Hmm. May GOD helps us.

amyg:

I tot ladies were d only desperados,wow!desperates guys?ladies lets help him nah.

so u agree that ladies are desperados?

na2day?:

so u agree that ladies are desperados?

In as much as I will agree with you, but please dont go that far. Thanks.

Get in contact with The Amaka she'll take u up on ur offer;she's equally as desperate

Enjoyment1:


In as much as I will agree with you, but please dont go that far. Thanks.

do u mind? i was replying the lady

Hmm!. Wishing all posters here Season's Greetings!.

GOD will see us through, next year.

shollyaj:

Why are you crying? The guy needs a spouse, and the other one says, even guys like babes can be desperate. So why the tears?

Otobroto:


Why are you crying? The guy needs a spouse, and the other one says, even guys like babes can be desperate. So why the tears?

I guess Nairaland can be a good match-maker!.

Go oshodi

selingel:

Hmm!. Wishing all posters here Season's Greetings!.

merry christmas and happy new year to u too and i hope next year will be more fruitful and more profitable

omotundemi:

merry christmas and happy new year to u too and i hope next year will be more fruitful and more profitable

Thanks. We are all expecting a prosperous new year.

omotundemi:

merry christmas and happy new year to u too and i hope next year will be more fruitful and more profitable

Thanks. We are all expecting a prosperous new year.

you really should have committed suicide seriously that was a better option.

infobut:

you really should have committed suicide seriously that was a better option.

Haba!. This is a very bad suggestion.

Hello, welcome to 2010. Mr. Selingel, please tell us when it is happening? Abi, are you still searching?

Happy New Year, Selingel, and good luck in your quest.

Enjoyment1:


Haba!. This is a very bad suggestion.

I wonder why some one could tell the other to attempt suicide, just because he wants to marry in two months?. How does it affects you?

@selingel-its really not too proper ur advert, i mean you cannot seriuosly get a wife, this way, Please search for a friend first abi,

@ Selingel

I am interested in your story and I wish you goodluck. Keep us updated and let us know how it goes. Don't worry about all the yeye people making light jokes out of this.

Abekeade08:

@ Selingel

I am interested in your story and I wish you goodluck. Keep us updated and let us know how it goes. Don't worry about all the yeye people making light jokes out of this.

Thanks.

@ OP,
it's been 2months plus. how far?

How is the marriage going?

I know some of those girls talking desperation have started communicating you?

HAVE A WONDERFUL TIMES IN YOUR MARRIAGE

jice:

How is the marriage going?

I know some of those girls talking desperation have started communicating you?

HAVE A WONDERFUL TIMES IN YOUR MARRIAGE

Please lets know when it happens.

jice:

How is the marriage going?

I know some of those girls talking desperation have started communicating you?

HAVE A WONDERFUL TIMES IN YOUR MARRIAGE

Mr. Selingel, you really need to talk to us. What is happening? It is more than 2 months!.

I went to another forum, and I saw the same post, though all the info where different. Could it be that guys and babes are very desperate to settle down?

Wife cheated 2 months into our marriage,
I married for the second time in June of 2003. I am 46 and my wife is 37. She has a 4 year old son with a man that has little to do with the boy. He is an alcoholic and there is very little contact between them. My wife told me while we were dating that she had no feelings left for her ex. and I believed her.

We married and moved two hours away from her ex. and all of her family. Almost from the start my wife began calling her ex. on a fairly regular basis, especially after we had fights/disagreements. Needless to say, I became suspicious and asked her what was up. She denied anything was going on and stated that she was just bored (she wasn't working then) and was talking about their son. I started becoming resentful and even more suspicious as the calls kept mounting (I kept tabs on the cell phone bills).

Two months after we married, she went to her Mom's for the weekend and when she came back, I saw where she had called her ex. at two in the morning. There was also a call to a male "friend" about the same time. Neither of these calls was over 2 minutes. I confronted her over these calls and she ended up going back to her Mom's for about 10 days.

