joseph1832:
Alright, how much?

TheArchangel:

A job at CBN clinics or its equivalent will do. Thanks

joseph1832:
www.npower.gov.ng will solve your problem.

freecocoa:
Call me crazy but I'm thinking the babe shouldn't even marry you if something like this is reason enough to tell her to find someone else, where is the love then? Mschew.

EngrWanted:


It came to a point it was obvious her mother was the one instigating the whole melodrama. The woman even threatened to deal with me if I don't leave her daughter. The father call me on the phone one day and told me to forget her daughter and move on since her wife has started threatening. He sympathize with me and told me in confidence his wife is the problem.

The girl still want me, the father said he's not the one that'll get married to his daughter and that whoever she brought home he'll give his blessing but the mom had been the manipulator.

What do you think?

TheArchangel:
Nay. Ain't seeing any CBN or NNPC or any of them juicy companies there. So do me a favour and fix me somewhere damn it

EngrWanted:


It came to a point it was obvious her mother was the one instigating the whole melodrama. The woman even threatened to deal with me if I don't leave her daughter. The father call me on the phone one day and told me to forget her daughter and move on since her wife has started threatening. He sympathize with me and told me in confidence his wife is the problem.

The girl still want me, the father said he's not the one that'll get married to his daughter and that whoever she brought home he'll give his blessing but the mom had been the manipulator.

What do you think?

joseph1832:
Oh i'd have loved to fix you with a well labelled juicy mouth watering dick, but you won't survive the experience, so please, look for someone else to fix you somewhere, damnit!.

freecocoa:
Call me crazy but I'm thinking the babe shouldn't even marry you if something like this is reason enough to tell her to find someone else, where is the love then? Mschew.

TheArchangel:
I am too refine for this type of talk.
So long.

crackhaus:

Fvck is all this?

So you mean no one here was going to call out this beautifully crafted load of cow shiit garnished as an opinion..

There's no issue when a FIL gives conditions to his prospective son-in-law right in the presence of everyone, and some mingers went ahead and liked this?

Nonsense!!

If this was a woman here stating how her prospective mother-in-law was giving her conditions of what to do and what not to do, you would certainly have gone full re.tard as usual.

joseph1832:
Like you're too refined when you were disvirgined, right?

TheArchangel:
OK, I am out

favoured234:
I grew up in a catholic home and presently not attending the catholic church but I am going back to catholic church to get married... My explanation for this is that I knew from the onset that there is no negotiation on this and "honor your father and mother". After the wedding I am going to Winners for my thanksgiving.
You don't intend beating the wife do you?

The American dream....
This should be the only one to bother you. Ask yourself some sincere questions cos this is more of her fight than yours
1. How strong is your lady
2. Can she stand up to her parents.
3. Has she been taking decisions of her own

IMO, if she choose to go to America then I suspect that is the end of the relationship. They wont allow you get married now. Then when she goes they will make her get to meet their America desire..

EngrWanted:


It came to a point it was obvious her mother was the one instigating the whole melodrama. The woman even threatened to deal with me if I don't leave her daughter. The father call me on the phone one day and told me to forget her daughter and move on since her wife has started threatening. He sympathize with me and told me in confidence his wife is the problem.

The girl still want me, the father said he's not the one that'll get married to his daughter and that whoever she brought home he'll give his blessing but the mom had been the manipulator.

What do you think?

thorpido:
There's no issue here oga.
You knew she's a catholic from the beginning.Catholics prefer to wed in their churches and you need to go through the marriage requiremens too in the church.You should have been prepared for that.
I don't see any issue with an uncle sponsoring your fiance's education after marriage as long as he's not a sugar daddy.
The issue of not laying your hands on her should not even be a point.

Go ahead as long as you are sure of your fiancee's love and commitment.

joseph1832:
No Sane man should allow another man foot the bill of his woman.

Knowing that the lady's brother is in the U.s and he's recommending another man who lives in the U.S for her to marry is a no no.

Seven sacrament? Now that sounds very cultish, don't you think so?

At the emboldened, any man or woman who believes his or her partner must sacrifice what he or she can't sacrifice is somebody anybody who knows what he or she is doing shouldn't even consider getting married to.

achieverme:


Boy, you are not a catholic. Stop talking about things you Dont know a thing about. You may be cursing yourself in the process, while yuou think you are making sense.

joseph1832:
Oh please do shut up! dipsomaniacs like you never seem to understand anything that isn't based on your dogmatic catholic doctrine.

EngrWanted:


It came to a point it was obvious her mother was the one instigating the whole melodrama. The woman even threatened to deal with me if I don't leave her daughter. The father call me on the phone one day and told me to forget her daughter and move on since her wife has started threatening. He sympathize with me and told me in confidence his wife is the problem.

The girl still want me, the father said he's not the one that'll get married to his daughter and that whoever she brought home he'll give his blessing but the mom had been the manipulator.

What do you think?

achieverme:

Boy, you are not a catholic. Stop talking about things you Dont know a thing about. You may be cursing yourself in the process, while yuou think you are making sense.

freecocoa:
Call me crazy but I'm thinking the babe shouldn't even marry you if something like this is reason enough to tell her to find someone else, where is the love then? Mschew.

Creamish:
When u marry a lady who's close to her parents, U also marry the inlaws. Pray over it. If your mind tells u to stay, stay.. If the doubt persists, pls find someone else.

Don't mind dat nigga. Ignore him.

Jo seph1832.. keep kwayet!

joseph1832:
Well Same thing applies to a woman who marries a man who is close to his parents, don't you think so?

joseph1832:

LOL. Catholicism have never held sway for me. That's why I damn well make sure I don't get myself entwined with people who profess something they themselves can't follow or adhere to.

Creamish:


Yup. It is not gender discriminatory.

Na u sabi. Just keep ur opinion about the catholic church to urself doh..