vic155:




Just come to the North there are many relationship without sex. I'm 29 year and I had like 3 active relationship and non of them I ever had sex with, it's very common here particularly with regard to religion point of view. My Christian friend who is working with us testify that, he was amased I ask him he said is not so common in his place but is very very common here. You can see a university graduate THAT CAN TELL U NO MAN HAS EVER HUG HER NOT TO TALK OF KISS OR EVEN SEX THERE A LOTS OF THEM HERE IN THE NORTH

Please where in the north? I am asking because it's different ball game where I am in the north.

It is easy for a lady and a guy that are still virgins to stay years dating themselves without sex,
but if anyone of them has been activated, then it might not be easy for them to do without it.

Some ladies due to the experience they have had, they are highly active sexually, any guy coming across such babe must be ready to Bleep everyday. Reverse is the case for a guy too

Mind you never say never, if only your eyes can be open, there are several relationships that are without sex.
Some made it to the alter while some didn't.

jidxin:
quick answr NOPE

OK, so fact one, No sex does not guarantee marriage, agree?

I am in a no sex relationship with one, and I am in a sexual relationship with another... And in all sincerity I will marry the latter

jerry447:
I am presently in a relationship without sex for five years, though it is not easy.... I only dnt allow my erection to dertermine my direction, cos i know the end result is ''destruction''

you have been dicked bro

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

there are guys that don't ask for sex or make it a top priority

Waoooo, i am dating a girl since 2009 without sex, because i knew i need her to be my wife, although there is alot of temptation, but i always conclude why do i have to rush since i want to marry her, precise my religion preaches against sex b4 mariage.

I have been into two relationships without sex.

The first one lasted for two years and the second one lasted for 5 years.
I dated the second one when I was an undergraduate, I tried my very best to avoid staying indoor with him throughout the five years. I was staying in the school hostel throughout my undergraduate days so that helped me to achieve that goal and I have only been to his house once.
All our meetings are always in an open environment. I diverted my energy and sexual strength to my academics 24/7. I dnt demand for money or anything fron him.

I have always avoided keeping male friends as an indoor guest.

My physical appearance will never tell you the type of person that I am. I put on trousers, Attachment and other things. I am not a novice to any topic because I have read alot onlin

It is not for spiritual or whatever reasons but just my personal decision.

My first sex must definitely be on my wedding night.
I cannt bear the pains of abortion and sexual feelings with another man that I am not legally married to.

franzis:
I am in a no sex relationship with one, and I am in a sexual relationship with another... And in all sincerity I will marry the latter

Then someone must be bleeping the latter for you too. Law of Karma

Jarizod:




especially some of those choristers..some of dem just join to dey showcase and advertise them loads

Na those ones be queens na.... Sistercord and brothercord

MaziOmenuko:
What do you do in a relatnship without sex? Play ludo, hold hands, state at each other's eyes?




You are not in a relatnship, she's just your friend.

our wedding is in 3mnth time

Ishilove:

And you got your figures from...?

pulled it out my ass lolzzz


but ermmm i got it from being in tune with the human condition and spirit. google also helps lol

ireneony:
from my research due to my environment i think 2% is fair enough.

Oya add me to d 2%

JeffreyJames:



Na this talk dey annoy me lol

The fact he's not having sex with her doesn't mean she's getting it somewhere else... Not every girl is a slut biko.

pls loud it

xtervaganza:
you have been dicked bro

No bro, our wedding is in 3mnth time, u are invited

By God's grace, I am in a sex-less relationship..and we're seriously preparing 4 our wedding. The relationship started 10 months ago, and we do have the times where the hormones are off the charts, but love and discipline are conscious decisions... we do not want to tarnish our testimony, and guess what.... I have promised to kiss her on our wedding day... we're 2 months 4rm the Deal day... this we do;we are heavily scripture laden, we are committed to working in the Lord's vineyard, we have secular jobs(medical and engineering) that takes off the pressure, we have a day of joint prayer/fast weekly 4 ur future and we have a support team in marriage counselling, and we love each other like ying-yang.... cheers y'all

Right is right even if nobody is doing it & wrong is wrong even if everybody is doing it
God commands we stay off sex until marriage. According to the scriptures, Marriage is honourable & the bed undefiled.
Let me accept that it isnt an easy task but it is achievable when we bear in mind God's commandment.
When a lady chooses to stay off sex before marriage, it is a guarantee that she will have a good marriage or marry the best man, she chooses because she fears God. God. If that is all to it, then it worths it!
Don't let the world teach is otherwise, stay off s3x before marriage, it is God's commandment!

