swept under the carpet.

You forget say no be every day beans dey quick done. Try cook trouble beans. That babe is no be trouble. Period!

euchaaria:
I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

You messed up not recording your conversations with him. What if he had raped you? By the way, why would you even go meet him in the first place? You girls should learn to avoid taking unnecessary risks. Hope y'all saw some idiotic herbalists that cut off a girl's heart after raping her, on front page? A word is enough...

Thank God u didn't get such job coz its obvious dat d man will be requesting for it almost everyday

Ow I wish u av strong evidence against d man coz he needs to be dealt with

Better job is on ur way dear
Cheer up

euchaaria:

What if the slowpoke is infected? And he has his way,and you have scores to settle with God and your health. Let the job go, better one will come.

euchaaria:
I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

I just opened ur previous thread. Can u now expose the bastard?

DrayZee:

You seem to have forgotten that we're in Nigeria. Once the guy drop small money, the entire lawsuit will be swept under the carpet.

Not when people decide to take laws into their hands. Jungle justice... his money is far from this now.

Nice decision you took, but would have even preferred you ignoring him and not going to meet him at all, because it's obvious u knew why he wanted you to meet him there...it's definitely not to collect the offer letter , anyways, u have your reasons for still going ahead...all the best, God will provide another job for you, as per the God judging him aspect leave that to God, many people say that, not knowing our ways and thoughts are not God ways...you can't decide how, your case might make him a changed man, do not be surprised it might be part of the interview process to see how faithful you are(just saying ooo)
All the best.

realmindz:
somehow, I don't believe this story...

op I'm sorry but I think you are an attention seeker.
even if this happens, why come here to tell us, to seek sympathy?

That is part of what nairaland is all about! Even if she is an attention seeker, she got yours!

Something tells me you are the interviewer! Hmm

this lady just missed a great opportunity to put a psychopathic pervert in his place, God will not come down to punish him, other ladies will continue to fall victim and he will continue to earn his salary in peace, infact I am not pleased, so bear with me if I choose not to empathize with the op

Sweetheart, Get up from your bed, get dressed and continue your search.
Do not let that put you down, instead let it be a motivation for you to push n push n push until something happens.
Good thing you have his contact so you can send him a message when you finally land a job of you choice.
You made the right decision and don't for one second regret it.
Not all that glitters is Gold.
You are my Heroine.

DrayZee:

You seem to have forgotten that we're in Nigeria. Once the guy drop small money, the entire lawsuit will be swept under the carpet.

That will still serve as a lesson for him. To knock the man d hungry me.

Sweetheart, Get up from your bed, get dressed and continue your search.
Do not let that put you down, instead let it be a motivation for you to push n push n push until something happens.
Good thing you have his contact so you can send him a message when you finally land a job of you choice.
You made the right decision and don't for one second regret it.
Not all that glitters is Gold.
You are my Heroine.

you just made my day dear. What do you relax with? Just enjoy yourself for you have earned for yourself a dignified life, you don't need to lie down and be thinking about a job that was never yours in the first place. Free your mind and keep working hard and commit all to God. soon you will smile.

This life is full of irony.

@OP, ain't someone hitting it for free?

Am not condoning his behavior though.

I nearly forgive him, seeing your picture. You are very pretty.

He will meet his Waterloo someday

SycophanticGoat:



You messed up not recording your conversations with him. What if he had raped you? By the way, why would you even go meet him in the first place? You girls should learn to avoid taking unnecessary risks. Hope y'all saw some idiotic herbalists that cut off a girl's heart after raping her, on front page? A word is enough...

Girls go evver hear word?
Sometimes I wonder if na this same world Dem dey too...dey seem to get caught up in the instagram and facebook rosy flashy American world so much that they forget what time it is in Nigeria...... You go meet person wey wan offer you job for private place.....HOWWWW!!!!!!?? sometimes I don't totally blame people who blame rape/ritual victims....some of Dem are jst daft...

Why are some men so obsessed with sex?. Sex is overrated in my view.

I have a feeling it's not a well structured organization we are talking about. How much would they pay you on the job? The SOB should park very well.

