Can a relationship or marriage go back exactly to how it was after one partner cheats? U could give reasons.

LadyB1195:
Can a relationship or marriage go back exactly to how it was after one partner cheats? U could give reasons.

Every relationship is a constantly changing enterprise, and this constant change, is heavily influenced by both internal and external factors that exist around the lives of those involved in the such relationships. The factors that lead to this change are always present, and constantly altering the nature of such relationship, and as such, the relationship never reverts to it's previous form.

These factors are numerous, and they vary in degree, from the most obvious forms, such a cheating, like you rightly mentioned, to the most seemingly insignificant and hardly noticeable ones, like a change in deodorant, or a sentence uttered by one of the partners, or a notion gotten from a romantic movie.

But to address your question like you would have me, NO, a relationship cannot go back to exactly how it was if one partner cheats.
Cheating arouses different negative emotions in the victimized partner, that invariably distorts the individual's perception of the other partner, and also alters the individual's psychological and emotional response to certain activities that concern their relationship.

Aha!See qweshon oh .

it can NEVER go back, Trust is gone and it's really hard to get it back.

It cant though both may chose to forget and not mention it again if they still love and can trust each other

Never.

Only if she shows sign of repentance nd sincerely sorry.

yes, it can. Even much more stronger.

It will never be the same. Once you are caught, forget am oooooo. Players make una play well oooo, make dem for no catch una. players heart no dey ever dey at rest. You are relaxed if you are not doing shady business .

Xensity:


Every relationship is a constantly changing enterprise, and this constant change, is heavily influenced by both internal and external factors that exist around the lives of those involved in the such relationships. The factors that lead to this change are always present, and constantly altering the nature of such relationship, and as such, the relationship never reverts to it's previous form.

These factors are numerous, and they vary in degree, from the most obvious forms, such a cheating, like you rightly mentioned, to the most seemingly insignificant and hardly noticeable ones, like a change in deodorant, or a sentence uttered by one of the partners, or a notion gotten from a romantic movie.

But to address your question like you would have me, NO, a relationship cannot go back to exactly how it was if one partner cheats.
Cheating arouses different negative emotions in the victimized partner, that invariably distorts the individual's perception of the other partner, and also alters the individual's psychological and emotional response to certain activities that concern their relationship.

There you have your answer op. He has said it all.

Xensity:


Every relationship is a constantly changing enterprise, and this constant change, is heavily influenced by both internal and external factors that exist around the lives of those involved in the such relationships. The factors that lead to this change are always present, and constantly altering the nature of such relationship, and as such, the relationship never reverts to it's previous form.

These factors are numerous, and they vary in degree, from the most obvious forms, such a cheating, like you rightly mentioned, to the most seemingly insignificant and hardly noticeable ones, like a change in deodorant, or a sentence uttered by one of the partners, or a notion gotten from a romantic movie.

But to address your question like you would have me, NO, a relationship cannot go back to exactly how it was if one partner cheats.
Cheating arouses different negative emotions in the victimized partner, that invariably distorts the individual's perception of the other partner, and also alters the individual's psychological and emotional response to certain activities that concern their relationship.

Seems like you are a PhD holder in relationships

zeezeegal:
yes, it can. Even much more stronger.

What makes you say so?

experience

Xensity:


Every relationship is a constantly changing enterprise, and this constant change, is heavily influenced by both internal and external factors that exist around the lives of those involved in the such relationships. The factors that lead to this change are always present, and constantly altering the nature of such relationship, and as such, the relationship never reverts to it's previous form.

These factors are numerous, and they vary in degree, from the most obvious forms, such a cheating, like you rightly mentioned, to the most seemingly insignificant and hardly noticeable ones, like a change in deodorant, or a sentence uttered by one of the partners, or a notion gotten from a romantic movie.

But to address your question like you would have me, NO, a relationship cannot go back to exactly how it was if one partner cheats.
Cheating arouses different negative emotions in the victimized partner, that invariably distorts the individual's perception of the other partner, and also alters the individual's psychological and emotional response to certain activities that concern their relationship.

Wow!!!