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Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Cutehector(m): 9:20pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:there is absolutely nothing like cheating in a relationship..... The only word that is valid is adultery. God will not punish me for cheating on you when we aren't married. He will punish me for committing the sin of fornication! Don't u get it? But when thunder will fire me is when after gettn married to a woman and making a vow till death do us part and I go against dat vow to cheat, only den will cheating be valid. Look if she wants to break off she should break off.. that's the correct language. Infact to the girl in question, cheating in a relationship is not a sin! Take to the ends of the earth.. I said so. |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:if you had given this advice to her won't it have been better but instead you gave her a yeye advice |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 9:24pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
stephenmorris: nah I don't |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 9:28pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Cutehector: you just haven't met a girl who's not worth cheating on cheating in any form of relationship, be it just dating or marriage is bad |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 9:29pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
stephenmorris: please, just point out the "Yeye Advice" if you can't please just go |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:Hahaha. I call this baby love. I don't see the two love birds being strong together. The chick in context should simply forget about him. Being there before, so I know how it feels like. Women love guys who don't really give them so much attention. The dude is obviously dating someone else, while the lady in Nigeria seems to be so deeply in love with him, simply because she expects something fantastic in return when he returns home. It's really kind of funny and bizarre. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by talk2bells: 9:36pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
DeeTus: waitin on someone for four years isn't baby love |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
If I were in her shoes, I would have cheated long time ago ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Cutehector(m): 9:48pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:it's not about meeting a girl who isn't worth cheating on... I've already learnt how to inculcate self control. I'm not doing it for anybody. If I promise Miss A dat I won't cheat on her and I don't have self control den it's worthless. If she like make she be the best girlfrnd on earth. Look.. its still simple logic. Train up urself in a manner u Wana grow up and u won't depart from it. So Bella, we tend to cage ourselves with a lot of rules it brings heartbreak. I can't promise a girl I'm in a relationship dat I won't have sex since i'm far away from her. It's between me and my God. Whatever I do here is non of her business. Whatever she does out there is non of my business as well. If she wants to abstain from sex, fine and good, it's to her own advantage, not because of me. If I want to abstain from sex, it's to my own advantage, not because i'm doing it for her. look, it's high time we set records straight. We humans have put a lot of constraints on ourselves we just choke on it and it causes us emotional trauma which may lead to depression and then, sudden death. Look, i'm not the one in charge of her happiness, likewise her. she wants to be happy? Let her do whatever she wants to do, it's her body, not mine, it's my body too, not hers. I've not paid her bride price, I can't dictate to her how she has to live her life. Why get jealous because she hugged someone else other Dan me, why get furious because she told me she had sex with someone else? Is it my body? If she happens to become pregnant in the long run, den she did that to herself, not me. I won't get bothered one inch abt it. I"d only be freaked out like I said if there is an exchange of vows in front of the altar and the congregation that she belongs to me and I belong to her, anything outside that, bia, O.Y.O is the case |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:56pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Cutehector: I totally understand your point tho it sounds plausible I just feel there's more to a relationship than this, we do these things because with love comes commitment and responsibilities. I can't change your stance on this since its already been inculcated into your whole system but the thing with habits are they are very hard to break away from You doing it now you're definitely going to do it when you get married |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Talk2Bella(f): 9:57pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: I am just one of those few people who would wait Waited on someone for 2 years |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:Absolutely! The drawback here is that some guys think they know it all yet; they still make a lot of funny mistakes. My best friend lately started avoiding me, he got me thinking. I was like, have I done something wrong to this guy? Not knowing that he was seriously in a mess. He pregnanted a chick and this girl refused to do an abortion. To cut the story short, he later came to my house and asked me to please talk to the girl. We arranged a time and meet up with the girl, within five minutes of talking to this girl, she agreed for an abortion. She said I sounded so cool and honest. But what my friend did hurt me the most. He broke up with the girl few days after this abortion. |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:00pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
DeeTus: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:I just can't do it, anything more than 6 months is a no no for me. Especially when your a female for crying out loud, with all those hormones rushing at once. I'm human, I have needs, and when those needs aren't met on time, sorry I gats to find it else where ![]() |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:What's wrong? ![]() |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Cutehector(m): 10:08pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:I don't have a habit. I've got standards. When it comes to a certain phase, any habit dat doesn't suit that phase ceases to exist. Damn it's like u don't understand my theory. I need u to study Genesis chapter 12 vs 10 - 20 Den u will understand that adultery is a no no for me |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:11pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Cutehector: I actually laughed out loud for real after reading this Cool |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:11pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
talk2bells:It's purely baby love. The least a girl could wait for a guy is one year or at best 10 months. |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Cutehector(m): 10:17pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Talk2Bella: ![]() I just don't like seeing people get heartbroken unnecessarily. I knw u"ve been heartbroken a couple of times even though u"ll Wana deny it. It's understandable. But becoming heartbroken is a choice, Not a circumstance. Phew. Don't mind me oooooo... ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by mzhorlah(f): 10:22pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Communicate with him...communication mks relationship work out |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:22pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
DeeTus: And you came to this conclusion how? |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:22pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
mzhorlah: That's if one of the partner isn't already far gone |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:K |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:25pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Cutehector: It's more like the other way round ![]() When things get heated I take a walk I waited on someone for 2 years, sex just ain't my thing so it was really very easy to wait and pursue other things like school and stuffs. When I realised it wasn't leading anywhere i took a walk so I won't be used to make an example |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:27pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: I think women have the "we sabi hold body syndrome" more than men ![]() |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:You see, love is purely heart-to-heart thing and of course, meeting or seeing each other. Bella, how would you feel if you haven't seen your husband for couple of months? Tell me, would you gonna be happy? |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Cutehector(m): 10:31pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:sex wasn't ur thing then... don't say sex isn't ur thing like on a forever and ever basis... There will be a time when sex will be your thing, and so God help u, u have the will to contain it ![]() Besides, are u still single? |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:35pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Cutehector: Still isn't That's why I enjoy long distance relationship As for the other Q wouldn't be wise to answer that here |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:37pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
DeeTus: Hahahahahahaha you're funny My husband you said and it's not like he's missing or in jail I'd definitely know where he is, that's a whole different issue |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Cutehector(m): 10:41pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:why wouldn't sex ever be ur thing? Were u a victim of female genital mutilation? |
Re: Should I Cheat On Him Just Once? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Sep 25, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:You've failed a simple test here. ![]() Next time, when I ask you a question, please just answer it honestly and whole-heartedly, and not being tricky. ![]() |
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