Plus you are kinda slow...you could have turned the tables on the moraspooner by recording your convo since you already had an idea of what was to come. Then you could just put the fear of God in him

Whichever way this had turned out, you couldn't have worked there. This is because you would be like a tenant in a house. If he dare sleeps with his landlord's wife...eviction. If landlord sleeps with his wife...na him go still comot for house.

Anyways, your job is on its way and you would get it. No azzzzzhole can armtwist you in a corner! If you want to get down with anyone, it should be your call! Forrrrrrkingazzzzzsshole!

It only makes sense if you are either married or you abstain from premarital sex.but if you are having it with some other men for free or for any other price,then you just lost a biznez

MilesLamar:
Oh dear, I don't knw who u are, but I will look for you and marry you

Just like that,be careful in your partner selection.

murtalaa:
This life is full of irony.

@OP, ain't someone hitting it for free?

Am not condoning his behavior though.

I nearly forgive him, seeing your picture. You are very pretty.

He will meet his Waterloo someday

"If a gurl sleeps around she s still my home gurl, but if she sleeps around for money(job etc) then she is a bxtch, because then she put a price on her self" - Tupac....

Someone should definitely be hitting it for free but make I ask you, if Na YOUR babe , fiance, wife you Wey dey hit am for "free" go encourage her to use am buy job I am just asking.....
Sometimes read what you write before posting it...

izzou:
Euchaaria

euchaaria:
I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

That's a great decision you took.
..though you shouldn't have gone to see him privately in a hotel!
However, have you ever given your body to "lesser" men?
May God see you through. ..your dream job is on the way.

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Laredojohn:
Nice decision you took, but would have even preferred you ignoring him and not going to meet him at all, because it's obvious u knew why he wanted you to meet him there...it's definitely not to collect the offer letter , anyways, u have your reasons for still going ahead...all the best, God will provide another job for you, as per the God judging him aspect leave that to God, many people say that, not knowing our ways and thoughts are not God ways...you can't decide how, your case might make him a changed man, do not be surprised it might be part of the interview process to see how faithful you are(just saying ooo)
All the best.

Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh....so such a respectable high ranking officer will descend low to ask for sex as prank tactic to offer the same person a job he will pay her salary for? To what end

Oh please....
Oh please...

euchaaria:

Am proud Of you

Where have you been?

Inasmuchas I sympathize with you..

Nairalander's adviced you in over 5 pages in ur first tread..

U didnt take any recoreder, No one escorted you

What were u trying to achieve

AroOkigbo:


That's a great decision you took.
However, have you ever given your body to "lesser" men?
May God see you through. ..your dream job is on the way.

Please what is your definition of a "lesser" man A broke person? A low-pay job working person?
Salaries dont make a man....
Life is a journey.... This oga is the lesser man here, descending so low after all his years of experience (and marriage) to demand sex as a price to grant somebody a job.....

That's a lesser man, lesser than guys who buy suya for a gurl and expect d bleep in return.....
He is in a position to affect somebody's life and all he can think of is kitty cat..... We are really all animals indeed

DMeanMan:
euchaaria I need you to understand some things.

In my opinion, I want to believe you are a good strong woman but you just have to stop playing the victim card. Being a victim doesn't help anybody! All you're going to get here are petty and unnecessary complements and prayers. All these summed together in folds won't pay for food.

Politely turning down a criminal while protecting his identity is in my honest opinion an insane thing to do.

Many ladies will give an eye to be in your position. That guy would be begging with his life right now.

Ask yourself these question, what is the worst that could happen?

If I were you I will do just one thing.

Send him an SMS that you were with a recorder when you met him at the hotel and will be going public with it!
Do this and watch him blow up your phone with calls.
It is when he calls that you will now do the recording! Simply let your conversation be very lengthy and make him with his own mouth confess the crime!

I just love this post.

Babe, if your story is true... Take heart...


But if you are not a virgin and you have a bf that fvcks you and he hasn't paid your bride Price, my dear.. You have no moral justification to call God or feel bad or even deny yourself that job..


Your bf fvcks for free or at the very best, for money to make your hair ....


If you are not a virgin and you still fvck
.... You just lost a job

If not, your God would give you a better one