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Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 7:45pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
JuanDeDios: OMG! I can't stop laughing! |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by KCDamsel(f): 7:51pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Go for d guy who is taking care of u,d oda dependent boy will disappoint u probably wen he finally travels out... 1 Like |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by kaboninc(m): 7:52pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Harinholar: Lol. Tell her more about us. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by kaboninc(m): 7:54pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
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Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by beautiful232(f): 7:54pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
No be only mama's boy Which guy will you meet today and he ask if your working and you say No and the next day the guy call you back? the guy will run,cause no one wants a lazy guy/or babe You might even be good to him now and after he makes out of the country he won't even remember your first name talk more of your number be wise woman!!! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by PAULOLUAKATTEY: 7:57pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
My dear sometimes God's will is bitter. It is only God who knows the end from the beginning, the Bible says in Acts 15:18 Known unto God are all his works from the beginning of the world. Looks are deceptive in some cases, immediate conditions may not also be a determining factor, in order not be angry with yourself tomorrow, I will advise; you take some days to seek God's face in a serious prayer and fasting (but you must not have any of them in mind otherwise you'll not have a true revelation), some of your prayer points are; 1 Any of this guys that is not for me, i don't want to see him around me again, 2. I want a marriage I will enjoy and not endure and 3. i want a man that will draw me closer to God and help me to grow in Christ. Bear in mind; if you sincerely cry to God, the real person will surface and you must accept him, even if he's a different person entirely. God bless you 1 Like |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Richy4(m): 8:05pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
I kinda feel sorry for u OP... this guy will just leave u immediately he step out of the shore of Nigeria and look for the next meal ticket.... U think he will just go abroad and land on a job immediately? if he does not have a letter of employment shown to you before travelling then u will still have to wait for another year for him to make out proceeds to send home. and the way u painted it, it does not sound to me like someone that can take any job before the right one comes.. Please do not love blindly because of colour of the skin... do not think u were the envy for your friends because u are dating half this half that.. it is just nothing... he made u a meal ticket for a year and it is so sad...Assuming he wasn't coloured, i believe u would have put your foot down and insisted that he find a job pending the time he travelled. ..I don't know what to say but this is so sad... 1 Like |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 8:11pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
catlova2:lol. Okay |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 8:13pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Homguy:lmao. Who knows that one.I'm 19. A student of Lagos state uni and a model. |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by babatee126(m): 8:15pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
I hate it, when girls double date |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by ben1daEbiri(m): 8:17pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Homguy:You wouldn't expect her to admit,would you? |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 8:17pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
numericalguy:he's not applying for his dad's country. I'm not dating d 2nd guy yet, he's only been trying to win my heart and has asked me to be his gf. I've not given him a YES though, but he appreciates me a lot. |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 8:20pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
DateMynd44:he's applying for a Visa in USA, his elder sis is also there. His dad is from Australia. I know the dad well |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by banmee(m): 8:22pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
gudbadgyal: Stay with the guy you yourself has admitted "isn't willing to work". And since he's "idle", he is going to be a millionaire one day. To many Nairalanders have below par IQ. |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 8:24pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
ben1daEbiri:there are better ways to get my attention than cooking up lies |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by johnsonsegxy: 8:25pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Richy4: You only feel sorry for lies from the Op. This same topic has been discussed on Radio and forum. What people do to gain one minute fame and likes online especially Nairaland baffles me. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Eliteklaus(m): 8:27pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
wot abt love aunty? |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by mannyiyke: 8:29pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
nma24:Even if u pple shout from now Jesus comes, she's not ready to dump him, cos d guy is handsome and has a white man's father. In her heart of hearts, she knows d proper and wise thing to do but she doesn't want to do it. She will 'definitely' not adhere to any wise counsel offered. She's still being enticed by d allure of beauty and a fool's paradise called a white man's country d guy will travel to after deceiving, banging of her ...... (make i know mention name) and eventual dumping. A lazy man (not just an idle mind) is a devil's workshop. In fact, contextually, a lazy man is an idle mind. |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by JoyChinwe22(f): 8:39pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
