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Confession: My Boss Uses Me As He Likes, I Have Become His Play Thing by vicmatias(m): 11:28pm On Sep 18, 2016
My name is Ella, I am 31 years old. I work with a private establishment in one of the Northern states in Nigeria my boss’ started his sexual exploits with me.
“It’s quite a small company, the pay is not so mouth-watering. I qualified for the job after the interview, so my getting the job was not based on sentiments. I am doing this job because of the drive and passion I have for it, yet, I am not happy.
“My boss is a married man and he sleeps with me at will. He used to be nice to me only when he wants to ask me for sex. Sometimes, he doesn’t even ask me, he will just visit me. No matter how much I resist him, all he wants is to have me laid and the moment he does, he dresses up and leaves,” Ella narrated.
She said talking about the whole experience makes me sick, stressing though she is not the type keen on sex, still she is compelled to do it with her boss sometimes.
The devastated lady said that her boss was in the habit of giving her attitude at work, she said: “At work, this mad dog gives me attitude. He doesn’t know how to talk to people, he thinks he is on top of the world. Sometimes we don’t even talk because I’m having a heavy heart, but when it is time for sex, he comes around like a lost puppy looking for milk. Oh! How I hate him.
“I remember how someone said he used to work somewhere, going to work tattered. This my so called boss used to look so dirty and unkempt to the office when his boss called him and gave him clothes. Today, maybe because he is somewhere and he thinks he has arrived, he can talk to people anyhow and have sex with whoever at anytime”.
Ella stressed that going to work has become a frustrating exercise for her, as she is fed up with the harassment.
Contemplating blackmail, she said:
“Funny enough, I have some evidence of his sexual harassment and I really don’t know what to do with them. I didn’t intend to come up with this, thinking I would get over the whole thing when he eventually stops. But the thought of sleeping with me at will when he has his wife at home is killing. So, I’m the one sweet for precedent sex games? I ask myself sometimes.”
“I battle with this sex bull-dog taking advantage of me and his unbearable attitude. It’s all about the sex to him. All he wants is what matters, how about what I want? He feigns innocence a lot, it is difficult for someone to know what he is capable of; but he is a green snake. Even if I speak out in an attempt to expose his wickedness, who will believe me? I’m worried sick!,” She lamented.
According to Daily Post, Ella is confused and does not know what to do with the situation in her office.She said: “I’m just going mad. What do I do? I am not a sex material and he will not go unpunished. How do I go about this whole thing? I wish I could kill him. Going to work and getting to see this casanova drives me nuts.”
There are numerous cases similar to Ella’s going on around Nigeria, the question remains how do we help people like Ella who are facing similar situations. Do share your views with us on this issue.
Re: Confession: My Boss Uses Me As He Likes, I Have Become His Play Thing by lordgosh: 11:31pm On Sep 18, 2016
What a story......
D person below me shld av a similar story.... grin
Re: Confession: My Boss Uses Me As He Likes, I Have Become His Play Thing by kikies(m): 11:40pm On Sep 18, 2016
The person above me shld b disappointed that d person below him doesn't av a similar story grin
Re: Confession: My Boss Uses Me As He Likes, I Have Become His Play Thing by Nobody: 11:44pm On Sep 18, 2016
vicmatias:

“He used to be nice to me only when he wants to ask me for sex.

Crazy!

The lady is simply frustrated that her boss doesn't act lover after sex or at the office. Really doesn't sound like harassment to me but a lady who wants more respect from a guy she sleeps with.

I stand to be corrected.

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Re: Confession: My Boss Uses Me As He Likes, I Have Become His Play Thing by nifemi25(m): 11:48pm On Sep 18, 2016
Okay noted. Waiting for your boss for his own part of the story because agbo ejo enikan da. Agba oshika no.
Re: Confession: My Boss Uses Me As He Likes, I Have Become His Play Thing by vicstar(m): 11:49pm On Sep 18, 2016
the pay aint mouth-watering,

But he uses you the way he wants, girls can be so small minded undecided

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Re: Confession: My Boss Uses Me As He Likes, I Have Become His Play Thing by chiefolododo(m): 11:59pm On Sep 18, 2016
Your boss is FIRE
Re: Confession: My Boss Uses Me As He Likes, I Have Become His Play Thing by ITbomb(m): 12:07am On Sep 19, 2016
jagugu88li:


Crazy!

The lady is simply frustrated that her boss doesn't act lover after sex or at the office. Really doesn't sound like harassment to me but a lady who wants more respect from a guy she sleeps with.

I stand to be corrected.
Why are you always in my mind.

Send me a DM, I hope you heard what happened on the front page
Re: Confession: My Boss Uses Me As He Likes, I Have Become His Play Thing by torqque7(m): 12:23am On Sep 19, 2016
jagugu88li:


Crazy!

The lady is simply frustrated that her boss doesn't act lover after sex or at the office. Really doesn't sound like harassment to me but a lady who wants more respect from a guy she sleeps with.

I stand to be corrected.

Exactly..just another pained bit.ch angry that he only sees her as his bi.tch mtcheeeeww people been deceiving themselves since 12b.c.

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Re: Confession: My Boss Uses Me As He Likes, I Have Become His Play Thing by McBrooklyn(m): 12:50am On Sep 19, 2016
These hóes ain't loyal cheesy cheesy
Re: Confession: My Boss Uses Me As He Likes, I Have Become His Play Thing by Phytoptera: 1:05am On Sep 19, 2016
What stops you from saying NO!
Common sense

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