We eventually worked things out and she stopped calling her ex. so often. However, from November-January, the calls started getting heavy again. Finally, I told her that she needed to cease contact with her ex. unless it was child-related. She agreed to do so and has kept her word(as far as I know).

I have always suspected that she had slept with her ex. and it had been eating at me for the past year and a half. This past Sunday night, right after the Super Bowl, she finally admitted to me that she did sleep with him two months into our marriage while she was staying at her Mom's. I had been preparing myself for this revelation but the shock, anger, and hurt were still overwhelming. The images of my wife sucking his d*ck and having his d*ck inside her haunt me every waking moment. She says it was just this one time but I have my strong doubts.

My first impulse was to divorce her and forget about her. What kind of woman would have an affair 2 months into a marriage? The problem is this; she is truly remorseful and is willing to do anything to save our marriage. I am 100% certain that their affair is over and that she loves me with all her heart now. And even though I hate her right now and don't know if I want to stay married to her, I really do love her.


******THIS IS A STORY I CULLED FROM ANOTHER FORUM*******

Oboma1:


Wife cheated 2 months into our marriage,

I married for the second time in June of 2003. I am 46 and my wife is 37. She has a 4 year old son with a man that has little to do with the boy. He is an alcoholic and there is very little contact between them. My wife told me while we were dating that she had no feelings left for her ex. and I believed her.

We married and moved two hours away from her ex. and all of her family. Almost from the start my wife began calling her ex. on a fairly regular basis, especially after we had fights/disagreements. Needless to say, I became suspicious and asked her what was up. She denied anything was going on and stated that she was just bored (she wasn't working then) and was talking about their son. I started becoming resentful and even more suspicious as the calls kept mounting (I kept tabs on the cell phone bills).

Two months after we married, she went to her Mom's for the weekend and when she came back, I saw where she had called her ex. at two in the morning. There was also a call to a male "friend" about the same time. Neither of these calls was over 2 minutes. I confronted her over these calls and she ended up going back to her Mom's for about 10 days.

We eventually worked things out and she stopped calling her ex. so often. However, from November-January, the calls started getting heavy again. Finally, I told her that she needed to cease contact with her ex. unless it was child-related. She agreed to do so and has kept her word(as far as I know).

I have always suspected that she had slept with her ex. and it had been eating at me for the past year and a half. This past Sunday night, right after the Super Bowl, she finally admitted to me that she did sleep with him two months into our marriage while she was staying at her Mom's. I had been preparing myself for this revelation but the shock, anger, and hurt were still overwhelming. The images of my wife sucking his d*ck and having his d*ck inside her haunt me every waking moment. She says it was just this one time but I have my strong doubts.

My first impulse was to divorce her and forget about her. What kind of woman would have an affair 2 months into a marriage? The problem is this; she is truly remorseful and is willing to do anything to save our marriage. I am 100% certain that their affair is over and that she loves me with all her heart now. And even though I hate her right now and don't know if I want to stay married to her, I really do love her.


******THIS IS A STORY I CULLED FROM ANOTHER FORUM*******

I guess my question is "Is this a deal-breaker or can a marriage survive an affair so early in this stage?

How can a woman be so heartless to have sex with an ex, two months into her marriage? Women will never stop to amaze me.

Meanwhile, Nairalanders, I want to appreciate all your concern and lover. This thread, has really opened my eyes to many things. I am better off now. Thanks to all, even to those that sent me emails, may all your good wishes this year come to pass.

Thanks.

selingel:

How can a woman be so heartless to have intimacy with an ex, two months into her marriage? Women will never stop to amaze me.

Meanwhile, Nairalanders, I want to appreciate all your concern and lover. This thread, has really opened my eyes to many things. I am better off now. Thanks to all, even to those that sent me emails, may all your good wishes this year come to pass.

Thanks.

sum1 actually sent u an email? i better go open a thread asap!

na2day?:

sum1 actually sent u an email? i better go open a thread asap!

You must be frank about what you want, if indeed you do not have an interior motive. I received more than 50 mails, because of this thread. I am really better now. If I have my way, I will edit this topic, to suit my current knowledge.