makydebbie:
aww this is a touching super story

YUNGLURD:
mind tellin me dis dude is a scam....at d mention of abroad, some nairaland gals re gonna send pm

Ray360:
hmm. most guys and girls here will label you a fraudster and a philanderer
The qualities you listed are too smooth to still be single. It's also weird to see a man who has toured the shores of many countries and still haven't found a virtuous lady to call his. Good luck in your quest.

Sacluxpaint:


[/b]It's a pity that your thinking is like this,[/b] I am a very average Joe that was just lucky to enjoy a few things. What will you say about Genevieve and Linda ikeji?

chichi820:
Real or scam I am interested if u can take care of me as husband contact me though am in Abuja not lagos

YUNGLURD:
mind tellin me dis dude is a scam....at d mention of abroad, some nairaland gals re gonna send pm

True talk

He is just looking for girls to play around with and they will surely fall mugu

On the other hand,if the OP is real,I think his expectations in women(a woman is high).
You need to cut them some slacks coz nobody is perfect and no man married the perfect woman.

Sacluxpaint:



Tried the Lagos Abuja thing, not for me.

Sacluxpaint:
Well I don't care if you guys call it scam, that's your problem. Believe it or not. There are many people out there that are in the same shoes with me. My standards are not high at all. The only problem is finding honest and real people. My circle is very small, I am selective about the people I meet. It is not everyone I will end up with. I have had air hostesses and models that have won pageants as girlfriends, but they didn't tick it for me. If you are in the neighborhood I live, you won't have this 'it's a scam mindset '. Peace!

Sacluxpaint:
Well I don't care if you guys call it scam, that's your problem. Believe it or not. There are many people out there that are in the same shoes with me. My standards are not high at all. The only problem is finding honest and real people. My circle is very small, I am selective about the people I meet. It is not everyone I will end up with. I have had air hostesses and models that have won pageants as girlfriends, but they didn't tick it for me. If you are in the neighborhood I live, you won't have this 'it's a scam mindset '. Peace!

firstking01:
This is why upon all you have achieved and acquired in life, when it comes to looking for a life partner you really need the help of God...may God help us all.

Sacluxpaint:
First of all, I don't care if this gets to Frontpage or not, I am just going to write what I feel.

Of recent, I read the post of travails of marrying late, even though it was plagiarized, that didn't stop me from keying into the message.

I am in the 30s club, even though early, but I am really having difficulty keeping a serious relationship that will lead to the altar. My older brothers are married, I am next in line, not that I am going for high standards but I just need someone that will see the real side of me. There is no advice you would give me on women I probably wouldn't have heard before although willing to learn more , because I have had flings and girlfriends from all races, African, American, British and Asian as well. Most of this happened while I lived abroad. (and no I don't have kids, I was brought up right)

Now back to naija,it has been very difficult for me to find a serious gf. Most of the time I find myself ALONE going to the cinemas, I find myself ALONE going to bars and clubs. I have tried meeting online and offline, hasn't worked. I am 6'2, Broad shoulders, light skinned in complexion, with dimples and lips. I have a decent paying job as well as hunting other businesses (Buhari dey show us pepper sha)that can make me plan my future but yet no luck. Sometimes we guys can feel tough like players and all, but inside every one of us, we want to start a family. I have goals in life, so can't be womanizing at this point in my life. Of recent I had a gf that I thought could lead to something but her true colours showed when I stopped sending alert. I was at a singles and marriage conference last night in lekki, I saw a pretty lady I liked, she seized my liver,at the end of the day she shut down my confidence, the conference thing was a facade though. Sorry for the long epistle but I am just pouring out my feelings. I am not in a rush, but I need someone to start this journey with me. Thanks

Cc:lalasticlala

Sacluxpaint:


Yeah, if only there are God fearing women around.

loveslife:


Interested in your siggy. Leggo!

Op use style dey advertise e be like say this your marketing strategy go make sense o

Sacluxpaint:
First of all, I don't care if this gets to Frontpage or not, I am just going to write what I feel.

Of recent, I read the post of travails of marrying late, even though it was plagiarized, that didn't stop me from keying into the message.

I am in the 30s club, even though early, but I am really having difficulty keeping a serious relationship that will lead to the altar. My older brothers are married, I am next in line, not that I am going for high standards but I just need someone that will see the real side of me. There is no advice you would give me on women I probably wouldn't have heard before although willing to learn more , because I have had flings and girlfriends from all races, African, American, British and Asian as well. Most of this happened while I lived abroad. (and no I don't have kids, I was brought up right)

Now back to naija,it has been very difficult for me to find a serious gf. Most of the time I find myself ALONE going to the cinemas, I find myself ALONE going to bars and clubs. I have tried meeting online and offline, hasn't worked. I am 6'2, Broad shoulders, light skinned in complexion, with dimples and lips. I have a decent paying job as well as hunting other businesses (Buhari dey show us pepper sha)that can make me plan my future but yet no luck. Sometimes we guys can feel tough like players and all, but inside every one of us, we want to start a family. I have goals in life, so can't be womanizing at this point in my life. Of recent I had a gf that I thought could lead to something but her true colours showed when I stopped sending alert. I was at a singles and marriage conference last night in lekki, I saw a pretty lady I liked, she seized my liver,at the end of the day she shut down my confidence, the conference thing was a facade though. Sorry for the long epistle but I am just pouring out my feelings. I am not in a rush, but I need someone to start this journey with me. Thanks

Cc:lalasticlala

God will provide you, your heart desire in due time just have faith and belive

Op but wait ooooi Hope it's not ur sin hurting back just saying

queencalipso:


When you had the time to notice the virtuous ones, you were probably too busy changing them like you life depended on it. You fail to notice their qualities bcz you were just after one thing. Now you are ready and they are no where to be found

I hope you are God fearing nice and virtuous your self Cz these qualities are not immune to men, it goes both ways.

CindyeMerAld:
i wanted 2 believe your for real....until i saw ur name

Sacluxpaint:

U expect me to put my full name on a faceless forum? Abeg o!

Sacluxpaint:
First of all, I don't care if this gets to Frontpage or not, I am just going to write what I feel.

Of recent, I read the post of travails of marrying late, even though it was plagiarized, that didn't stop me from keying into the message.

I am in the 30s club, even though early, but I am really having difficulty keeping a serious relationship that will lead to the altar. My older brothers are married, I am next in line, not that I am going for high standards but I just need someone that will see the real side of me. There is no advice you would give me on women I probably wouldn't have heard before although willing to learn more , because I have had flings and girlfriends from all races, African, American, British and Asian as well. Most of this happened while I lived abroad. (and no I don't have kids, I was brought up right)

Now back to naija,it has been very difficult for me to find a serious gf. Most of the time I find myself ALONE going to the cinemas, I find myself ALONE going to bars and clubs. I have tried meeting online and offline, hasn't worked. I am 6'2, Broad shoulders, light skinned in complexion, with dimples and lips. I have a decent paying job as well as hunting other businesses (Buhari dey show us pepper sha)that can make me plan my future but yet no luck. Sometimes we guys can feel tough like players and all, but inside every one of us, we want to start a family. I have goals in life, so can't be womanizing at this point in my life. Of recent I had a gf that I thought could lead to something but her true colours showed when I stopped sending alert. I was at a singles and marriage conference last night in lekki, I saw a pretty lady I liked, she seized my liver,at the end of the day she shut down my confidence, the conference thing was a facade though. Sorry for the long epistle but I am just pouring out my feelings. I am not in a rush, but I need someone to start this journey with me. Thanks.

Cc:lalasticlala