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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by oluwalewis(m): 6:42am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Nancy2016: They will be the one to counsel young couples, let them kip deceivin themselves. Gone are those days wen men treat their wives as slaves and wives believe they must suffer for men's irresponsibilities. If u can't take the heat get out of the kitchen before he/she kills u 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 7:06am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Nancy2016:it's just the occasional misunderstanding between couples which most times were caused by the mother of the girl due to her undue meddlings in the marriage. Anyway, she has achieved her aims and the marriage has hit the rocks |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Creamish(f): 8:13am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Nancy2016: If only they will bother to conduct an actual survey instead of basing their arguments on hearsay. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by joseph1832(m): 8:40am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Nancy2016:Not always true. Some families like that still earn less, as may the man or in some case, woman is th sole provider. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 12:33pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
CuteMorriz:You don't have any statistics or proof to back that up and I am very sure your type would take a woman's money without thinking twice! Hypocrite! 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 12:49pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Trina0936:Taaaah....on a more serious note how many ladies earn much? Very few...is it those secretaries, front desk officers, merchandisers, marketers, cashiers, customer service et al...the very few in consulting, core banking, medicine are already married before they are 26...unless you are talking about the iyarugbos who are not married and are often above 33 (not my portion though)....so ...when people talk about young girls having morning is it the 68k salary...?taaaaaah...make I hear word...money wey them dey exhaust before month end.....tah 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 1:15pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
CuteMorriz:You already proved with this reply that you are indeed an immature kid as everyone has attested to on this thread. Grow up 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 1:47pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Trina0936:it is a norm even at work when you tell people the obvious truth they seek cover and shield themselves with the matured/immature trash...yawns...let me enlighten you...I am a contract staff with an fmcg (project engineer) in the whole engineering dept females don't work there...in fact in most fmcgs females don't work in production and barely works in engineering.(that is where you get paid for over time and target bonus)...now if you move to admin sales and all...the young female sales trainee is between 21-25 years and as trainee they earn less than 100k (no thanks to recession and slash in salaries) or less...when the get to junior sales analyst they already in their mid to late twenties...at that point the good ones are all picked...the remaining become iyarugbos...I did my IT with gtb same thing is applicable. The ND's (45k) and the HND's 68k...those that came in as ETs (210k) then were all taken...and they were very FEW. I met 3 batches of ETs before I left and in the second batch just a female. I had tried my hands with KPMG during NYSC and during the assessment centre we were 16 divided into 2 groups...in the first group 1 female, mine none. Although I fell out at the partner interview...so what is the population of females who are young and are high earners? Yes some earn high what is their age again? They prolly worked hard/smart and climbed through the ranks. How old are they? Abeg make I hear word...who woman money epp?...sharwama and boxers...lol 3 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 2:07pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
CuteMorriz:You haven't even seen half of life yet so quit telling us your life story. We have better things to do than listen to the story of your life. You are still immature and it has nothing to do with age. Once again,grow up! 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 2:15pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
CuteMorriz: So what of people (make) like us raised by a single mother any judgement against us, anyway all what you wrote is your personal opinion, women still leave their husband and ruin their Marriages and they are from homes with both parents. 3 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 2:23pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Trina0936:lol...I came up with the statistics around me cos you claim my statements were vague now I gave you facts. You can also make enquiries...o o o...now it's no longer statistics it is about exposure and seeing life...? Huh? Babe na wa for you...you can change like APC... |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 2:28pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
CuteMorriz:But its true. You can't use just one scenario to judge. Besides, what do you even know about life,you are just below 30. While life begins at 40 according to a popular adage! Bros,you need to get to certain age and move around before you can start drawing conclusions, once more your statistics are flawed. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by bukatyne(f): 2:38pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Timbuktou: @Topic: I thought you were unmarried and have a son? 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Efewestern: 2:52pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
PaperLace: Can i give you a kiss ? You nailed it.. Couldn't reply d op.. don't have his time.. and yea am a Male.. so not all guys think like that. #Peace 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 3:28pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Trina0936:I would have really loved to meet you in person...you were the one who said age has nothing to do with maturity...check ur previous post...what else can I say...you are quite slippery... |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 3:33pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
bukatyne: And? |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 5:27pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
CuteMorriz:There is a huge difference between maturity and experience even though they correlate. One can be young,experienced and immature as well as inexperienced and mature. I was actually viewing experience from the age angle ie the longer you live,the more experience you get; doesn't necessarily make one mature in character and reasoning though. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 5:32pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Trina0936:you will make a good solicitor... |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 5:37pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
CuteMorriz:Unfortunately I prefer playing with people's intelligence Makes for a good sales person/marketer. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 7:42pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
bukatyne: |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Iffffffy(f): 10:55pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
LadyMercedes:very shallow 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by cyndyzuriks(f): 12:01pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
Timbuktou: you are right! the way we write matters a lot, choice of words always makes a difference. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by twinklestar(m): 3:57pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
Dfinex:I dey laugh @ 'one track mind' . When people attribute societal failures hastily to non-empirical oddities, you only wonder where the 'simplistic' conclusion emanated. In this case, misogyny is a tip of the iceberg. Funny enough, OP might be oblivious of his 'attitudinal definition'. One would think OP has low self esteem, thus he's afraid of getting entangled with an independent and bold lady. The single parent story is just a smoke screen |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Teespice(f): 7:29pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
don't marry a divorcee don't marry a single mother don't marry a girl raised by a single parent. she's single, it's a problem. with all these stereotypes, tell me why there won't be a rise in the number of single women available. it is well. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by bukatyne(f): 1:12am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Timbuktou: I am wondering why you would want your son discriminated against. 3 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Jimi23(m): 4:47am On Sep 30, 2016 |
CuteMorriz: Thats not an elder states man. Thats a biased old man who cant even tell the fate of his own daughter or grand daughter's future. Which woman wants to become a single mum? If his own daughter becomes a single mum by no fault of hers i'm sure he will not say all that crap about his grand daughter. Ur uncle lacks wisdom. He is a dum-b, evil old man. |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by chillbabe(f): 5:15am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Ini Edo and Tiwa where they not raised by both parents? How did theirs pan out!!! If it's not tribe it's religion now it's single mom's. Nairaland guys are something else. cindyrocks: 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 6:12am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Jimi23:shatttap ya mouth little jimi...don't spit out ignorance about a man you barely know.... 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Jimi23(m): 8:42am On Sep 30, 2016 |
CuteMorriz: Tell ur uncle he is an old shallow nitwi-t. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by doctor5050: 12:11pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Trina0936:hi,what were the questions like? |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 12:58pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Most Nairalanders just love to complicate their lives and confuse themselves with all kinds of rules and regulations governing matters of the heart.. Y'all never cease to amaze me sha Oh jeez! 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 1:21pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
bukatyne: My thoughts on this thread are as close to my beliefs as possible. Should my beliefs change because my son appears to fall on the wrong side of them? Would it be alright to have my beliefs if my son wasn't in that demographic? Some of us try to be dispassionate, you know. Especially when the stakes are very high as in the case of marriage. Anyway, you would have to show me where I asked for discrimination against these people. All I have advocated for is people be careful when marrying people in this demographic. |
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