sEGXY2:
Madam don't mind all these bloody hypocrites, they wouldn't hesitate to bash you at any given opportunity.

What you should consider is

When does he intend to pull out of the contract marriage?
What effort is he channeling towards your relationship?

This is the only thing I can say for now however I'd implore you to create another thread in the family section where you'd get better advice

flyca:
Are you so sure he is based in Brazil? And is that why you are falling for him?

If the chat with an intl number is on whatsapp, forget your illusions, the guy is likely in Nigeria sef. Once you register a whatsapp with a phone number, you can continue to use it everywhere in the world. Given, he might have visited Brazil sometime before, but maybe he isn't based there anymore. I still use my Nigerian number for whatsapp till date, but I left Nigeria years ago. So be wise. He might have told you he is traveling back to Brazil so that you stop snooping him, and he goes and checks into the next hotel and continues farking one-night standers like he has done to you.

So except you saw him off to the airport and watched him gets checked in with customs, sorry that guy might just be around the corner. If you want a proof, give him a call on his Brazillian number. If it rings and he picks, let us know.

And if I may ask, why is his living in Brazil so special and important to you? What is he doing there? Why does living in Brazil make in more elligible than other bachelors within your radar that will like to have a meaningful relationship with you?

Akeem79:

SMH .

Zaramdgreat:

He said he has no intentions of marrying white that he did d contract marriage just to get his ways around, besides he said the girl is full of trouble bcs she doesnt gv hm rest of mind

He said,he said.....which day una girls go ever wise up.
He begged for sex and so what?
That means he hasn't chopped your punny,cleaned mouth and forgotten you existed?
Are you new to men? what is all this naive statements I read.
Well,I'm hoping this experience will open your eyes to the tactics of men and you will become wiser.



Ps. How old are you again? <
He said pfffft....it never occured to you he could be lying

Zaramdgreat:
Hello everyone, this is my first thread here...i need an insight on a very serious issue.....I met this guy where i work, he actually came to buy something but i think i fell inlove with him at first sight but never tried to make it obvious, he appeared to b a very nice person as the rest of my colleagues liked him too. He bought what he needed and left...i felt bad bcs i thought i might never see him again but luckily he came back this Friday again and my heart almost jumped out of my chest immediately i saw him..we greeted and i couldnt hlp bt ask for his whatsapp number which he gladly gave me an int'l number #Brazilian number# nd told me hw he had always wntd to ask for it bt ws scared of rejection bcs i appeared to b too serious with my work and nvr noticed hw he acted towards me. We laughed it off and i closed frm work that day by 3pm, been chattin wit hm b4 closin hour though nd he askd me to hang out with him the nxt day. I accptd bt later hangout with him same day bcs i was bored nd couldnt wait to see his face again. I realised he ws a traveller based in brazil as he told me evrything abt him with pictures in his phone...he evn told me abt his white gf whom he did contract marriage with nd all that. To cut the long story short, we started kissing at d bar, frm there to his hotel room. Had sex and i stayed with him till nxt day when he chkd out back to brazil....He assured me that he liked me alot that i shouldn't worry about anything...bt right nw i am so worried bcs i might nvr see him again even though we chat on phone and please guys, do u think he would take me seriously as i had sex with him on first date#mind u, he initiated and begged for d sex o# i know i am not a wayward girl but shits happens! No insults pls o, just tell me what u think would be the outcome of us!!

Zaramdgreat:

Thnx frnd, i will always try keepin in contact..

flyca:

Chai! I know its nothing personal with me just economic frustration. Kpele

hungryboy:
Naija girls sha,
I bet one guy were adore you dey beg you for relationship since you no gree,
Na Players and Casanovas dey always attract una,
You are just one of the fishes that guy's net caught,
You have been eaten,
He has moved on to other spots to lay his net for other fishes

ucsparks:
My dear,, he showed you pictures of himself and told you a lot about himself in just one night,, and knowing fully well he can have you even without sharing anything about himself to you because of cos you threw yourself at him like we guys do believe.
Am really sure he truly likes you and wanted some kind of intimate fantasy he will hold unto with you when he leaves the country.. always keep in contact with him that's your job from now,, and once a while share him your nude pics( not with your face on it oo, just your body) and he'll definitely wanna come back to Nigeria just because of you
GOOD LUCK DEAR!!!

Are u sure u're not the guy in the story

Akeem79:

Zaramdgreat:

i met him Friday, stay with him till Sunday mrn when he chked out

flyca:

Chai! Buhari whyyyyyy
Na so e dey start

Akeem79:

njiasi30:
Abeg I no fit laugh, d comments re funny. Op, said no bashing

flyca:

Me and my dad. There is really no justification for your hate and insult. But indulge yourself. Cheers!

Zaramdgreat:
Hello everyone, this is my first thread here...i need an insight on a very serious issue.....I met this guy where i work, he actually came to buy something but i think i fell inlove with him at first sight but never tried to make it obvious, he appeared to b a very nice person as the rest of my colleagues liked him too. He bought what he needed and left...i felt bad bcs i thought i might never see him again but luckily he came back this Friday again and my heart almost jumped out of my chest immediately i saw him..we greeted and i couldnt hlp bt ask for his whatsapp number which he gladly gave me an int'l number #Brazilian number# nd told me hw he had always wntd to ask for it bt ws scared of rejection bcs i appeared to b too serious with my work and nvr noticed hw he acted towards me. We laughed it off and i closed frm work that day by 3pm, been chattin wit hm b4 closin hour though nd he askd me to hang out with him the nxt day. I accptd bt later hangout with him same day bcs i was bored nd couldnt wait to see his face again. I realised he ws a traveller based in brazil as he told me evrything abt him with pictures in his phone...he evn told me abt his white gf whom he did contract marriage with nd all that. To cut the long story short, we started kissing at d bar, frm there to his hotel room. Had sex and i stayed with him till nxt day when he chkd out back to brazil....He assured me that he liked me alot that i shouldn't worry about anything...bt right nw i am so worried bcs i might nvr see him again even though we chat on phone and please guys, do u think he would take me seriously as i had sex with him on first date#mind u, he initiated and begged for d sex o# i know i am not a wayward girl but shits happens! No insults pls o, just tell me what u think would be the outcome of us!!

Akeem79:

Kid...
At long last ...
Cheers

flyca:

You wanted to "comb" me, an e-fight because I'm a happy girl, living a happy life. Loooool. You failed! And as many times as you bring it up, you will continue to fail. I am a prof in dealing with your type, ain't scared of sh*t

So stop making yourself a phuuuuuul. Big one!

nma24:
Why Sex someone that you are not even sure of?