dayosweetness:...BECUASE PORN IS NOT HARMLESS (Your Love life and Pornography) Pornography is the portrayal of sexually explicit contents on pictures, magazines, videos and so on for the sole purpose of arousing anyone who views them. Pornography is also called porn. Several years back however, porn was not really accessible to everyone in the form which they are these day. Back then, you had only play boy magazines with pictures of scantily clad models. Things started to get bolder by the day and got even worse with the advent of the internet. In as much as porn is said to have helped couples build and continuously revive their sex life, it also has a few negative effects on one's love life which cannot be over emphasized. Such effects include: Porn gives room for unrealistic expectations: Constant viewing of pornography makes you crave to have sex in ways which ordinarily you would find repulsive. You always want to do something different and insanely wild. I'm totally not against spicing things up in the bedroom; but when you want to do that because you have programmed your brain to believe that, 'the weirder, the sexier', then something is seriously wrong. Porn never satisfies: Porn instils lust and lust is never satisfied. The amazing thing is, lust doesn't crave for more, it craves for something 'different'. This is the reason why someone will have a very wonderful partner and still cheat on them; not because their partner is not attractive. The other person in question may not even be as attractive as their partner, but they just needed something different. To see more, visit http://lovelifelaughs.com/157/because-porn-is-not-harmless-your-love-life-and-pornography |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by oldfoolnigger(m): 8:41pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Nice dp. Back to the topic,follow the latter cus he knows what relationship is all about unlike the former that sponge on others for his needs(mama's boy) |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by otunbashonny(m): 8:47pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
gudbadgyal: if you love two things go for the second one because if you truly love the first one there will be no second one. |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Ola5TP: 8:48pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Op, please follow who loves you among them, never mind the expenses now because the person you love and didn't truly love you will definitely used you and later break your heart. Study both of them and find out who truly loves you among them, and please endure with whoever it may be till things are OK. And please don't double date, love your man with one mind and always pray for him and your relationship. Good luck sister. |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Jok3r(m): 8:51pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
gudbadgyal: folo ur hrt not ur head... bt use ur head while u folo ur hrt.... u dont build a bridge in 3days |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by val4sure(m): 8:53pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Your boyfriend is a lazy ass motherfucker who doesn't know anything apart from sex,cos I can't phantom the reason why you are with an un ambitious guy rather than the good sex he offers,so if his visa didn't work out,he will still be forming mummy's boy and you will be paying for his boxers and other items. What makes you think he won't be a lazy ass over there in America because the zeal to make money is not in him,anyway,follow your heart jare. Always love with your heart but don't leave your brain behind. Visit www.datingcomrade.com for your dating tips and counselling. |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by tonio2wo: 9:01pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Laburus: |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by numericalguy(m): 9:17pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
gudbadgyal: It still doesnt matter. This is because most white countries dont need visas to travel to other white countries. Germany, Britiain USA, Canada, Austria, etc hardly need visas to travel to most white countries and even non-white countries in the world. This your story get k-leg abeg. You are not dating the second guy but he is doing stuffs for you and you are collecting them. Hmm... Na wa for you sha. You have turned the second guy into your own personal maga. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by KELVINXY: 9:28pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Op which sort of bills have u been footing for him? I can sense emotional and sentimental blindness in ur post Ps: work with him towards being a better man most times great men were pushed into greatness by their woman. so work for the future and not for feelings. choose wisely |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by chigaemezuogu: 9:37pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Nairalanders are not God who knows the end before its begining go to God in prayer |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by BabaOyeeh: 9:38pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
[color=#000099][/color] gudbadgyal:You really sound confused as you put it. With all the laidback qualities you mentioned about this your mixed race sweetheart, somehow you have still clunged unto him. Even by merely mentioning you have bn picking the bills, Are you sure it isn't you seeking something more? If all these complaints aren't aired in to his face then you better examine yourself honestly. He may just be being himself - mummy's boy as you pointed out - while you as the clever party might be the one anticipating a hidden gain. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by blesoh(f): 10:01pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Just boyfriend you pay his bills when una marry nkor, babe forget the lazy bone, I see no future there. In this recession you pay his bills? Some guys get luck sha. |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by DateMynd44(m): 10:05pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
gudbadgyal:your profile pics doesn't look 19. You look like a lady in her late twenties and early thirties |
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Electroweb(m): 10:10pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
I smell lies in the story. 1 Like |
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