Luckygurl:
How long have you guys been together??

A year

SC31:
pls loud it

It's loud enough!

Nice thread, but believe me sex or no sex does not guarantee happiness in a relationship.... Av been in a relationship that involved sex, and she's istill d love of my life, and av also dated some girls dat insist no sex, but just to find out sex is not their problem, they just don't know aw to make a guy fall in love.. trust me, it ain't sex!! A guy dat needs sex can get it anywhere.... you can't buy a guys loyalty with sex... Girls, pls work on yourself...

I don't have a problem with it but what if the other person is cheating quietly......there will always be temptation but only 0.5% can actually stay till they re married.

Ini9:
Na dis kind topic na dey annoy me so

As in eh, so annoying, okay what's now special in a no sex relationship?? I just don't get it

Yes currently am into a relationship without sex n it 2years now n we hve b living peacefully no issue n I think its heading 2 marriage after our studies.

JeffreyJames:

Na those ones be queens na.... Sistercord and brothercord

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

I'm currently in one, tho it's crushing down gradually but i don't want to loose her cos she's outpouring, (as in she's always willing to spend) but d problem I'm having here is that she's a kind of girl who is religious freak, as in she no dey wear hear ring, she no dey do attachments (she's always on either hair plaited with wool or rubber) she no dey wear jean, she no dey make up (tho she's obviously beautiful naturally) plus no sex issue till weeding night, and i as a person, one special feature i do notice first and admires on ladies is their hair, when you have a nice hairdo (especially that one called twisting) oh my goodness! just to fall in love, that follows. no sex isn't my problem with ladies ooo but their strong disapproval on makeups is the case.

Have done it before and am still doing it now.
I dated this girl when I was in skl, we had 3yrs relationship without sex, yes 3yrs, you don't need to believe but that's the truth...I can still remember that we sleep together for 2months in same room, when the school was on strike but yet nothing happened, thou the temptation came but we always manage to wave it. After we broke up I didn't regret it although my friend didn't believe that I didn't touch her and does who believe were bashing me like I Bleep up big time. But to me its a joy. I don't know why, but am always happy that things like that didn't happened between us. BUT during all those time, I av extra girls I do shine and she doesn't knw, the ones that she wanted to knw I tried to convince her and even call the girl she is suspecting to talk to her that there is nothing going on between us which always worked cos most of those girl I shine are friends with benefit and the knw too.mind you the reason I was aving extra girls is not that my girl friend is not servicing me but its wat I want to do cos even if we are aving sex I will still shine other girls pussy

And my current relationship too, its going to 3yrs now, and there is nothing like sex. Even kissing is so scarce in this relationship but am not complaining cos I still love it that way. Cos I noticed that it made the relationship stronger, geniue and respectable. BUT yet I dey shine some extra congo...may the lord deliver me cos I wanna change.

But bottom line my sister, relationship without sex is possible and I tell u their are some guys who are ready for it,that won't even av extra affairs like me cos I av a guy at skl dat tym too he was into no sex relationship and he doesn't av extra girl like me. So keep ur faith and don't believe all those nairaland guys who always say I can't do such the truth is that most of them are into that kind of relationship just that they av extra girls.
So believe it, if u are looking for sexless relationship you will defiantly get it if u don't quit.
Best of luck.

jerry447:
No bro, our wedding is in 3mnth time, u are invited

my ancestors forbid!




Good luck anulyway

JeffreyJames:





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Relationship is not just about Sex.

If you know a christian girl that can keep such,please don't hesitate to contact me.thanks.

franzis:
I am in a no sex relationship with one, and I am in a sexual relationship with another... And in all sincerity I will marry the latter

why are you wasting the former's time..
this is not fair.
if you no longer want her..i suggest you end it with her before causing more harm in the future.

let me sit down and learn, am also in a Platonic relationship

spice123:
I'm sorry for you bro. I can only smell an unfaithful dude even when you're married since 'YOU CANNOT RESIST IT' and'YOU PUT YOURSELF IN THE SPOT LIGHT'

I know I can never be unfaithful after marriage.